Xa umntwana esiya esikolweni, owona msebenzi uphambili womzali kukubonelela ngendawo entle apho umntwana aya kuba nakho ukufikelela kulwazi. Nangona kunjalo, akukho mntu uqinisekisa ukuba iimeko ezinjalo ziya kubonelela ngotitshala wesikolo. Kwenzeka ukuba unxibelelwano phakathi komfundi kunye notitshala alwenzi kwaye ujongene nomsebenzi wokufumana ukuba yintoni unobangela. Ungayenza njani into yokuphelisa imeko kwaye unganikeli impikiswano ukuba iqele? Sizamile ukufumanisa.
Zama ukuva umntwana
Uninzi lwabazali banamhlanje lunyanzelisa ukuba unobangela wayo nayiphi na into engavisisaniyo ihlala inguMfundisi, kodwa ungangxami ukubaleka ukuze uqonde okanye yintoni embi-ukubhala isikhalazo kuMlawuli. Injongo yakho yokuqala kukuhlala phantsi kwaye uxoxe ngemeko yangoku kunye nomntwana, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuba uyenze kakhulu ukuba ungathathi hlangothi, ukuze umntwana wakho angazami ukuthwala ecaleni kwakho (kwaye abantwana baphila kuyo). Ngokukodwa ezi ngcebiso ziya kuba ngabazali abangabantwana bahlala rhoqo kwiimeko zongquzulwano. Kwaye okwangoku, musa ukukopela kwaye uyiqonde kakhulu imeko, iimvakalelo zakho ezingalunganga ziya kukhululeka imeko kwaye aziyi kukuvumela ukuba wenze isigqibo esifanelekileyo.
Zama ukuva umntwana wakho
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Sukubhabha i-ndlovu
Kwaye kwakhona, sijamelene nengxaki ethandwayo phakathi kwabazali banamhlanje: Ukuba iguqukele ngathi utitshala akakhange ajongeke kanjalo okanye, uThixo angakhange abuyisele umsindo wakho, umzali obanjwe ngumsindo olungileyo, uya esikolweni ukuya Cwangcisa uhlalutyo lwenqwelomoya. Zolile kwaye ucinga njalo sisigameko, uzama njani ukucinga okanye umntwana wakho uzama ukukrokrela? Ngenxa yokuba umntwana enza intetho yencoko kwisifundo, ukuxoxa kwaye ukuphosa ngokuqinisekileyo ukungakufanelanga, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, isikolo sinemithetho yabo. Chaza ngalo mzuzu kwisikolo sakho sesikolo sakho. Kodwa usalumkeleka - ngamanye amaxesha ootitshala basusa.
Sukumqeqesha incoko kunye notitshala
Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba utitshala "ukuqhuba ngentonga", qala ngento yokuba uceba ukutyelela isikolo. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ujike ijikeleze yonke iKomiti yaBazali okanye ngokukhawuleza uye phambili kuMlawuli - le yingxaki yakho kuphela onokuthi uye kuphela kuyo kunye notitshala. Awunakho ukuvavanya ubungakanani bengxaki kuphela ngokomntwana, ngelixa ungekhe uthethe notitshala. Njengommiselo, ingxaki kunxibelelwano iyaphuma emva kwentlanganiso yokuqala ukuba utitshala enza ukuba amagqabantshintshi ngesizathu esivakalayo.
Umlawuli-ugqibela kwangoko
Akufanelanga ukuba uphela, ukuba yonke into ayithethwa ngumntwana wakho malunga notitshala ayiyonyani, kodwa ilula: iyenzeka ukuba i-picch "ingafumani ndlongo Utitshala ongabathandwanga ngokwenene abantwana. Kule meko, musa ukoyika ukuya kuMlawuli. Buza uchaphazela utitshala okanye acinge kunye malunga nokudluliselwa komntwana kwiklasi efanayo.