Uphuhliso lowona mthetho uphambili wendalo iphela. Konke okusingqongileyo kuhlala kuphuma kwaye kuphuculwe. Uninzi lwabantu alufuni kuphuhliswa ngesazela, kwaye lo ngumthombo wengxaki enkulu.
Oku kungenxa yeepesenti zengqondo zengqondo, kuyilangazelela uzinzo kwaye uzama ngazo zonke izinto zabo zokuhlala kwindawo yokuthuthuzela. Kodwa phambi komntu, umsebenzi wokuphuhlisa ofanelekileyo usengqiqweni, kwaye nangakumbi kuzo zonke iindawo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, lona namhlanje akanalo ixesha lokuphuhlisa itekhnoloji entsha, iinkqubo zekhompyuter, ezingekho mbutho, kunzima ukufumana umsebenzi ofanelekileyo. Xa umntu engena ekuphikiseni kwenyani, iqala ukwakha ifomathi "yomphefumlo" ukwenza ulwakhiwo ngokutsha lwendawo yokuhlala.
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Inzonzobila phakathi kwenyani yabatshati zikhula. Indoda yayingazange ifune ukuyikhupha, izama ngokunyaniseka ukuseka ubudlelwane obunzima, ukukholelwa kwesiphumo esihle. Umfazi wamthumela nge-psychology yakhe kunye nobunye ubumoya obude noCassiopea, kwaneliswa yile jimu. Ukubona ukonakaliswa komntu, uthando lomyeni walo kwinkosikazi yaseGala, akakwazanga kuma. Kuba umfazi waba lukhuni. Iminyaka yakudala ihleli. Umntwana wasinda kwiNdlu kukunganyamezeleki konina ongenakuphela konina. Impilo yakhe ukusuka kuxinzelelo luwa kabukhali. Ngenxa yokuphazamiseka okungapheliyo kwengqondo, wagxothwa emsebenzini. Ngequbuliso, wayenguyise osele ekhulile, asusela kuye ebuntwaneni "ngezifiso", wayenempilo, kwafuneka ahambe naye, athabathe yena. Ubusuku bawa onke amanqanaba obomi. Wahlala kwindawo eyaphukileyo, ecaleni kobomi, ngoba? Indalo iphela yenze ifomathi enzima kuba uyekile kuphuhliso.
Ukubhekiswa kwinyani yentlalo, umntu uqala ukukhubeka ngento yokuba uye waphila ubomi obubulalayo. Kwi-Psychology ibizwa ngokuba yi "uqikelelo". Indoda eyoyikayo nengakhuliyo inetyala macala onke, ngaphandle kwakhe. Le yi-Lophole yomntu oye waqhelaniswa kuphuhliso lwayo, kwaye le yimeko yexhoba.
Khumbula, ukuba inyani ayihambelani nolindelo lwakho, okokuqala kuko konke kubalulekile ukuze kuphuhliswe ngoku: Ukuphucula umgangatho woluntu ngokusebenzisa isantya esikhawulezileyo. Engayiqondi, uya kuqokelela zonke izibonelelo zehlabathi.