Eminye iminyaka elishumi eyadlulayo, eli bhinqa liye lagqiba kwelokuba lizale emva kwama-30, yabangela ukuba abajonga njengezihlobo, kwaye kungenjalo wayezama ukumqinisekisa ukuba yonke imigudu "yokuqinana nokukhulelwa.
Nangona kunjalo, namhlanje, uninzi lwabafazi ngakumbi bakhetha umama emva kwe-30, kwaye izizathu zebhinqa ngalinye linezalo.
Ngaba ikhona iminyaka efanelekileyo yokuba nguMama?
Kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo, ogqirha bafikile kwisigqibo sokuba ubunye bobubini bokuzalwa bungathathwa njenge-30, kunye neminyaka engama-35 nangaphezulu.
Abasetyhini bazama ukufumana amalungelo angakumbi kunye namalungelo angaphezulu eluntwini, ezazihluthwa ngaphambili: yenza umsebenzi, ukufezekisa iiprojekthi ezinkulu kunye nomsebenzi kwizikhundla ezinxulumene namadoda. Ngenxa yokukhula kwenkululeko, umfazi akasakhawuleze akwazi ukuzala ngokukhawuleza ukugcina indoda kunye nomntwana - ngoku unokufezekisa yonke into eyenzekileyo ngokwakhe.
Gxila kwimeko yakho
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Nangona kunjalo, kunye nenkqubela phambili, iingxaki ezininzi kwaye zinjengeengxaki zenkqubo yokuzala: Sele eneminyaka engama-20, amantombazana amaninzi ukhulelwe kakhulu kwaye athathe umntwana. Ndifuna iinyanga kunye neminyaka yokuphucula impilo.
Xa ucwangcisa ukukhulelwa emva kwe-35, kubalulekile ukuba uthathele ingqalelo iinkalo ezithile zomzimba wakho, kunye nokulinganisa zonke "ze" kunye "ne" kunye "ne" kunye "ne" kunye "ne" kunye "ne" kunye "ne" kunye "ne" kunye "ne" kunye "ne" kunye "no" nxamnye ".
Emva kwe-30, izifo ezininzi ziyanda
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Pros:
Mhlawumbi eyona nto ibalulekileyo ngumfazi ovuthiweyo kunye nomzimba, kunye nengqondo ngokwengqondo ilungele ukuba ngumama. Njengomthetho, lo msitho ucebeke ngononophelo ngokweenyanga, kuba umfazi ngeli thuba sele ezalisekisiwe ubuncinci isiqingatha sezicwangciso zabo, ngoko ke unexesha lokuzinikela emntwini omtsha. Bobabini abazali bayaluqonda uxanduva lwabo lomntwana, akufuneki bakhathazeke ngempilo-ntle yabo, baya kumkhulisa njani umntwana kwaye bawunikeli.
Kwiminyaka engama-20-25, iingcinga malunga nokuguqula ngokupheleleyo ubomi babo emntwaneni, ayinguye wonke umntu ozayo, kuba ndifuna ukuthatha ixesha elibekiweyo.
Imizuzu:
Eyona ngxaki iphambili yokukhulelwa kwaphela inxulunyaniswa nempilo kamama ozayo: Iimpawu ezingathandekiyo ezaziphazamisekile kuma-25, zikhule kwizifo ezingapheliyo, ezisusela ngexesha lamaxesha ziqala ukubonisa. Ngokwemvelo, amalungiselelo ongezelelweyo ayadingeka ngaphambi kokukhulelwa.
Ukongeza, iinkqubo ezingenakuphikiswa zenzeka kwinkqubo yokuzala: amathuba okukhulelwa ngokukhulelwa incitshisiwe, kuba isixa se-ovulation sincitshisiwe. Ewe, kwaye akukho mntu ucime i-hormonal yokusilela.
Thatha ingqalelo umbono weqabane
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Ukuzalwa ngokwabo akunakukuqhubeka kakuhle, kuba ngenxa yotshintsho lwempilo okwenzeka kuwo nawuphi na umfazi onobudala, akukho mntu unokuqinisekisa ukuba ukuzalwa komntwana kuya kubanjwa ngaphandle kokuzala.
Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, xa kucwangcisiwe, kuyimfuneko ukuhamba kuphela kwimeko yakho kwaye uthathele ingqalelo uluvo lweqabane kulo mbandela. Ewe kunjalo, kuya kufuneka ulungiselele isiganeko esibalulekileyo kusapho ngakumbi kwiminyaka engama-35 kune-20, kodwa iziphumo zikufanelekile.