Ngaba ungayichaza i-daffodium kwiwadi yakhe? Mhlawumbi nangona ingafanelekanga ukuba ungayicingi kangangoko. Abantu abanobuchule, nokuba banikezela kwisifo sekliniki, sinokubonwa kwi "phawu lokuphumelela", njengokunyanzelwa kwezambatho ezibizayo, kodwa bakwazi ukuvavanya ngokufanelekileyo inkcubeko kunye neemotifs zabo . Izifundo zichaza i-psychology yolu phawu.
I-flash ekhanyayo okanye incinci ithetha okungakumbi?
Uninzi lwe-daffodils luthanda ukuba liziko lokunikwa ingqalelo-kwaye baya kutsala ingqalelo ngoncedo lweempahla eziqaqambileyo, isazisi esidibeneyo kunye nembonakalo yomtsalane. Ngokuhambelana, sinokuzibona ngokutsho kwezinto zoyilo kunye nezinto ezixabisa kakhulu, nokuba akukho ndlela yokuziphatha, njengokutyekela. Kodwa xa sisebenzisa iingubo neemfashini kwi-psychoanalysis ukuze sigwebe ubuntu, sibeka esikweni ukulungisa abantu abalungileyo nabanesisa abafuna ukujongana neklasi ekhethekileyo ye-nacissus, enayo ukuzibandakanya kwintengiso ngesilayidi senkcubeko kwisikhundla.
I-narcissus uthando lokutsala umdla
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I-Hannah iTire kunye ne-nara yun kwinqaku elithi "Indlela engakhuselekanga kanjani i-daffodis engakhuselekanga" (2020) iphanda indlela iimpawu zobuqu zercissism kunye nengqondo yengqondo ephembelela ukuba i-narbissim yenkcubeko. Kwimeko yesifundo sangaphambili efunda oko bakuchazayo njenge "nkcubeko ye-OmIvores", bagxile kwindlela iindlela zentlalo noqoqosho ezichaphazela ngayo izinto ozithandayo xa kuthelekiswa neediples eziphantsi.
I-Shin kunye ne-Yun iphanda ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zenkcubeko, kubandakanya nemizekelo yefashoni njenge "indiza yeempawu zexabiso lezinto ezimbi zendlela." Baphawula ukuba ukomeleza i-narcissism kuchaphazela indlela abathengi ngayo abathengi, kuba iNarcissus idla ngokuthenga iimveliso zokukhuthaza ukwakhela. Ngokuhambelana, ukongamela unxibelelwano olusekwe uphando phakathi kwe-narcissism kunye nokungakhuseleki, bathumela ukungakhuseleki kwe-narcissist kunye nokuzama ukwahluka ngokuziphatha kwabathengi.
Isitayile se-egoistical: Umnqweno wokubonisa imeko okanye ukunyaniseka
Ukujonga izifundo zangaphambili, ubophelela i-narcissism kunye nomnqweno wokunikwa ingqalelo, bafunda indlela eya kuvela ngayo inkcubeko ukuba ibonakalise ama-Abetes wale mihla. Baye baphinda bajongane nezinto ezichaphazela ukuba zeziphi iziganeko zenkcubeko eli qela liphume kwaye lomeleze ukuba ngubani. ITire kunye nokungavumi ukuba ukutyelelwa "kwezenkcubeko ekrelekrele" yenkcubeko "yokwanelisa imfuneko, kwaye inkcubeko yenkcubeko yakhe yanelisa imfuneko yokugcina ingqibelelo yayo.
Jonga indlela yokuziphatha komntu
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Zilumkele iingcuka kwizikhuselo zeegusha: Umyinge utsho ngaphezu kwempahla
Kuyabonakala ukuba, ubuntu obuqhelekileyo bobuntu bunokubakho Uluhlu olubanzi lweempahla olukhethiweyo zinokukhokelela ekuchongeni ngokuchanekileyo. U-Narcissus, enxibe iimpahla ezingagungqiyo, unokubonakala ungotoli, wazisa ababukeli abalahlekisayo, bethatha icebo labo lokuthozama. Kodwa jonga nzulu: I-daffodils ihlukaniswe ngakumbi ngokuziphatha kuneengubo. Nokuba bayanxiba ngabom kwisidenge, okanye banqwenela ukuphucula ukuzibona kwengqibelelo, xa benxibe uhlobo, sibeka emngciphekweni uthatha impahla eqhelekileyo yokuthozama.
I-Narcissos inokugqitywa ngokunxulumene nempahla yokunxiba.
UPaul K. piff kwisifundo yi-narcissism kunye nodidi oluphezulu lwentlalo (ngo-2014), amanqaku aqotywayo abonakaliswa ngokuzinzileyo, "obandakanyekayo ngokuzonwabisayo ngokunxulumene nelinye" kunye nemvakalelo eyandayo , iqondwe njengobukhethekileyo kunye nomntu ngamnye. Uphawula ukuba enye yeempawu eziphambili ze-narcissism ngumthetho wengqondo-ukholo kwinto yokuba ufanele kwaye ubaluleke ngaphezu kwabanye abantu. Ezi mpawu zobuqu zichaneke ngakumbi kunokhetho lwe-windows, ngakumbi ziqwalasele iinjongo ezixubileyo ze-narcissa xa zikhetha imfashini. Ke ngoko, endaweni yokugweba ngencwadi enomdla kwikhava, chitha ixesha lokufunda, efihliweyo emva kwefashoni ekhanyayo okanye imveliso yokuthozama. Imbono ngqo yeemodeli ze-minecissive zokuziphatha ziya kukuvumela ukuba ungabopheleli kubuntu obungathandekiyo kwaye simahla ixesha elingakumbi lokugcina ubudlelwane bempilo.