Ukupheliswa komtshato kugxininiswa kuphela kwendoda nomfazi, kodwa nakwizalamane zabo ezisondeleyo. Abantwana bahlupheka kakhulu: Banokuvimba, baqalise ukuhamba kwaye babe krwada kwabanye. Ukuze umntwana akwazi ukubona uqhawulo mtshato, abazali, okokuqala, kufuneka basebenze kubo.
Yenza isigqibo zonke iimbambano
Ngelixa nobabini ninomsindo omnye komnye kwaye nizame ukutyhobozeni zonke izono zokufa, akufuneki ulinde ukudideka kolonwabo. Zama ukuzizola kwaye ungabinangxaki xa udibana nomntu ngaphambili. Ukwenza oku, kungcono ukuguqukela kwi-psychologist: Ukuzithoba kuye onke amatyala awonileyo kubomi bosapho, asebenza ukuzithemba kunye nezityalo zobomi obuzayo. Nje ukuba bobabini abazali beza kwimeko yokuvumelana, impikiswano ivunyelwe yedwa - iimvakalelo zipholile kwaye akukho mnqweno wokuxabana kwitrafi. Ngokwesiqhelo le nkqubo ithatha iinyanga ezi-1-3.
Sebenza nge-psychologist yengqondo ukuze ungatyhali ubomi obutsha
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Xelela umntwana wakho ngoqhawulo mtshato
Akukho nto imbi kunokubonisa umntwana isibini esitshatileyo xa ubudlelwane bakho buye butshabalalisiwe. Akufuneki uhlale kunye kwaye uhambe ecaleni - le psyche ayigcinwanga. Eyona nto intle onokuyenza kukunyaniseka uthi nyana okanye intombi oqhawula umtshato. Thetha ngethoni eyolileyo, chaza ukuba usamthanda kwaye uya kukhathalela, nokuba awuhlala kunye. Kubalulekile ukuba ungathethi nje kuphela, kodwa nokwenza: bobabini abazali bathathele ingqalelo ngakumbi kwi-chad, kunesiqhelo. Yiya kwiipaki zokuzonwabisa, ekuthengeleni, kwi-cinema - zama ukuyiphazamisa kwiingcinga zethemba. Kodwa sukuzama ukufihla iimvakalelo zakho zosizi kunye nomsindo, ukuba awuzange uziphile-abantwana baziva xa bekhohlisiwe. Ukukhohlisa umntwana, kokukhona ethembekile kuye: chaza ukuba akunzima ngoku, kodwa emva kwethuba kuya kuba lula kwaye ubomi buzakuhamba.
Ungathethi ngesizathu soqhawulo-mtshato
Rhoqo abafazi, bahlala bodwa nabantwana, yenza impazamo engenakuthelekiswa nanto. Bazama zonke iindlela ukugxeka umfanekiso kaBawo etempileni. Nokuba iqabane lakho lingcatshayo, esi asisosizathu sokutshabalalisa ulwalamano kunye nomntwana. Fumana amandla ukungabizi ingxelo ngeenkcukacha zoqhawulo mtshato, nokuba yayikukutshona kwengqondo icinezelwe wena kwaye ayiziniki. Ungalibali ukuthintela izalamane: Akufanelanga ukuba bathethe ngesizathu sokuqhawula umtshato nomntwana.
Sukususa emntwaneni - unenkxaso
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Thetha nomntwana rhoqo
Eyona nkxaso ibalaseleyo evela kwizalamane kukuthembana nokuqonda. Ngelixa umntwana enzima ukuba aqhelene kumgca otshintshelwe, kungaphezulu kokuba ufuna uthando lwakho kunye nononophelo. Iimeko zonke ezixinezelayo ngemini, kufundisa umntwana ukuba akwazi ukujamelana neemvakalelo kwaye azive ngokukhawuleza. I-psyche enesiqinisekiso - isiqinisekiso sobomi obonwabisayo. Ke kungekudala unika i-chad umbono wokuba yena ngokwakhe ugqiba imvakalelo yakhe, engcono.