Ngaphambi komhla, yonke into iyodwa, kuba ayaziwa kunokuba iya kuphela, kwaye iya kwenzeka njani. Kukho iimeko xa umhla udike kakhulu, kwaye kufuneka ulungiselele. Eyona nto iphambili yokwamkela isibakala sokuba wonke umntu unelungelo lokwenza impazamo, intlanganiso ephumelelayo ayithethi ukuphela kobomi. Siza kuzama ukukunceda usinde ngomhla ongakhange uhlangane nolindelo lwakho.
Musa ukoyika ukubuyisela imeko
Intlanganiso yabantu ababini ilungiselelwe ukwakha ubudlelwane bugcwele amaxesha amdaka, ngakumbi umhla wokuqala. Akukho nto yoyikisayo ukuba unomdla onyanisekileyo kwiqabane, onovalo kakhulu - ngaloo ndlela uya kubonisa ubuntu bakho kunye nokuba sesichengeni. Mhlawumbi iqabane lakho lihlangabeza iimvakalelo ezinjalo, kwaye liya kuba lula emva kwamagama akho, oluya kukuvumela ukuba uphumle.
Umhla uhlala ugcwele amaxesha amdaka
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Cinga ngokubanzi
Ukusondela kwethu sikufunda umntu, kokukhona amaxesha angalindelekanga alindele, kwaye engasoloko esidlangalisa. Masithi uqhele ukuba uqhelene nendoda entle kwi-classic isuti xa kuvulwa lo mboniso, kwaye ngomhla oze weza kwibhulukhwe yezemidlalo. Musa ukukhawuleza ukwenza amehlo amakhulu kwaye ucekeceke umsulwa, mhlawumbi umntu aqhele ukunxiba nje kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Okanye, ukuba umntu uthe cwaka ngelixa ugalela kuye umphefumlo, oko akuthethi ukuba unemicimbi ethile, enokuba ngumntu othozamileyo ofuna ixesha lokuqhela.
Nceda ukuba unako
Ukuphazamisa kwiingcinga ezimbi, zama ukufunda ngakumbi malunga nomntu oqhelileyo. Mbuze imibuzo, hayi ubuqu kakhulu, kunokwenzeka ukuba umntu akuxelele into eza kukunika icebiso lokuziphatha ngendlela yokuziphatha ngakumbi.
Ukuba umntu uqala ukukhalaza ngokungapheliyo kwizihlobo, kubahlobo okanye uhlobo oluthile lwengxaki ebomini, ukuba kunokwenzeka, zama ukunceda ukuba umntu ubaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Mema ngendlela onokuthi ngayo nezalamane, kodwa ayizenzeli umzekelo, kodwa ndixelele indlela owenze ngayo. Emva koko, isikhalazo kufuneka siyeke kwaye unganxibelelana nezinye izihloko.
Cinga ukuba ufuna ukwakha ubudlelwane kunye nalo mntu
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Sukuphazamisa
Olo lusuku nje lweeyure ezimbalwa, cinga ngaloo nto kungekudala iza kuphela kwaye ungabonisi ubundlongondlongo okanye ubuchule. Ukuba uya kwindawo yokutyela, gxila kwinto oza kulungelelanisa ngoku, kwaye ungahlali kwiqabane. Cinga ngentlanganiso yakho njengamanye amava, ithuba lokubonisana ukuba sinxibelelane nabantu abohlukeneyo.
Ukuhlekisa ngakumbi
Musa ukuphatha umhla ongaphumelelanga, zama ukusonga yonke into ehlekisayo xa usixelela nabahlobo. Musa ukuvumela abanye abantu ukuba bacinge ukuba unexesha lengxaki ebomini, ukuba awufuni umhla wakho obalulekileyo wokuba ngumxholo wengxoxo kwizangqa zakwizangqa zabahlobo bakho kunye nabahlobo babo.
Hlawula yonke into ehlekisayo, kwaye nawe ungaboni le nto ingaphumelelanga njengentlekele. Kubalulekile kwangaxeshanye ukungathuki umntu oye wasichitha naye ngokuhlwanje okanye ngosuku, ngaphandle kwemeko. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukugxekwa okuncinci, ukuba wena neqhawe lohlobo lwakho olungaphumelelanga.
Zama ukungabonisi ukuba kuyacaphukiswa
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Yihla kwangoko
Kukho amatyala xa umntu engathandekiyo, emva koko akakho kusindisayo. Ngapha koko, le ntiyo ingabonakali sele ikwinkqubo yokuthandana kwakho, kungenjalo ungayi ndawo nalo mntu.
Ungawugqiba umhla ngeli binzana: "Mamela, ndiyaxolisa kakhulu, kodwa andiziboni ikamva lethu nawe, ngenxa yoko andifuni ukuchitha ixesha lakho, masitshabalale?" Eli binzana alizukucaphukisa kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuqonda ukuba awulungiswanga ukuba uqhubeke.
Ngayiphi na imeko, musa ukuthatha amava angaphumelelanga kufutshane nentliziyo yakho-asikukuphela kwehlabathi, kodwa nje akunakugxilwa nomntu.