Xa sijikeleza iingxaki ezinjalo, kunzima ukuzinikela ingqalelo kuwe intanda. Ke ngoko, kwenzeka ukuba iqabane lakho liqale ukujongwa kubafazi abadlala, bonwabile abakwaziyo ukuzilungisa kwaye bahlala bejongeka ngathi bayamangalisa. Bayenza njani? Impendulo yalo mbuzo inayo, kwaye sagqiba kwelokuba siyifumene ukuba yeyiphi na imikhwa yophawu anakho ukusibhalela kuwe, kwaye uyenze ukuba ubaleke kuwe zonke iinyawo zakho.
Indoda ifuna ukukukhuphela
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Ubunyani
Abafazi abaninzi baphazamisa ubuntu kunye nezesondo, kwaye bawuthathela ingqalelo umfanekiso ocacileyo, ongcono. Hayi. Ekuphela kwento oza kuyiphumeza, umtsalane hayi abaphulaphuli abasemgangathweni abangamadoda. Ukudala umfanekiso wobuhle obufanelekileyo, unokukhwela ngokulula kwi-sulgarity, ke ukuba awunaso ugqirha oqhelekileyo, ungawutshintshe umfanekiso kunye nesitayile esimangalisayo. Malem ubaluleke kakhulu ngokwesondo xa ejongeka, kwaye engenazinxibo, kungenjalo ukuchaza isibakala sokuba amantombazana ngowona mantombazana aqengqelekayo aqhekeza amadoda aqhelekileyo?
I-titber
Ndikholelwe, akukho mntu awuyi kuba mnandi ukuba ukho umntu obhinqileyo osoloko emathandabuzo. Xa ungenye indlu, unokukhwaza umhlobo kwifowuni, kwaye uhambahamba kwindlu ngempahla ehlekisayo - nantoni na, kodwa kwinkampani yendoda yakho kufuneka ukhuphe ukuzithemba kokungathandeki.
Amadoda akhawuleza ukubamba isimo sakho sengqondo: Xa uzijonga ungafanelekanga oyena mntu umele umntu onesiqingatha sesiqingatha sesiqingatha sesiqingatha, ukhupha amandla. Ke ngoko, isidubedube mincinci, kodwa, kwakhona, musa ukuyigqithisela.
Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukuzilungisa
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Ukuzingca kakhulu
Thetha umgangatho wokunyanzelwa. Amantombazana ase-narcissis azama ukuphepha okufanayo nokuthozama. Ewe, le ndoda ithanda intembelo yomfazi ngokwayo, kodwa xa inyuliweyo yakhe yedwa, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba ilibulale, le ndoda iqala ukuthandabuza ukhetho lwakhe. Okwethutyana uya kukunyamezela, kodwa kamsinya uya kudinwa yindima ethi "Izicelo" ezingafanelekanga kuwe.
Qiniseka
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Ukungaziwa
Kwabo nakuphi na amadoda ahlonitshwayo, le nto ibalulekile. Ukuba udibana ixesha elide, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kufuna ukukuphumeza ekukhanyeni, hamba kunye kwisiganeko semigaqo okanye kwindawo yokutyela entsholongwane. Asithethi malunga nokuhlangabezana nendawo awayehlala kuyo, apho kufuneka "ungabethe ubusuku obumdaka." Ke ngoko, fundisa "umfazi wokwenene", umzekelo, umfazi oya kuvuma, ungaze uhleke kakhulu kunaye wonke umntu kwiholo, kwaye uyakwazi ukuphambuka.
I-Spidity
Nantoni na abayithethayo, "bahlala behlangana ngeengubo." Izinto ezincinci zomfanekiso wakho zinokutsala indoda kwaye zityhale ngonaphakade. Vumela umlinganiswa wakho mhle, kodwa ukuba ubeka kumhla wokuqala, isinxibo esixineneyo ayisiyonto intsha, indoda ayinakufuna ukuphonononga ilizwe lakho langaphakathi. Khumbula ukuba ukuzikhathalela mihla le, kumsebenzi ofanayo, inkangeleko entle ayithengwanga nguwo, ngoko ke umkhwa wokuhlala ulandela inkangeleko yakho iya kudlala isandla samaphupha akhoyo.