Awunakho ukuyibiza ngokuba yi-Ithintelo. Itayitile nganye nganye yingxoxo ebanzi. Kuyasinda isihloko esibalulekileyo "I-SIDRONGE" ukuze uzinikele kwinkonzo kwiiarhente zokunyanzeliswa komthetho. Iqokele ngequbuliso iphose umkhosi ngenxa yabantwana wokudlulisela "ubusuku obuhle, bantwana!". Emva koko ngesiquphe siqala ukucula, ukuqonda ngokugqibeleleyo ukuba le nyathelo lehlabathi elibonisa ishishini liya kuyixabisa. Kwaye emva koko, ngokupheleleyo bathi kulungile kolu shino lomboniso odumileyo ukuba atshabalale kwiingoma ezibomvu aza azinikela kusapho. I-Oksana Fedorova ixelelwe malunga nento ebalulekileyo kuye.
Kuwe buqu, usuku lokuzalwa loNyana lwaba yiSwevel ebomini?
I-Oksana Fedorova: "Ndingavuma ngokunyaniseka ukuba ngaphambi kokuzalwa kukaFeder sele utshintshe kakhulu. Ndikhumbula, umzekelo, ukuba ndikhulelwe, kweza kwikonisathi ethile, kwaye ngequbuliso isisu sam sagula kakhulu. Ndaye ndafumanisa ukuba lo mculo akawuthandi nyana wam, sahamba. "
Kuya kubangela umdla ukuba ibiyikhonsathi ...
I-Oksana: "Ewe, sele ndingakhumbuli uhlobo oluthile lomculi owenziweyo. Imalunga nelo xesha uNyana wayicacisa into ayithandayo, kwaye yintoni engeyiyo. Kukwanjalo nokutya: Sele ndisazi ukuba ufuna ukutya, kwaye yintoni ebinga ngcatha. Ke ngoko, ndazama ukulandela ukuzibona kwam ngaphakathi. "
Uthi: "Unyana waqonda." Oku kuthetha ukuba waziva ngokukhawuleza ukuba inkwenkwe iya kuba?
Oksana: "kwangoko. Kodwa ixesha elide asizange sifune ukwazi ngokuthe ngqo ngokwesondo somntwana, bafuna ukugcina ubungxwaba. Utata wethu (umyeni ka-Oksana. - Aptep.) Uthe: "Kwaye akufuneki ujonge, ngumntwana." Nangona abantu abaninzi besitsho ukuba, kuyo yonke imiqondiso, kuya kubakho ntombazana. "
Kwaye igama likhethe kwangaphambili okanye lilinde umzuzu ukuze ujonge umntwana kwaye uthathe isigqibo ngokuchanekileyo?
I-Oksanana: "Siqale ngokukhetha igama kwenye indawo phakathi kwekota. Kumfana, kwafunyanwa kwangoko-i-ferr, kodwa nentombazana ayikwazanga kuthatha isigqibo. Yintoni enye evumayo ukuba sicinge: Kuya kubakho indlalifa! Ewe, emva koko sajonga ubungqina kwaye saqonda ukuba eli gama likufutshane kwikhalenda ye-Orthodox. Ngendlela, kude kube sekuthethwa ukuba kuthetha ntoni "uFenti". Kwaye xa kwakufika iguqulelwe ukusuka kwisiGrike esi "sipho sikaThixo" samangaliswa. Ngapha koko, kunjalo. "
Ngaba ukhe watshintsha kakhulu emva kokuzalwa komntwana?
I-Oksanana: "Ewe kunjalo. Ndaqala ukuqonda usapho, abantu obathandayo, abahlobo. Ukanti, xa uwedwa, unomsebenzi entlokweni yakho, umvuzo, ezinye izinto ezinjalo zinobukrelekrele. Kwaye ngokuzalwa komntwana, uqala ukucinga ngaphezulu kwihlabathi liphela kwaye ngokusisiseko, okanye ... nayo yonke enye into ebomini bakho eyakhiwe ngokuthi nzulu. Ukanti, ukuba bube yintokazi engakhange injalo. "
Kodwa mhlawumbi kwakufuneka ndivume okuninzi ...
I-Oksanana: "Ewe ngoku andikwazi ukwahlukana kakhulu, ngequbuliso ndibhabhe kwenye indawo. Ewe, ndibotshelelwe kwinkqubo yomntwana. Kodwa ke mna ndaba noqeqesho ngakumbi. Ngokuzalwa konyana oyiqondayo, ngento ekufuneka uye ekhaya ngaphambili, umisela imithetho ethile, yenza indlela ekhethekileyo. Ndiqale ukucwangcisa yonke imihla ngononophelo. Izinto ezininzi ezingasebenziyo ziye ngasemva. "
Kwaye njani usuku lwakho ngoku?
I-Oksana: "UFenar uvuka ngentsimbi yesithandathu kusasa. Ngamanye amaxesha bendihamba naye, ngamanye amaxesha umama (emva koko ndingalala ukuya kuthi ga kwisixhenxe isixhenxe). Ngesithoba ndishiya ishishini, ndondla unyana wam sele esele Kodwa ndihlala ndizokuhlamba ngokuhlwa. UFedor uzolile ukungabikho kwam ukungabikho. Kodwa oku kuyaqondakala: Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, isejikelezile izalamane zayo, uthanda abantu bakhe. "
I-Oksana Fedorova. Ifoto: Lilia Sharlovskaya.
Sele efaka ingqiwulelo xa uthi naye?
Oksana:
"Uyayiqonda yonke into! Thumela, imo yezulu kaMama ... Ndithenge unyana wam zonke iintlobo zokuphuhlisa, imifanekiso. Sifunda naye iintsomi kunye naye, funda. Sele esazi ukuba ikati "meow", kunye nemoto - bbb.Ngubani ofana noFeor?
I-Oksana: "Ngandlel 'ithile, wathabatha kancinci kum, kwaye umyeni wam."
Kunye nesimilo?
I-Oksana: "Kwaye no-Andrey sinabalinganiswa abafanayo. Kwaye uFewer, ndiyathemba, uya kuba njalo - onamandla, oqaqambileyo, ongena kwinto yezinto. Unyana wethu uyabuza kakhulu: Xa umxelela into entsha, uyaphulaphula ngenyameko. Kwaye usanobuthathaka. Yenzeka, into iya kumxelela ngomnyama omncinci, kunesiqhelo, imood, kwaye sele icaphukile. "
Sele kwiinyanga ezimbini emva kokuzalwa, wawukhokelela "ebusuku, abantwana!". Ukwazile njani ukudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nokondla?
I-Oksana: "Sathatha i-minubus ngerente, kwaye ekuqaleni ndaya kudubula nomntwana. Kwakufuneka ndibaleke ekhefuni, ndondla umntwana emotweni kwaye ubuyela kwisitudiyo. Kodwa yaqhubeka ixesha elincinci, ngoko ndabhala iinkqubo ezimbalwa kuphela. "
Ngaba usaziphepha ngokusesikweni ngaphandle koongiso?
I-Oksana: "Kungoku bendicinga ukuba ndingakhange ndithathe nomongikazi (emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umama uyandinceda), nomntu onemfundo yobugcisa ezaziza kubandakanyeka noFedo. Ewe kunjalo, senza into nomama kule ndlela, kodwa sisadinga ulwazi oluthile lobuchule. Ndifuna uNyana ukuba abe nobuchule bokufumana, ukrokre, uyilo.
Ngaba sele ucinga ngekamva lakhe? Ukuba ngequbuliso uthatha isigqibo sokunyula ubugcisa boluntu, ngaba uya kumtyhafisa nomyeni wakhe?
I-Oksanana: "Hayi, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku andiqondi ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Kodwa imvakalelo yam yangaphakathi-uNyana akanakulindeleka ukuba abe nomsebenzi kawonke-wonke ... nangona engumntwana wokudala, uyawuthanda umculo. Nangona kunjalo, ndisakholelwa ukuba indoda kufuneka isebenze i-themariaman. "
Into emkhosini?
I-Oksana: "nokuba ngumkhosi, okanye inkonzo yoluntu. Ngayiphi na imeko, indoda ifanele ixhamle ilizwe lakhe. "
Thanda imvakalelo
Umlingane uthatha inxaxheba kwimfundo kaFerma? Okanye ngaba ilinde xa ikhula nini?
Oksana: "Ukuthatha inxaxheba ngenkuthalo! Ukuthetha naye, uyadlala, ukunxiba ezingalweni, ngamanye amaxesha ukohlwayo. Sele siphuhlise isiko: Sihlala sihlala ekhaya ngeempelaveki kwaye sihlawule ixesha lonyana wakho. Ndicinga ukuba indoda ingaya kubudala obuqala ukuyibulela i-parity. AMANQAKU AKUQALA Umntwana uqalisa ukugqobhoza, jika. "
Ngaba unayo indoda ngokuzalwa?
I-Oksanana: "Hayi, bendilinda kwipaseji. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukuzalwa komntwana yisakramente, imeko ekhethekileyo yomfazi. Nangowona maxesha afanele abe yedwa kunye naye kunye noThixo. Esi sisikhundla sam. Abanye banokuba nembono eyahlukileyo. Apha wonke umntu ukhetha bona ngokwabo. "
Ukusuka ecaleni elinjengokuba ufihla umyeni wakho ...
I-Oksanana: "Akanguye umntu ongurhulumente. Ke ngoko, yena akamthandi nantoni na okanye ngomsebenzi wakhe into yokuthetha. Igxile kwezinye iimeko nakwizenzo. Kwaye oku kuyinyaniso nje yokuba uvulekile, ngokomoya nanobubele. "
Ndixelele okungenani njengoko udibene naye. Ngaba yinyani ukuba ubambe uthando ekuqaleni? Ndivile ibali elinje: Ubone kwindawo yokutyela, wadibana ngamehlo am kwaye waqonda ukuba zenzelwe omnye komnye.
I-Oksana: "Kwakunjalo. Kodwa ekuphuculeni kwethu osondeleyo, ixesha elininzi kunye nothotho lweengozi ezidlulileyo. Sidibene ngaphezulu kwamaxesha amabini ngaphambi kokuba baqonde ukuba siza kuba kunye. Nditsho nje: inyathelo lokuqala labonisa umyeni wam kwixesha elizayo. "
Ngaba uyakholelwa ngokubanzi kuthando ekuqaleni?
I-Oksana: "Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukucinga okupholileyo kutsho malunga nendoda emininzi. Asingombono okukholelwa ukuba amehlo yimeko yomphefumlo. Kwaye xa amehlo evulekile kwaye emntwini, kwaye kwibhinqa, ke kukho unxibelelwano - umfowunelwa wokuqala, uhlobo oluthile lwe chemistry. Kodwa le yimvakalelo eqinileyo-kuphela inkanuko enokuntywila. Kwaye uthando yimvakalelo elizinzileyo, ayiwela entlokweni: i-bach-kwaye yiyo loo nto! Uthando kufuneka lukhule kuwe. Kwaye lo msebenzi uthandana. Ukwakhiwa kobudlelwane yinkqubo yokuyila. Ke ngoko siye sakhula uthando, ngokupheleleyo kanye. Yonke into iqhubeka yanda. Kwaye ngokunyaniseka, ndiya kukuthanda okokuqala kwinyani - ngokuqinisekileyo. Konke oko kwakungekabikho, akusekho kum. "
Ngoku i-Oksana Fedorova ngokupheleleyo emva kokuzalwa komntwana. Kwikhefu e-Itali. Ifoto: Twitter.com.
Ubunzima bomthonyama
I-Oksana, hayi kwakudala ukufumene ibhaso ngokutyumba "Umama we-glamor". Vuma into oyenzileyo ukuze uphile ngokukhawuleza?
I-Oksana: "Ewe, ngandlela thile iikhilogramu ezongezelelweyo ngokwazo emva kokuzalwa komntwana. Ewe, kwaye ngaphandle kwenye indawo ngenyanga, ndaqala ukudlala ngezemidlalo, yiya kwi-massage. Ewe, kunye nemodi yamandla, xa usondla, wahlukile ngokupheleleyo: Akukho zidekazi zimnandi, zininzi kakhulu. Yindlela efikayo ngayo. Kodwa enyanisweni, ndiyavuma, ndingade ndicinge ngomfanekiso wam. Eyona nto iphambili kum yayiyimpilo yomntwana, iimfuno zakhe. "
Kodwa amanenekazi amaninzi aselula ade anikezele ngenkunkuma ngenxa yokoyika ukuphulukana nokuhambelana ...
I-Oksana: "Ephambi kwamehlo emizekelo emininzi kangaka xa abafazi babe nabantwana abaliqela, kodwa jonga intle! Akunjalo konke konke kuxhomekeke kwinkangeleko yakho. Ukuba umfazi uqinisekisiwe ngaphakathi ukugcina ubuhle bakhe, yonke into iya kuphumelela. Ndizibambile. Njengoko ndiqonda ukuba kufuneka uphumle kwi-kilogms ezimbalwa, ubunzima ngandlela thile busebenza kwimpembelelo yam yangaphakathi. "
Uqonda njani ukuba nobunzima! Asinguye wonke umntu onethamsanqa ...
I-Oksana: "Ndithi, Ngapha koko, yonke into isentlokweni yam! I-FOSTEX kunye neminqweno-yonke into ivela kwimeko yeemvakalelo. Njengoko uya kuqwalasela, kuya kuba njalo. "
Kwenzekile xa intloko yakho ikuxelele: "Oksana, yeka", kwaye i-Intuition iphakamise ukuba wenze yonke into?
I-Oksana: "Ngapha koko, bendihlala ndichasene nengqondo eqhelekileyo. Kwidolophu yakowethu, ndahamba ndahamba ndahamba ndaya kufunda kwisikolo esikhethekileyo se-Pskov seMitari. Emva koko waya eSt. Petersburg, kwiDyunivesithi yaseMphathiswa Wezenkonzo yangaphakathi, - ngaphandle kwenkonzo yenkonzo, ngaphandle kwesikhalazo. Ewe, ndaye ndaya kwi-Muss uperstic Actst, ngaphandle kwazo zonke iingxoxo ezifanelekileyo, ngaphandle koqeqesho olunzulu, ngaphandle kweempawu zangaphandle, ngaphandle kwemovie kum. Kuyo yonke le meko yayiyimpembelelo yengqondo: okanye ngoku, okanye awuzange. Rhoqo, ingcinga yokuqala yeyona iphambili. Ke bekukho amatyala amaninzi ebomini bam xa isiphumo sivela kwizisombululo ezizenzekelayo ezingenakuchazwa ngokupheleleyo kwinkcazo efanelekileyo. "
Kodwa ngoku, ujonge ngasemva, ucinga ukuba ezi zenzo ziyafuneka: kunye nesikolo samapolisa, kunye nesihloko "?
I-Oksana: "Ewe, onke amabakala obomi anika kakhulu. Ndingasusa izifundo ezivela kuzo naziphi na iimeko, ndingafunda kwintsha. Isikolo samapolisa sandinika ukuphakama, uphawu. Mayingabi ngumsebenzi wam, kodwa ndizinikezele kwinkonzo kwizitho zangaphakathi iminyaka elishumi. Ndingayibiza ngokuba yibhodi yeplanga, ndilungiselele imicimbi elandelayo. "
Ndikubona kwiqabane lakho, u-Andrei Borodin, i-Oksana Fedorova yadibana noNikolai Baskov. Ifoto: Lilia Sharlovskaya.
Kwaye yintoni enzima ngakumbi kuwe: ukuhamba ngentlawulo okanye kwipodium?
Oksana:
"Kum onzima ukuxoka kwisofa kwaye angenzi nto. Ndidinga ukwenza into, andikuthandi ukuchitha ixesha. Kwaye ipodium kunye nezityalo ziyinto efana nento. Uqeqesho, ukuzilungisa, ukuziva ngathi. Ngendlela, ekulungiseleleni kwakhe, kwakhona, unomtsalane wayo. "Ukanti ungabi bhinqion lo msebenzi. Ndifunde kwenye indawo nokuba noqeqesho lwakho kwiSikolo samapolisa, wawukhe wafumana imbumbulu ebusweni ...
I-Oksana: "Hayi, kukho elinye ibali elincinci. Simkile okokuqala ngqa ekudubula. Ngaphambi koko, bafunda ithiyori yoqeqesho, kodwa ngokuziqhelanisa nomlilo ophosakeleyo. Kwaye ndaqala ukujija umpu kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo, ezijolise kubandakanyi ebusweni bam. Utitshala oqeqeshekileyo oqeqeshekileyo wanditsiba kwangoko kwaye ndathatha umpu ecaleni. Ewe, wabhalwa, kunjalo. Ngenxa yoko, ndasuswa izifundo ezimbalwa. Kodwa emva koko wabathembisa ngokuqinileyo ukuba ndiza kudubula okona kulungileyo. Ke ngoko kwavela imigaqo. Ndaba kukudubula okokuqala phakathi kwamantombazana, nangona ndifumana amava am okuqala angaphumelelanga. Ke ngoko, ngamanye amaxesha ayinamsebenzi indlela oqala ngayo. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba ukho. "
Ngasihlandlo sithile, kwindawo yokuphosa indalo iphela, umbuzo wokuba ubomvu, uphendule wathi: "Xa ndixoka." Namhlanje, kwiminyaka kamva, u-Blush?
I-Oksana: "Blush, mhlawumbi, kuthando. Kukho iimeko ezinjalo xa ubambe imvakalelo yokuba awukwazi ukuthetha, kuphela izifuyo ziqaqambile. Ndisabomvu, xa ndithetha isincomo okanye izimvo ezigudileyo, "ndizama ukubaleka ezidlule ezindlebeni."
Ayinyani, oko kuthetha ukuba akusenakukwenza wonwabe ... Ndixelele, ngaba uyayibona indlela otshintshe ngayo kwiminyaka? Ngaba wasiba mnandi kakhulu okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, abanye ukuqonda abanye?
I-Oksana: "Kwezinye izinto ndiziqhelanisa ngakumbi, kwezinye-ukuqonda ngakumbi. I-cynical ndiyinto, ukuba iyatyhala iimeko. Umzekelo, ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka ubonise ubuqili kwiingxoxo. Kodwa kubonakala kum ukuba kumntu onzulu umntu osemanyano womphefumlo akangocwini. Ukanti, ngamnye kuthi akasayi kuphila, kodwa ngethamsanqa. Ukuba indlela yokujonga ebomini inokunika le ntlekele, ke ukuze wonwabe, kufuneka ulwelwe lunxibelelwano oluhle. "
Ubenzele okuninzi ebomini bam: Zombini ipolisa lalinjalo, kunye nemvumi, kunye ne-TV, kunye nezopolitiko. Kutheni le nto ichithwa kangaka - uyoyika into yokuba ungabi nalo ixesha?
I-Oksana: "Ndiyindoda nje enobuhlobo. Esikolweni, izinto zoluntu, kunye nezobuchwephesha, ndanikwa ngokulula. Ndabandakanyeka kwezemidlalo - iminyaka esibhozo ubudala yanika ibhola yevoli, yayiyintshatsheli yedolophu. Kwaye izangqa ezahlukeneyo kunye neenxalenye ezizimase, zivela kwimidaniso kunye nokuphelisa uSambo. Sele ndiqonda ukuba ndingathanda ukwazi umhlaba, ndifunde kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo. Ndizama ukuziva ngathi ndifuna okwangoku, kwaye bungafunwa bubomi kum. "
Ewe, ukuba ubucelwe ukuba uzibonakalise kwibinzana elinye, ubuya kubhala ntoni malunga ne-Oksanana Fedorova kwi-encyclopedia?
I-Oksana: "Onjani wona umbuzo onzima! Mhlawumbi, bendiya kubhala: Uvela kwabo bathanda ukuphela kwaye bayaphucuka ngalo lonke ixesha. Uthando kwaye ufunde-motto wam. "