Ngoku kulula kakhulu ukucwangcisa umdlali. Iingcali zengqondo ezinobuchule zivula onke amakhadi kwaye zabelane ngemiyalelo yamanyathelo ngendlela yokuthandwa kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane kunye nabantu.
Ungalibali malunga nomnxibelelanisi. Oku, enyanisweni, yeyona ngongoma ibalulekileyo: bonisa ingqondo yakho kunye nengqwalaselo kwabanye. Wonke umntu uthanda ukummamela kwaye wamqonda.
Musa ukuzibamba iimvakalelo zakho. Musa ukoyika ukuzibonakalisa kwaye ube nokubonakalisa ngakumbi. Abantu bayakuthanda ukuvuleleka kunye nendalo. Uncumo olunyulu luyakwazi ukwenza froning ekuqaleni kokubona.
I-Flind nomntu omthandayo. Ukuze ufumanise, uvelwano olutshatileyo lukhona, kufanelekile ukubonisa kuqala. Kungenjalo, umntu uyakushiya iimvakalelo zakhe kunye naye.
Musa ukoyika ukukhathazeka. Ungahlekisa kwaye uhleke ngokwakho- Lo ngumgangatho oxabisekileyo, enkosi apho ungayibeka khona ngokulula abadibeneyo. Ikhupha zonke iingcinga ezimbi kwaye iya kukubonisa ukusuka kwicala elifanelekileyo. Into ephambili ayizukugcina ngaphezulu.
Ungabeki. Sukunyanzela umnxibelelanisi ngokucacileyo, kodwa ungalibaleki. Sukuvula onke amakhadi akho ngaxeshanye-hlala ungaqondakali. Oku kunokubangela kwaye utsala umdla.
Musa ukoyika ukubonakala kwelinye icala. Yothusa imifanekiso entsha okanye izinto zokuzonwabisa. Iya kwenza umntu wakho aqaqambe kwaye anomdla.