Ukwakha ubudlelwane obuvisisanayo ngaphakathi kosapho-yinto enzima efuna ukubandakanyeka kwamaqabane omabini. Kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo, kuye kwakho ukunyuka okukhulu kwenani loqhawulo mtshato, izizathu zininzi kwaye zonke zingumntu ngamnye, kodwa ukwimeko yehlabathi, uqhawulo-mtshato kungenxa yokuphulukana neemvakalelo phakathi kwe Abantu abasondeleyo kwihlabathi liphela.
Ngokweziphumo zophando kunye nophando malunga neengcali zentlalo, xa kuvela ubunzima kwisibini, kuphela abaphenduli abathatha amanyathelo afanelekileyo ajolise ekumiseleni incoko, kwezinye iimeko amaqabane afudumeleyo kuphela. Sigqibe kwelokuba sifumanise indlela yokuthintela ukuphuculwa koxinzelelo lwengxabano kwaye uzame ukugcina usapho.
Zijonge ngokwakho
Ngexesha lokuxabana okanye ezinye iingxaki losapho, andifuni kuyivuma loo nto ukuba netyala koko kwenzeke nakulo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba iqabane lakho ngumntu omdala, oguqukayo ungenamsebenzi, uya kuyicaphukisa kuphela. Veza inyathelo lokuqala kwiimeko xa ubona isisombululo kwingxaki yoxolo. Njengommiselo, isiqingatha sesibini sinovelwano ngemozulu kunye nendawo enamaqabane abo, kwaye ke, enxibe kakhulu, iqabane lakho liya kuvumelana nawe kwaye uqhawulo-mtshato. Bonisa umzekelo.
Chitha ixesha elininzi yedwa
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Veza iimpawu zabasetyhini
Ayimangalisi loo nto iimpawu zabasetyhini ngokwenene bezihlala zithathwa njengeliqhinga, bhetyebhetye kunye nengqondo ephilayo. Ewe kunjalo, asithethi malunga namatyala xa uhlala kwimozulu yoxinzelelo olusisigxina-kule meko, lenza ukuba ungabi nazi mbono nanye kule meko, kodwa ukuba awunakwamkela umbono womnye umntu kwaye umamele Kuluvo olusuka kwinxalenye, sebenza ngokwakho - umtshato onamandla ufuna omabini amaqabane, kodwa ngakumbi evela kumfazi, ibonakaliso yokuguquguquka kunye nokukwazi ukwabelana ngeembono zeqabane labo kuxhomekeka kwimeko.
Thetha, thetha kwaye kwakhona-thetha
Asikafundanga ukufunda iingcinga ezivela kwintloko yomnye umntu, kwaye ngenxa yoko ekuphela kwendlela yokucacisa imeko engaqondakaliyo kwaye ibalulekile ekuthetheni neqabane ngexesha kwaye ndifumanise isizathu Ukungoneliseki kwakhe. Khumbula, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukhe uzibuze kwimeko engaqondakaliyo - kutheni engathethanga nam? Kutheni esenza into engaqhelekanga? Kwangoko beza nesizathu sokuba kungabikho nyani. Ngenxa yoko, ukhathaza kwaye sele uphalaze ngaphandle kweqabane lakho kwiqabane lakho, lenze ukuba kubekho kwisikrelemnqa. Soloko xoxa nolwalamano lwakho.
Zama ukuhlala wedwa rhoqo
Namhlanje, ukunqongophala kwexesha phantse kwesinye sezizathu eziphambili zokunqongophala phakathi kwamaqabane: wena neqabane lakho lichitha ixesha elininzi emsebenzini, kwaye ke umsebenzi odibeneyo ubaluleke kakhulu kwisibini. Nokuba unabo abantwana kwaye kwangaxeshanye awungekhe uchaphazele ishedyuli yomsebenzi wakho, hlala ufumana iiyure ezimbalwa ngeveki ukuze usebenzise kunye, akukho mntu unokukuphazamisa. I-Steam, edityaniswe ngolwalamano olunamandla ngokweemvakalelo, kulula kakhulu ukujamelana neengxaki kubudlelwane kwaye kufumanisa ulwimi oluqhelekileyo.