Kuya kubonakala ngathi ayinakwenzeka ukuba le le ndawo iphambili kwinqanaba elinye xa kukho umntwana kwaye kukho umsebenzi. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngoku kuya kufuneka wenze into. Ixhala liqala nokufumana ibhalansi engapheliyo. Ungayi njani?
Kwangelo xesha, akunakwenzeka ukuba ulibale ukuba, okokuqala, abasetyhini kuya kufuneka baphulukane nobunzima ngonaphakade, bathathele ingqalelo umyeni wakhe, ukuba basebenze, phakathi kwetyala, ubuncinci Ngamanye amaxesha sinexesha lokudibana neentombi, esele inzima kakhulu ukugcina kufutshane, kuba uninzi lwabo lunokuba lutshatile okanye alunamntwana.
Kuya kubonakala ngathi ndenza umsebenzi ophumelelayo, kwaye ihlala yonwabile, kodwa ngalo lonke ixesha kukho imibuzo yangaphakathi kunye namathandabuzo, uqala ukwenza yonke imihla ngakumbi nangakumbi.
Namhlanje ndiye ndafumana indlela yokuphuma kule meko, ndenza iprojekthi yam "impelaveki." Ndayeka ukuxhomekeka kwishedyuli enesidima, imeko engaguqukiyo, kuxhomekeke kwi-crew yefilimu, efunekayo ukuze akwazi ukuziqhelanisa namanye amaxesha.
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Intombi yam uNina yiminyaka eyi-2 kuphela ye-2,5, kwaye le yeyona minyaka xa kungenakwenzeka ukuba ihambe kuye, ngokukhawuleza uqalisa ukubiza umama. Kodwa andikwazi nje ukundivumela ukuba ndihlale ekhaya ndilahle iprojekthi oyithandayo. Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka uyishiye nge-nanny. Ngomsebenzi wakho, sikhetha usuku olunye ngeveki kwaye sizame ukuba nexesha lokufumana iindawo ezi-3-4 ngosuku.
Ukusuka ecaleni Kubonakala ngathi kulula kakhulu, kodwa ndikholelwe, ngokutyelela kwindawo nganye yekhosi yekhosi ingaphantsi kwaye incinci. Kule nto, wonke umntu ngumbala omkhulu wobunyani bokuba ndicima kwaye ndikhawuleze ekhaya ukuba xa uNina igxuma emzimbeni, kwaye ndiziva ndiziva ndiziva ndinovuyo.
Kwaye kusenti tyhubhu, njengoko sihlala ngaphandle kwesixeko, ndingena embindini we-1.5, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iiyure ezi-2 - kunye nemva. Ke ngoko, ndizama ukwabela iintsuku ezimbalwa ngeveki kohambo olunje kwaye ndigubungela eyona nani iphezulu iiyure zomsebenzi ukuba nexesha lonke. Oku, kunjalo, ukuncanca amandla. Ndiyibuyisa indalo kunye nokuthula.
Ndifuna ukunika iresiphi okanye uhlobo oluthile lobugcisa bangaphambi kokuba benze ilungelelene. Lo ngumsebenzi onzima, kwaye ngamnye ngumntu. Ndancedwa yi "Ivili loBomi". Ingcaciso yile: Ubhala onke amabakala kwisangqa, njengabafana, le yintsapho, ukusingqongileyo, ukuzonwabisa, ezemidlalo, ezemali kunye nezo ndawo ibalulekile kuwe. Ngoku kufuneka uhlale uzolile kwaye ucinge malunga nokususela kwi-1 ukuya kwi-10 - ngaba iyanelisa ngalo mzuzu ngamnye kule mimandla? Beka uphawu kwinqaku elithile. Ibhalansi yile ingentla kunye ne-thabatha kwinqanaba elifanayo, emva koko ivili liyahamba. Ukuba kukho iinwele ezithile, kwaye sihlala sinento yokonga, silungelelanisa into yokuqala le ndawo. Ukunqongophala kweMidlalo - uqalisa ukwenza ukuhlawula okanye ukuqhuba kusasa. Ukuqaqamba kobomi kuphosakele-funda enye yezithuba zam zokugqibela kwaye uqhubeke ngale ndlela! Ndiyakuqinisekisa: Ngobusuku ngokuhlwa kuya kubakho imvakalelo yokugqibelela kwemifanekiso.