Ngamnye wethu wabona oomama ngelishwa abo basoyikayo emacaleni, ngelixa phambi kwabo phantsi kwabo bagalela umntwana. Sidlula ngendlela yokugweba ukugweba, kodwa uninzi lwabantu abangenamntwana bengakuqondi ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukuzola umntwana onomdla umntwana. Ewe kunjalo, unokucebisa umama ukuba athenge into efunwa ngumntwana kakhulu, kwaye kule tentrum iya kuyeka, kodwa hayi: ukuba uyayigqiba into yokudlala, kuba izicelo Unyana okanye intombi yakho ikhula kunye nabo.
Umntwana uya kujonga ubuchule bakho
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Kule meko kukho ukuphuma: Thenga okanye ungayithengi. Masithi uvumile, wawungathenganga into enexabiso eliphantsi kakhulu, kuya kubonakala ngathi uMntwana wonwabile ngokufunyanwa, uyavuya ukuba i-hysteria iphelile. Kodwa apha uya kuphuma, kwaye uhambe ngendlela isebe elinomdla ngakumbi, apho umntwana ufuna ukujonga khona. Kwaye apha ulinde i-hysterics.
Emva kwethuba, ukuba umntwana uhlala kwi-hysteria ehamba i-hysteria - wafumana izinto ezinqwenelekayo, "uqalisa kuphela iingxaki kuqala kwi-kindergarten, emva koko ufumane yonke into oyifunayo, akunakwenzeka. Ngaba uyafuna iingxaki ezinjalo?
Inketho yesibini kukuma okokugqibela. Akukho sidingo sokucinga ukuba ezo zingqongileyo zingakujonganga kangako. Ewe, abanye baya kuqalisa ukukhuthala, kodwa akufuneki umamele nabani na: Lo ngumntwana wakho, kwaye kuphela ogqiba kwelokuba awenza njani. Ngapha koko, awuwedwa, kuba izigidi zabazali zijamelana nemeko enjalo yonke imihla kwihlabathi liphela. Kunzima ukwala, kodwa mhlawumbi.
Zama ukuphazamisa ingqalelo yakhe
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Kwenziwe ntoni?
Ewe kunjalo, awunakuhlala ushiya umntwana uye esitolo, ke kufuneka ufunde indlela yokwenza i-hysterics okanye i-COPE ukuba sele iqalile.
- Okokuqala, kufuneka ufunde ukuziva umntwana wakho: ukuqikelela ukuqala kwe-hysteria. Nje ukuba bacinge "isaqhwithi", jikelele ngokukhawuleza ingqalelo umntwana kwenye into, guqulele isihloko.
-Ukuba umntwana wakho esazi ukuba "ubiza" kwaye "ungabizi", thatha imali enqongopheleyo ukuze umntwana aqonde ukuba akukho mali ingeyonto yokuthenga engacwangciswanga. Nokuba ungcono ukuba umbonisa isikhwama esingenanto.
-Ukuba i-hysterical iqalile, musa ukuqalisa ukukhwaza ukuphendula: ayisebenzi. Xa umntwana eqonda ukuba "intsebenzo" yakhe ayibangeli imvakalelo eyimfuneko evela kumama, ekuhambeni kwexesha uya kuyeka ukuzama ukufezekisa isikhalo esinqwenelayo.
Sukuya
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-Umntwana ukusuka kwasekuqaleni kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyenza icace into yokuba ungabonisa ukungavisisani kwakho kungekuphela nje, kodwa nangesicelo esiqhelekileyo. Abantwana badla ngokuthanda indlela enjalo, kuba kubonakala ngathi baza 'njengabantu abadala', nabantwana, ukuba uyazi ukuba, bafune yonke into kubadala.
-Ngaphambi kokuba ungene kwivenkile, nikela umntwana kwitoni awayeyithandayo. Nje ukuba aqalise ukuphosa esitolo, ndixelele: "Unento yokudlala. Uya kukhutyekiswa ukuba uthenga entsha. " Ukuba ayincedi, umntwana uzakuzama "ukucinezela" kuwe esidlangalaleni esitratweni. Kule meko, thatha ezandleni zakho kwaye uthathe indawo encinci ethule ukuba uzama ukuthetha naye kwaye usele amanzi. Isithembiso sokuya kwi-cafe okanye idlulise indlela awayeyithandayo yomntwana kwindlela egodukayo, kodwa kuphela ngokuziphatha okuhle.