Kuba nawuphi na umntwana, le meko intsha i ni ntshikilelo enkulu, ke ngoko, ibetha enkulisa okanye iqela elitsha, umntwana angaqala ukuziphatha othukile okanye ngolona hlobo, ngenxa apho kusenokuba nzima ukuthetha noontanga. Kodwa emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kukho iimeko apho awukwazi ukuyeka umsebenzi kwaye uchithe lonke ixesha lakho emntwaneni, ke kufuneka usombulule le ngxaki, kwaye siya kukunceda kule ngxaki.
Kwi-Kindergarten, umntwana uhlala ephila kwiHlabathi liphela: Akanandawo yokulinda uncedo kwimeko engathandekiyo, ke i-psyche yosana iqala ukujamelana noxinzelelo ngazo zonke iintlobo zokuqala, kubandakanywa nomntwana ukusebenzisa ubugqwetha.
Kwiimeko ezigqithisileyo, umntwana ufanele abonakalise i-neurologist okanye ugqirha wengqondo, kodwa uninzi lwengxaki lunokusonjululwa ngeendlela ezenziwayo zemfundo.
Ubundlobongela babantwana
Qaphela indlela onxibelelana ngayo kusapho
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Ngokwesiqhelo ukungakhathali kwabantwana kuzavela kusapho, kwaye nazi izizathu eziphambili:
Ungayenza yonke into emntwaneni
Xa umntwana efumana yonke into efuna kuphela kubazali bakhe kuphela, uqhelane nobomi bakhe, ukuze imiyalelo emiselweyo kunye nemithetho ye-kindergarten imkhokelele ekubethweni: iqala ukulwa kwaye ihlala ihlasela ootitshala.
Umzekelo wabazali
Rhoqo, abantwana bakhula kwisimo, kude nemilinganiselo ngokubanzi eyamkele imilinganiselo, apho abazali bethatha isigqibo semibuzo neengxabano ngoncedo lokukhwaza kunye noncedo lwencwadi, akumangalisi ukuba umntwana uqalise ukuphinda.
"Amabala amhlophe" kwimfundo
Abantwana abancinci kakhulu "bangqina" abazali, bezama ukuqonda ukuba unganxibelelana njani nabo. Masithi umntwana uhleli ezandleni zakho kwaye ngequbuliso wakhupha isidlele. Ukuba umzali akamniki uqwalaselo kuyo, eyithathela ingqalelo iprank yabantwana, umntwana ufumana ukuba yeyiphi na indlela yokuziphatha evumelekileyo kwaye idlulisela kwabanye.
Kwenziwe ntoni?
Umntwana uya kufuneka abeke indawo yakhe emhlabeni, kwaye oku kufuneka ufundise unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo neli lizwe lehlabathi. Cinga ngeendlela eziphambili zokusombulula ingxaki:
Umntwana ovela kubudala obutsha "abamangalisa" abazali
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Qala nawe
Luthini ubudlelwane bosapho lwakho? Usombulula njani impikiswano neemeko zongquzulwano? Ukuba krwada kwaye ngokweemvakalelo, musa ukumangaliswa ukuba uqala ukukhalaza umntwana wakho. Zama ngelo xesha lencopho yengqungquthela yokuphefumla enzonzobileni kwaye uzolile, uya kubona ukuba akukho ngongoma ikhwaza, kwaye nangaphezulu nayiphi na imbambano inokusonjululwa yincoko.
Hlaziya indlela yakho yokukhulisa
Ewe, siyazi ukuba uyamthanda umntwana wakho, kodwa akuthethi ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba uxoxe naye ukuze uxubushe omnye umntu, uhleli malunga nendlela engaphantsi okanye emgceni. Musa ukulindela ukuba uya kuziqonda yonke into, hayi, ayiyi kukuqonda, kuba oko kukufuneka wena kunye namava obomi bakho.
Umntwana kufuneka azijoyine iqela labantwana
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Hyperactivity
Ukuba isizathu silele ngokugqithisileyo, sibhalisela ukwamkelwa kwi-neurologist, eya kuqhuba uphando kwaye, ukuba kukho imfuneko, yabela unyango. Ngaphandle koko, kukho umngcipheko wokuphuhliswa kwe-neurosis, ekunzima ukunyanga iminyaka kadala.