NgoDisemba, eli asilo phupha lokuqala labafundi malunga nobudlelwane nendoda yakhe. Isihloko ngokubanzi kukunqongophala kobuso, ubudlelwane bobambiswano. Kubonakala ngathi le yimeko elusizi. Ngelishwa, asifundiswanga ukudala ubudlelwane bothando. Izikolo zifundisa izinto ezahlukeneyo, kodwa azisebenzi kubomi bosapho. Kwaye uninzi lwabazali aluziboni ukuba ziziphi izinto ezifundwa ngabantu zosapho eziziswa abantwana babo. Umzekelo, ukuphila abantwana, ukutshabalalisa iqabane. Umntwana kwintsapho enjalo, kwelinye icala, akabuxabisi ubudlelwane bobambiswano, kuba bachitha emehlweni akhe, kwelinye icala, baziva benetyala elinzulu ngobomi babazali. Olu lusizi nje, abantu bayaqhubeka ekufeni abazali babo kwaye bahlala bekwityala elingafunekiyo.
Ngalo mntwana weqhama yethu: "Ndiphuphe indlu yethu apho sinomyeni wethu nomntwana wethu kwisitulo esinamavili, oomama bethu, abahlobo. Wonke umntu ufuna into: umntwana - ukuhamba, umama - ukunxibelelana, abahlobo bam babizwa kwenye indawo, kule ndlu kufuneka uphume, lungisa ukutya. Kwaye umyeni wam kunye namthanda phakathi kwaba sezimicimbi nabantu. Kwangelo xesha, ephupheni, sinomyeni wam kwaye ndifuna ukukukhulula kubo bonke abakhathazekileyo kwaye ndilale, ndihlale ndingenakuphazamiseka kuye nabani na. Kwaye ndineemvakalelo ngaye kwiphupha elingcangcazela, ethambile, omelele, njengakwimihla yemihla yethu yokuqala. Nditshiza ngengcinga yokuba ebomini bam iimvakalelo zethu zinamathele kakhulu, zininzi izinto eziphakathi kwethu nabanye abantu. Kwaye ndide ndisondele kuye nothando olunemfesane. "
Ukulala kuyamfanekisa ukuba bangaphi abalinganiswa abangafunekiyo yena nomyeni wakhe: Bazali, bantwana, abahlobo, iinkathalo zasekhaya. Abazange bashiye ndawonye. Iphupha libonisa ukulangazelela kunye nentlungu yelinye lamaqabane malunga nento yokuba baye bafumana omnye komnye.
Nangona babhenela kugqirha wosapho, ke, indlela enokubakho, indlela yomsebenzi iya kuba kukubuyisela intsebenziswano engathandekiyo. Unyango losapho lubonisa ukuba unxibelelwano lwethu kunye neqabane leziiprayimari kunye nezinto eziphambili, kwaye ke nabantwana nabazali. Olu nxibelelwano, ukuba luhlala luhleli kwaye lungabinazi, kwenza ukuba kwenzeke ukuba bathande amanye amalungu osapho kwaye babakhathalele. Kwinkcubeko yethu, esi sisiseko sempikiswano, kuba abantwana bebesoloko bekwindawo yokuqala yeentsapho ezininzi. Kwaye inyikizi yethu kuya kufuneka iphinde iphinde iqhubele phambili ngokubambisana nomyeni wakhe. Ngelixa wayengomnye kumgaqo ohlangulekileyo, ngokungekho sikweni ngokumkhathalela. Ayisiyo kuphela ukuba inengxaki yoku, kodwa yena, kunye nokunxibelelana kwabo.
Ke ngoko, ubudlelwane abuqhelekanga, baya kuhlala kufakwa kwaye balumkele iqabane. Ubomi butshintsha, usapho lukhula, ubudlelwane buza kutshintsha kwakhona inkanuko yangaphambili, ukuthantamisa kunye nokuthandana kuya kudlula. Ke ngoko, kuyimfuneko ukuba uyile ngokwasemthethweni na imihla ngemihla. Kwaye oku kufanelekile emsebenzini.
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UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin