Ngobusuku, xa unyaka omnye ethatha enye, lonke usapho luhamba kunye ekhaya okanye kwezinye iivenkile zokutsala, hayi ivenkile yokutyela ye-nosy okanye i-cafe: nxibelelana, tshintshiselani izicwangciso zexesha elizayo, nika Ezinye izipho, wonke umntu unemood elungileyo, wonke umntu onwabile kwaye wanelisekile, ngenxa yokuba kunye. Bazali, abantwana, ootatomkhulu, abazukulwana, abazukulwana, abathi, bathabathe umtshana, mntwana, "Amadoda amakhulu" Iintlanganiso ezifanayo "Iintlanganiso ezifanayo ziluvuyo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana kunye nabazukulwana bahlala kwezinye izixeko okanye emazweni, ukuze uqokelele wonke umntu kule mini inye ngonyaka. Kwiindibano zosapho losapho kunyaka omtsha-umcimbi wokuzithandela kunye nokunyanzelwa. Yiya entlanganisweni, hayi kuba ndifuna, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ufuna. Kodwa kufanelekile ukuba nje sidibane, indlela imeko yoguqukela ngayo ngokukhawuleza, kuba ivakalelwa ngayo izalamane zegazi nokuba apha nyhani nyani uyonwaba ngokwenene. Kuseziintlanganiso eziyaziyo ukuba kutheni umntu efuna usapho.
Bonke abantu bafuna ukufumana uthando, ukhathalelo, ukuqonda, amaxesha amaninzi ukungayithathi izalamane zabo. Kwaye kuphela emva konyaka, bezamile, bethetha nabantu abakwiziphelo ezahlukeneyo zehlabathi, uqala ukuxabisa usapho kunye nabo bakuthanda ngokunyaniseka, kodwa njengaleyo. Ngenxa yokuba ukho. Kwaye ihle sithandwa. Kodwa, ngelishwa, siqala ukukuqonda oku emva kwexesha, isiqingatha seseli nganye yeseli siphila ngaphandle kothando, ngaphandle kwentsingiselo yokwenyani ebomini.
Ewe kunjalo, kukho iimeko ezahlukileyo, iintsapho ezahlukeneyo nezihlobo, kodwa, ngokubanzi, kunjalo-intsapho yethu ngabantu abasondeleyo, kwaye ukuba usapho lukhulu kwaye lomelele - lomelele - lomelele - womelele - womelele Le yeyona ibiza kakhulu, enokuba ebomini. Xa kukho usapho kunye nokuqonda okuchanekileyo kwento yayo, ke ubomi bi nisenisa intsingiselo kwaye zonke iiholide ngovuyo.
Ukuba awukufutshane kusapho lwakho, sizabalazela ukwahlukana kwaye simka-ngoku, ngo-Eendlela yoNyaka oMtsha, lixesha lokuba ucinge ngayo, kutheni uyenzile. Ngaba ufuna inkululeko, hlukana nokugcinwa ngokugqithileyo kunye nokunyanzeliswa komntu kwixesha elizayo? Uyifezekisile le nto, kodwa yintoni elandelayo? Ubomi bodwa, iiholide azilulo ulonwabo kwaye hayi umntu omfunayo, ubuncinci nje ukuba kufutshane.
Ukuba ukwahlukana nosapho lwakhe kwanyanzelwa - akukho mntu ushiyekileyo ephila okanye ngesizathu esithile ukuba ulahlwe zizihlobo, kufanelekile ukuba ucinge ngokudala usapho lwethu. Mhlawumbi ngoku uxakeke kakhulu, sebenza, sebenza kakhulu. Kodwa, ubukhulu becala, uya kusebenza kakhulu ngomso nangomhla olandelayo ngomso, kwaye ke iya kuba gqi kakhulu ukutshintsha into. UNyaka oMtsha yiholide yosapho kwaye ukuba ngoku awukabikho ukudibana kwakho, emva koko uya kwenzeka kuwo wonke unyaka ukuze ulungise yonke into.