Nokuba kwenzeka ntoni ngokugcwele, kodwa i-terrogate ukuba bube yindlela yemeko yeminyaka yakutshanje. Batsho ukuba kukho amadoda ahlala ehloniphayo ngobhaliso kwindawo yendlela yeRubyvo, ngendlela yokubonakala ekukhanyiseni umxokelelwane wokuzalwa. Kwaye yintoni, yonke impumelelo icacile. Ngokutshintshiselana ngemali eqinileyo, bafumana indlalifa esemthethweni- kwaye akukho ngxaki nomfazi wakhe, ukuba ubomi bentsapho abuyi kusekelwa ngequbuliso. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, njengoko usazi, iphupha elibi layo nayiphi na imali yengxowa mali eqinileyo ziinkundla zelungelo lokugcina abantwana. Kwaye imali yezi ntlawulo ichithe ngaphezulu kokuba umama othethelwa ngumama (ngaphandle kwethemba, ilifa kunye nengcikivo) leza kuhlangula. Njengabantu baseShishini, oo-Oligriss baya kutyunjwa kukhetho lwesibini. Kucacile ukuba bakhetha amagama abo khuseleko. Kodwa abantu abadumileyo, beqhele ukuba engqondweni, bathanda ngokuvumayo ngoncedo loomama abatshatileyo. Baqinisekile: Amava abo anokunceda amawaka eentsapho kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zeplanethi ukuba babe ngabazali nangona zonke iimeko.
Imbali yefashoni
Ngapha koko, i-surrogate mamandalo yasimahla yazi phantse amaxesha amandulo. Uye waxelela umhlaba ngebali malunga ne-strathonik, owayengakwazi ukuzala iindlalifa kwindoda yakhe yokutya. Kwaye emva koko wacebisa ukhetho lokulalanisa: Khetha phakathi kwe-ruribhane oyena mhle kwaye wamitha umntwana kuye. Uyolo lokungazithembi, iDaetatar yanika iqabane ukuba limisele ilungelo lokuba ngunina wokuba ngunina wabantwana bakhe. Ke omnye woomama baqala i-surrogate yaba yi-elektro, iiofisi ze-strathonik bezinyusa njengezabo.
ERoma yamandulo, kukho iimeko xa amadoda anika abafazi bawo abanesibini esineziqhamo. Umntwana wavela kulo nxantathu ongaqhelekanga wathathwa njengendlalifa esemthethweni. Kwaye kwenye yeetempile ezindala zaseIndiya, i-Fresco igcinwe, exela ukuba unesifo sokuthantatyeliswa komntwana, ikamva legorha elikhulu, ukusuka esibelekweni somzingeli esibelekweni.
Umhlali wase-Illinois uElichuth Cane waba ligosa lokuqala uMama. Ngo-1980, wanyamezela umntwana ukuba abe ngumfazi ongazaliyo (igama lakhe lalishiywe engaziwa) kwaye imbuyekezo yemali efanelekileyo yanika abathengi.
Phakathi kwabantu baseRhafokazi, onguvulindlela kule ndawo banokugqalwa kuthathwa njengomdlali oqaqambileyo uRobert de Niro Niro. Ndikunye nentombi yakhe, imodeli yase-Afrika yase-African yaseTuku Smith, wacela uncedo kumama omama. Kuyinyani, i-Gemini Julian Henry noAaron Kendorrick bavela ekukhanyeni emva kokuba isibini saqhekekile. Yintoni engaphazamisi abathandi bangaphambili kwaye bazixabise iindlalifa zabo. Namhlanje amakhwenkwe sele eneminyaka elishumi elinesixhenxe ezelwe, kwaye bakhetha indlela yabo ebomini. Ngendlela, Robert de Niro, ababesoloko bephupha usapho olukhulu, kulo nyaka uphelileyo babhekiswa kwiinkonzo zamakanina ehlulekileyo. Yena kunye nenkosikazi yakhe yangoku amaGunya-hitauer yazalwa intombi, eyazalelwa nguHelen Humbiuer de Niro Niro. Esi sibini sele sinomntwana osisine, kwaye amaqabane afuna abantwana. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba iminyaka yobudala ayisavunyelwa ukuba ikwenze, ukuze ithethe, ngendlela engaqhelekanga (ngonyaka (kunyaka nkqonkqoza unamandla amashumi amathandathu), kwagqitywa kwelokuba kwenziwe ithuba lenye indlela.
Isibini esibambeleyo uSarah Jessica Pisker noMateyu Broderick kwiminyaka emithathu eyadlulayo, kwazenzela ukhetho kwi-surma. Ngapha koko, iinyani zamaqabane azifihli ngokukodwa eluntwini. Kumatshini wokushicilela, wawubizwa ngokuba ligama 'labancedi "- yayilishumi lamashumi amabini anesithandathu seMelika. Kuyinyani, iPaparazsing ye-paparaz iyonakaliswa yonke into: kangangexesha elithile basukelana nentombazana elihlwempuzekileyo, ekhangela ezinye iinkcukacha ezintsha zobomi bakhe. Kodwa ke, wawuzaliseka ke umthetho wakhe. NgoJuni ka-2009, amantombazana-tern amantombazana aMantombazana Marion Loretta Elvell noTabita bavele. "Uqhelene nabantwana, endaweni yokuba uzale, kwakungathi kukuhamba kancinci," waba nenxaxheba kamva kunye neParker yoLuntu. -Kwabonakala kum ukuba umhlaba uphume okomzuzwana. Ndikhumbula kuphela ingubo apho iintsana zilele khona, kunye nobuso bomyeni wam kunye nonyana olizibulo. " Ngendlela, malunga nonyana omkhulu: Ngoku uJames Willew sele phantse iminyaka elishumi, ungumntwana wokuqala kaSara noMateyu noMateyu, bazalelwe ngendlela eqhelekileyo. Isibini esitshatileyo kunye naba bantwana babeza kwenza le nkqubo, kodwa yonke imizamo yokupaka yakhulelwa ilize. USara ke uthi: "Sisoloko siphupha ukuba nabantwana abaninzi. -Ndiyazi ukuba imibuzo emininzi ibiza kuwe kum: "Kutheni ungasamkeli? Kutheni le nto bekungakwenzi oko? Kutheni le nto ungayenzanga? "Ndikholelwe, mna nomyeni wam siye sajonga zonke izinto ezinokwenzeka, kwaye olu khetho lwalululuhlu lwethu."
UNicole Kidman noKit, ngeentombi, iintombi ze-sandy rose. Ifoto: IiNgxelo zeRex / i-uftodom.ru.
Imeko efanayo kunye ne-Nicole Kidman kunye neqabane lakhe, inqwelo-mafutha ye-CHEDIA. Kuyinyani, ngokwahlukileyo kwiParker kunye nomntu obhinqileyo, bathatha ixesha elide ekufikeleleni emva koko ukugcwaliswa kuza kwintsapho yabo. Kwaye kuphela xa umntwana wabo waba nguBargaret wavela kwiLifa nge-28 kaDisemba ngo-2010, esabelana ngovuyo kwihlabathi liphela. Ukunxibelelana neenkonzo zikamama omama nabo banyanzelisa isidingo. I-Kidsman yazala ngokukhawuleza okokuqala ngqa: yazalwa iSandis Sassey Rose rose xa sele ibuhlungu. Ephefumlelwe, uNicole kangangeminyaka embalwa bazama kakhulu ukukhulelwa. Kwaye ke amaqabane azikhumbule ezinye iindlela. "Igama lenkolo (elithetha" ukholo ") esilinike iBafazi yethu. Ngapha koko, kukholo kuphela olusinceda ngalo lonke ixesha ebesilindele ukuba ngumntwana. "
Isizungu segazi
Rhoqo oomama abaninzi bafuna nje ukuba balilolo, kodwa ngabantu abanxaniweyo. Ke, ibhola yebhola yeHlabathi yeHlabathi yeBhola yeHlabathi yeBhola yeHlabathi yeBhola yeHlabathi ngo-2010, kanye ngexesha leNdebe yeHlabathi eMzantsi Afrika, yazala unyana wakhe uRonaldo Jor. Ngelo xesha, imbaleki sele inonxibelelwano oluthandayo noManyano, i-Irina Shake imodeli. Ke ngoko, ekuqaleni iindaba zokuqala ngokwendlela yendlalifa eya eRonaldo iboshwe ngegama lakhe. Hayi. Kuyacaca ukuba kwangaphambi kwentlanganiso kunye nobuhle be-Ural, imbaleki "yayalela" umntwana ongumama olwenziweyo, eyokuyisela i-SENA (ngokwemigangatho yaseRussia) isixa sezigidi ezilishumi. Iyongeza kwi-MOME yethu, i-Makhaya enkenenkene, ingako ukusindisa! Kodwa, njengoko umshicileli wabhala, ngenxa yoko umdlali webhola ohlawulelwa kwimfihlo ngokupheleleyo. "Sinesivumelwano esihamba kunye nonina womntwana wethu ukuba ndimgcine igama lakhe. Kwaye savuma ukuba ndiza kuba kuphela komzali ekuphela komzali ophakamisayo kunye nokuphakamisa lo mntwana. "
Umfoti odumileyo u-Anie Leibovitz waba ngumama kubudala bamashumi amahlanu anababini, wazala intombi kaSara. Ngabahlobo abasondeleyo, wayesabelana, luhlobo luni lolonwabo lokuzinikela kungekuphela kwiiseshoni zefoto, kodwa nokukhulisa umntwana. Kwaye kwiminyaka emine kamva, owona mfanekiso mpengileyo wabasetyhini wagqiba kwelokuba aphendukele kuncedo lwamamama kamama, ngelo xesha akazange akwazi ukuzala. NgoMeyi 2005, uSamuweli uSamuweli noSusan amawele azalwe. Ngolu lo msitho, uluntu ngokubanzi lwafunda ngandlel 'ithile, phantse ngamathuba. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, iLeibovitz, onobubele kunye nabantu odumileyo wehlabathi, ngokwakhe bakhetha ukuhlala kude ne-smophists. Ewe, emva kokuba engumama omkhulu, waphantse wayeka ukubonakala esidlangalaleni. "Ndiziva ndingengangomfopi odumileyo, kodwa umlawuli wenkampu yehlobo, eso ngenxa yeso sizathu saqala ukusebenza unyaka wonke."
Kwiminyaka elishumi eyadlulayo, ngo-2002, unyana wazalwa kuMichael Jackson, owayeyinkosana uMichael II. Ekhohlo yedwa emva koqhawulo-mtshato, wagqiba kwelokuba esi yayingesosizathu sokuyeka amaphupha ukuba abantwana abaninzi. UJackson wakwamkela kwiintatheli: Xa wayekhangela umgqatswa ofanelekileyo wendima yomama othethelwayo, wakhokelwa yiparamitha enye - ubukrelekrele bayo. Zonke iintlobo ze "izinto ezincinci" njengabantu abadala, ubuzwe kunye nezinye, kungenjalo akukho lula. Ke ngoku ntoni? Inenekazi alinyulileyo, kamva yagxotha i-Pop Pop. Uzamile ukuqinisekisa ubunguda kwinkundla, kwaye kwangaxeshanye wacela "ukuthozama" kwibhiliyoni yeedola kunye nethuba lokubona unyana kathathu ngeveki. Imvumi yala ukubona uBilly Gin (lo mfazi yindawo enobuchule! - Linxibe igama elifanayo negama le-megahit kaJackson) lonyana omncinci. Kwabonakala ngathi ivaliwe. Nangona kunjalo, emva kokubhubha kwe-POP King, le nto yabhengezwa kwakhona-ngemfuneko elandelayo ukumnika umntwana, kwaye kwangaxeshanye umthetho wokugcinwa kwenkwenkwe. Kodwa ngeli xesha akazange aphumelele.
URicky Martin waba nguyise wamawele amabini kunye neValentino yeValentino ngo-Agasti ka-2008. Ubavusa bodwa. Ngenxa yabantwana, uMartin watyhalela umsebenzi wakhe ngasemva kwaye wazinikela ngokupheleleyo kubantu abatshutshisiweyo. Ngokutsho kwamanye amarhe, abantwana banyamezele uKuzina Ricky. Nangona imvumi eye yahlula-hlula udliwanondlebe awayeyifumene umama othethelwayo ... Ngokwekhathalogu kwaye wangazange adibane naye. "Xa abantwana bam bandibuza ukuba baphi na umama wabo, ndiza kubacacisela ukuba ayizizo zonke iintsapho eziquka noTata noMama," utsho ngekratshi. Kwezinye iintsapho, abantwana baphakamisa oomama ababini okanye ootata ababini, kwaye kukho iintsapho apho uTata omnye okanye umama omnye akakho kwaphela. " Ngendlela, imvumi yayisele ichazile ukuba inyathelo lakhe elilandelayo liya kuba kukwamkelwa kwenye, okanye nabantwana abaliqela.
UAlena Apina enentombi yeKsyusha. Ifoto: Lilia Sharlovskaya.
Indlela enamava
Nangona eRussia hlukana nomama kwaye uvunyelwe ngokusemthethweni, ngokuziqhelanisa, le nto ayiphuhliswanga. Ngokwedatha yakutshanje, kwilizwe lethu, malunga namakhulu amathandathu abantu baphendukela kwiinkonzo zoomama abaninzi. Xa kuthelekiswa: eMelika, inani labo lilishumi (!) Ngonyaka.
Nangona kunjalo, sinamabini athile afudukele kwenye indlela yokuba nabazali. Omnye wobokuqala ukuxela malunga ne-Alena Alena Alina kunye nomyeni wakhe umyeni uAlexander Iratov Iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov iratov. Yayingaphezulu kweminyaka elishumi eyadlulayo, ngo-2001, kwaye ke ukuqaphela kwalenza umphumo webhombu ephukileyo. Uninzi lwangaphandle luye lwacaphula amazwi emvumi, wamangalisa ukungafezeki kwakhe. Nokuba kwinqanaba lokulinda umntwana, uAlena wanika udliwanondlebe kwaye wachaza isigqibo sakhe: "Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ndazichitha inyanga, ndazi kakuhle ukuba mangaphi abafazi ngokungenaxhala. Umzekelo wam uza kubabonisa ukuba ayisiyiyo yonke into elahlekileyo. " Kwaye oku kuyinyani into yokuba izifundo ezininzi zibonisile: Zombini u-Alena, kwaye umyeni wakhe unempilo kakhulu. Kodwa apha khange amnike umntwana umntwana, kwaye kunjalo. Amanye amatyala awela kwiimfihlo: bathi, lo nguThixo ngento esohlwaywa. Kodwa ndandisazi ukuba andinazo izono: Andizange ndithathe indoda yam, andizange ndibashiye abantwana ngaphandle kotata ... "
Omnye umhlobo osebenze njengogqirha kwidolophu yephondo uncede u-Alena wafumana umama omangalisayo. Ibhinqa elinemfundo ephezulu, umama wabantwana ababini, wayefuna imali. Lonke ilizwe umama wayehlala kuye, kude noNoisy Moscow. U-Alena waphuphe ngokomntwana ukuba ahambe ngokuzalwa komntwana, kwaye xa i-custions yaqala, inqwelo moya yokuqala yangena kwidolophu yaseN. Kodwa intombi kaKsyusha yazalwa kade iiyure ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba imvumi ifumene ixesha lokufumana esibhedlele. Kwangoko emva kokuzalwa, umama othethelwa ngumama kunye nentombazana yambanjwa ngamagumbi ahlukeneyo. Ngendlela, iqabane lika-Alena elisisiseko lalisingasazi ngalo mfazi: "Ngoba? Ndifuna ukunxulumana nomntwana wam kuphela nenkosikazi yam. "
Abantwana i-Olga Slutcker, iimbaleki ezidumileyo kunye nabanini zenethiwekhi ye-fitness kings, zazalwa zinoomama abathandanayo. Okokuqala, unyana kaMikhail wavela kwihlabathi, kwiminyaka emihlanu kamva - intombi yentombazana. Ngale nto, i-slucker yayifanele iwele ngaphaya kolwandle, eMelika: Ngelo xesha eRussia, ukuba nomama wayehlala yinto eyoyikekayo. Apho ke ngoko buqu ibhinqa elavuma ukuba nomnyamezele umntwana wakhe. Emva kwexesha, uOlga wayekho ngokuzala umntwana, emva koko wayesengumlingane osemthethweni weVladimir ngokobuqu.
Kodwa, kunjalo, abo bantwana abadumileyo abavela kumama omanye nabo baya kukhula kunye noPhilip Kirkorov. NgoNovemba kunyaka ophelileyo wazalwa yintombi, eyayibizwa ngokuba yi-Alla Victoria, kwaye ngehlobo, unyana, ogama linye imvumi lisaqhubeka emfihlekweni. Ngokubanzi, uPhilip, ngesiqhelo intetho enjalo, ngokungalindelekanga yaba yindoda enokugcina iimfihlo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, de kube lixesha lokugqibela efihlakele kuyo yonke into yokuba waguqukela kwiinkonzo zamanina omama.
Uluntu, njengoko kulindelwe, baphendule. Abanye bavuya ngokunyaniseka yimvumi, abanye bawa ngeziqalekiso. "Ehlabathini lonke laseNtshona, ukuba nomamayo yinto yokudlala abantu abadala abakhulileyo. Icawe ngokuchasene nendlela yokubonakala komntwana. Sisono! " -I-Peacon Andrei Kuraev icaphukisa umxholo.
UNicole Kidman noKit, ngeentombi, iintombi ze-sandy rose. Ifoto: IiNgxelo zeRex / i-uftodom.ru.
Ewe, kuluhlu lweenkwenkwezi zabantu abadumileyo, basonjululwa ukuba ngabazali ngoncedo lwamamama omama, kukho abantu aboyiweyo. Ewe, hayi kuphela. Iingcali zengqondo nazo ziyadideka: Lithini ikamva labantwana kwiintsapho ezifanayo? Kodwa abazali abatsha abamameli nabani na kwaye banandiphe ulonwabo lukatata wobanjwa (kwaye ubunama ngaxeshanye?). Ke, uEltah John kunye neqabane lakhe uDavid uFernash uyaphila unyana kaZakari Jackson Liv. Inkwenkwe ibonakale ukuchaneka kweKrisimesi-isipho esinjalo seza eholideyini. Ngaphezu koko, esi sibini sibonisa ngokwahlukeneyo ekuzaleni kwaye sibukele umzuzu ngamnye wenkqubo engaqondakaliyo. "Kwiwadi siye saphakama ecaleni kwebhedi. Okokuqala, intloko yonyana wethu yabonakala emhlabeni, yonke into yenzeke ngokukhawuleza. Kubonakala ngathi umntwana wabhabha ngaphandle njengelitye. Awukacimi ukuba uchulumancisa njani! "
Ewe, uluntu lusaza kukrokrela kule nto. Ukongeza kwicala lokuziphatha kwetyala kukho inani leengxaki zengqondo, imiphumo yoko ayikafundwanga. Ke, kuyaziwa ukuba umntwana phantse kwiintsuku zokuqala zokukhulelwa, ukuba zizilumko, uziva unoyolo nonina, uvuyo nosizi kunye nosizi kunye nosizi kunye nosizi nosizi nosizi kunye nosizi nosizi kunye nosizi nosizi nosizi nosizi nosizi nosizi nosizi nosizi nosizi nosizi nosizi nosizi nosizi nosizi nosizi nosizi. Kwaye isayensi ayinakuphendula umbuzo wokuba umntwana uza kuyichaphazela njani i-psyche oye wayitsala njani yedwa njengendawo yokuthengiswa. Ihluthwe kuqala, ebaluleke kakhulu emzimbeni onxibelelana naye ngomama webhayoloji ngokukhawuleza emva kokuziswa. Akabekeli umntwana esifubeni sakhe, akaziva ephunga ulusu lwayo. Ngokukhawuleza ingena kwinkathalo, izalamane, kodwa "yesithathu" izandla ...
Nangona kunjalo, kwenye ikomityi yesikali, umkhosi wonke weentsapho ezingenamntwana, eziphupha ngenzondelelo ngokuba ngoomama nootata. Ngokweenkcukacha-manani, malunga neepesenti ezingamashumi amabini kwezibini ezitshatileyo azinamandla emvelo wokuzalwa kwabantwana. Ngapha koko, rhoqo izizathu zokunganyamezeleki kwabo azifakwanga, kuba kuzo zonke izikhombisi zombini abazali baphilile. Kwaye i-therrogate engafaniyo ngayo yonke kuphela kwethuba lokufumana iindlalifa. Bayeke neendlela ezingaqhelekanga nezingaqhelekanga.