Xa uba ngumzali okokuqala, uthotho lwamathandabuzo lokuqala: "Ngaba ndiyakwenza? Mhlawumbi akucingi? " Oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo, njengoko oomamma abancinci kwaye ootata abakafumani amava aneleyo ukuze bakwazi ukunxibelelana nezinto ezininzi. Qwalasela ezona ngcinga ziqhelekileyo zabazali abangafanelekanga ukuba babe neentloni.
Umntwana kufuneka akhethe isifundo
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Ndifuna ukuphumla umntwana
Abantwana bathatha lonke ixesha lesimahla kumanina, bahlala kwaye utata. Ngamaxesha athile, i-psyche yomntu iyayeka ukujamelana nomthwalo onjalo ngokweemvakalelo, umama ufuna ukubaleka kwaye ufihle kuye wonke umntu ukuba afumane iiyure ezimbalwa ngaphandle kokukhala kunye neemfuno zomntwana wakhe.
Ingcinga yokuphumla ayikwenzi umama ongendawo, ngokuchaseneyo, ithi ulahliwe ukuze ugqitywe.
Ndifuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi nabahlobo
Rhoqo, lo mfazi uba yindwendwe lendima yakhe entsha awayenzayo ngokuzalwa komntwana. Ngapha koko, indawo ezikujikelezileyo ngohlobo loomama nootakhulu bahlala bathi yonke into, ngoku "ubomi bakho abubo bakho", kuba bona ngokwabo bahlala kule sofundo. Sukuphikisana, umntu othile ufuna ukuba ngumama ukuba agcwalise lonke ixesha lakhe ngomntwana kunye neemfuno zakhe, akukho nto iphosakeleyo kuloo nto, ukuze aziqonde emsebenzini Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha azinikele ngexesha ngaphandle kokuyeka kwangaxeshanye ube ngoomama abalungileyo emhlabeni. Kwaye unelungelo.
Shiya umntwana ngaphandle kweliso akunakuze
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Umntwana ubukele iikhathuni ixesha elide kunesiqhelo
Okwesikulo, umama kufuneka enze imali enkulu endlwini, nokuba ahlawule ixesha emntwaneni. Akumangalisi ukuba ezinye izinto zinokutyibilika ngaphandle. Abantwana bale mihla ngokoqobo kwasekususela ekuzalweni bafunda ukusebenzisa impumelelo yakutshanje kwitekhnoloji yetekhnoloji, ngenxa yoko akukho nzima kubo ukuba basebenze ngokuzimeleyo ikhathuni yakho oyithandayo kwilaptop. Ngokwemvelo, umama oselula, isicoci esicocekileyo sokucoca i-vacuum kwaye ishukumisa i-porridge isenokungagcini indlela umntwana wakhe sele ehleli phantsi.
Ewe kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuba qalise iliso kumntwana omncinci kwaye uzame ukususa zonke izinto eziyingozi kwicandelo lombono wakhe, kodwa itrayi njengokubukela iikhathuni ixesha elide kuneziqhelo, akufuneki zikuqhubele uxinzelelo.
Andiqhubi umntwana kwi-mug
Umbuzo onempikiswano kwisangqa sabazali abancinci. Kwelinye icala, umntwana kufuneka ajonge iimvakalelo zabo kunye neetalente, kwaye kwelinye icala, unokwenza impazamo ngoku, kwaye uphose ngokupheleleyo umnqweno wokutyelela amacandelo ahlukeneyo.
Kubalulekile ukumisela kwangoko kangangexeshana le nto inesiphi na umntwana kwaye enze imigudu yokukhulisa italente yakhe, kodwa ukuba awukwazi ukuqonda ukuba umntwana wakho angakuvuyela ukuyishiya le mbono, vumela ukuba ungathi uthathe isigqibo malunga nendlela yokuthatha isigqibo Into afuna ukuyenza, ke awuzukukhetha ibango lokuba unyanzele umntwana ukuba enze into angayithandiyo, ngokuchasene nentando.
Unelungelo lokufumana ixesha lokukhululeka
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Andizukunikanga izipho ezibi kakhulu
Ngomdala we-3, ixabiso lesipho omnike sona asibalulekanga kangako ukuya kwiminyaka emi-3. Kwilizwe lakhe akukho nto imbiza okanye ixabiso eliphantsi, kodwa yonke into inokutshintsha xa umntwana esiya kwi-kindergarten okanye esikolweni, apho abantwana baqala ukulinganisa ukuphola kwe-smartphone okanye nayiphi na into.
Kuya kufuneka ucacisele umntwana kwangoko kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba into ethandwayo ayisiyiyo eyona nto ingaphezulu kolonwabo. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba wena ungathethi xa umntwana, ngubani, ukuba yintoni kwaye ixabisa malini, kuya kubakho ingxaki enjalo. Umntwana kufuneka aqonde ukuba awuzikulungelanga ukunika umvuzo omkhulu kwilaptop yesizukulwana esidlulileyo, nokuba ukhubale kangakanani, kwaye awunatyala nantoni na.