Nditsho nomntu omdala unemincili phambi kosuku lokuqala lokusebenza kwindawo entsha. Yintoni onokuyithetha ngomntwana oqala ukufundela kwesinye isikolo. Ingcali yoLawulo lwezaBasebenzi, ugqirha wezengqondo nuriy Arhipov uyazi njani ukuba umntwana ujamelane nale meko inzima.
Ukulungelelaniswa kwindawo entsha kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, phakathi kwendawo yokugcina izinto ezenziwa ngumntu ongumntwana azibalulekile, ubuntu, ubuhlobo, ubuhlobo. Izizathu zikwabalulekile, ngokunxulumene noko kufuneka utshintshe isikolo. Kwaye ukuba yonke into icacile ngamanqaku onobumba: Owona mntwana uvulekile, ixesha elihlekisayo liza kudlula, izizathu zotshintsho lwesikolo zinokuyishukumisa yonke into.
Ukuba ingutshintsho ichaziwe ngumnqweno wokufunda izinto ngobunzulu, ukuguquguquka kuyasebenza ngokulula, umntwana usenokungaphulukanga kwisangqa esiqhelekileyo sonxibelelwano, gcina ubudlelwane nabantu abafunda nabo.
Ukuba inguqu kwisikolo esitsha senzekile ngenxa yotshintsho kwindawo yokuhlala, emva koko umntwana ubonakala nezizathu ezininzi zoxinzelelo: Indawo entsha yokufunda, ikhaya elitsha, akukho zihlobo.
Esona sinzima xa utshintsho lwesikolo lwenzeka ngenxa yeengxabano zangaphambili. Kule meko, umntwana sele efumene amava angalunganga onxibelelwano okanye nootitshala, okanye nabantu ofunda nabo: Kubalulekile ukuba imeko ayenzeki kwakhona.
Zonke ezi zizathu zinokuboniswa ngendlela yazo kwindlela yokuziphatha kunye nemeko yesikolo esikolo. Umntwana usenokungabinalo ixesha, ukuba ahlangabezana noxinzelelo, abe novalo, avaliwe okanye, ngokuchasene, ulapha. Kwaye kufuneka abazali bancede umntwana ngobomi obunzima kuye.
Ingcali yengqondo nurura aripov
Ingcebiso ebalulekileyo
SUKACHODI zamanqaku amabi. Kungcono ukunceda kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kodwa imeko. Kwakhona, thetha, chaza into engaqondakaliyo, yeza kutitshala ngemibuzo.
Musa ukugcwala. Imfundo eyongezelelweyo ibhetele ukuhlehlisa, vumela umntwana makabe nenkqubo yokufunda. Kuyafana kunokubangelwa yimisebenzi yasekhaya.
Nxibelelana. Kwisikolo esitsha, kubalulekile ukuba siqhelane nootitshala, utitshala weklasi, abazali babafundi ofunda nabo, ngokubanzi, bakhuthaza amanyala aluncedo kunye nokuthandana. Owona msebenzi wakho ophambili kukuba nomdla kwindlela oqhubeka ngayo unxibelelwano, lunjani ubudlelwane kwiqela. Umntwana akasoloko esabelana ngento enokwabelana ngayo, kungcono kwaye uchanekile ekuqaleni ukugcina isandla sakhe sibambe ngesandla.
Sika ixesha kunye. Beka ishishini lakho ixesha elithile kwaye uzame ukubakho ukuze uxoxe ngeengxaki, kwaye uncokole nje. Umntwana wakho ngoku uyakufuna ngaphezu kokuba - azame ukuba nguyena Mhlobo wokwenene aze asungule ubudlelwane naye.