Xa sisiva malunga noFranzow, ngokungazi khumbulani ngelishwa abantu abatsha abavela kuma-chieneards, apho umntu ongaphumelelanga ndoda ingaphumelelanga kwintombazana enomtsalane kuphela. Nangona kunjalo, kubomi benene kukho iimeko ezimbalwa ezingenanto apho intombazana sele ikwi "Ibish egciniweyo".
Kunzima ukufudukela kwinqanaba elitsha lolwalamano nomntu ongabonisanga umdla kuwe njengomfazi, kodwa akukho nto inqandayo ekuzameni le meko. Siza kukuxelela ezona ndlela zintlanu zisebenzayo zokunyanzela umhlobo wakho, onokuthi uncwine, jonga ngamanye amehlo.
Awunguye "vest"
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Akafanele akuthathe umhlobo
Ngelishwa, ubudlelwane obunobuhlobo busendleleni eya kubudlelwane bomlinganiswa osondeleyo. Ekuqaleni, iFrendzon ayithethi ukuba ubuhlobo ekuqondeni okuqhelekileyo, kuba umahluko phakathi kwakho, uqala ngesini kwaye uphele ngendlela yokuphila. Bambalwa kuphela ababonisa ubuhlobo phakathi kwezesondo kwiminyaka edlulileyo, kwiimeko ezininzi, awunayo into yokuphulukana nekhefu. Kodwa kukho ithuba lokuba ngumhlobo wangaphambili.
Yiyeke
Emento emehlweni endoda, ukuzithoba kumfazi kunokwenzeka kwaye kuthathwa njengento eqhelekileyo kuphela ukuba sithetha ngonina, kuzo zonke ezinye iimeko, ukugcinwa ngokugqithileyo kuya kuba ngumqobo omkhulu kuwe, afuna ukufezekisa.
Awunguye "vest"
Ngokuqinisekileyo uvelwano lubalulekile nakulo naluphi na ulwalamano, kodwa xa uqala ukusebenzisa ngokukodwa njengesifundo sentuthuzelo, yindlela eya ngqo. Uxelela ngeengxaki zakhe zobungcali, iingxabano ngamantombazana, kwaye kufuneka uphulaphule yonke le nto kwaye uyithuthuzele rhoqo. Kwangelo xesha, umntu okwityala akangxami ukumamela izikhalazo zakho - emva kwayo yonke loo nto, weza kuthetha ngaphandle.
Nje ukuba uqonde ukuba umntu usebenzisa wena, yeka ukwamkela "ipostaker" kwangoko.
Sukungxama ukuya kwifowuni yokuqala
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Akufanelanga ukuba uhlale unxibelelana
Ukuzama ukwenza ukuba umntu athande iqabane lakho, sihlala sibingelela ixesha lethu kunye nezinto esinomdla kuzo, kodwa olo phononongo luphantse luze luvavanywe. Akukho sidingo sokuphosa yonke imicimbi yakho kwaye ubaleke ukuze usombulule iingxaki zakhe: Makaqonde ukuba ungumntu onobomi bam, kodwa kuphela abahlali entanyeni. Indoda iya kuqala ukukuhlonipha kuqala, kwaye ke iya kuba nomdla, enokubaluleka ngakumbi kunaye ebomini bakho.
Ungavumeli iingcebiso "zebhinqa"
Masithi ucela uncedo kwisipho esivela kwiqabane ngomhla wokuzalwa kwakhe. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uhlale naye kwangoko kwaye uxoxe, kwaye ndingathanda ntoni lo mfazi konke konke. Ngoncedo lwakho, uya kuba negalelo kuphela kwi-cuproched yayo kunye nomnye umfazi. Ngaba uzabalazela oku? Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba noogxa be-paratidale oogxa abangamadoda anokucombulula kulo mbandela kwaye ngaphandle kokuthatha kwakho inxaxheba.
Yiyeke ukuba yinye
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