Zonke iingxaki zivela ebuntwaneni- iingcali zengqondo ziqwalasele njalo. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba kwenziwe umntwana okwiminyaka ukuze umnze umntwana eluthandweni kwaye adlulisele ukuthanda kwakhe uxolo kuye. Abafazi besenza lo msebenzi wedwa kunzima ngakumbi: Kukho uxanduva olungaphezulu kwamagxa abo, oko kukwinkqubo-sikhokelo yeeyure ezingama-24 - rhoqo umsebenzi onganyibilikiyo. Ukuthetha malunga neengcebiso ezilula eziya kutshintsha usapho lwakho ukuba ngcono.
Musa ukulusa
Ngelixa uthetha ngotata womntwana ochaswa okanye konke okufihlakeleyo malunga naye emntwaneni, umnika umntu emvelweni. Nokuba kuthe kwaza ntoni na kuwe, ungumntu owahlukileyo, kodwa hayi umntwana ngokwakhe. Ukusasazwa ngokusisigxina kolwazi olungalunganga kuya kuhlehlisa oku kulandelayo kwimemori yomntwana: Xa sele bekhulile, abantu abangenakufumana ixesha elide, kuba boyika ukuba nempazamo nje njengoomama. Nika umyeni wangaphambili okanye umfana. Ithuba lokumisela unxibelelwano nomntwana. Umsebenzi wakho kukuthatha imeko kwaye uyeke ukuba unentiyo, nokuba yeyiphi na indoda yakho yangaphambili. Nje ukuba uzive ungakhathali emntwini, kwaye emva kokuba ngaphakathi kumxolele, ubomi buya kuba lula kakhulu. Oku kuyasebenza nakwizihlobo zakhe-ootatomkhulu noomakhulu kunye nomalume banelungelo lokunxibelelana nomntwana. Ngakumbi ukuba bahlala benobubele kuwe nakumntwana.
Ikhokelwa ngomyeni wangaphambili - Akukho sizathu sokuthetha ngalo "mhle" emntwaneni
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Sukuzama ukutshintsha umntu
Ungumfazi, hayi irobhothi: akunakwenzeka ukwenza iindima ezimbini ngaxeshanye. Yiba ngumntwana onothando, onomdla ebomini bakhe kwaye uzama ukuqhubeka namaxesha. Akukho nto imbi ukuba unyana wakho amanqaku kunye nephepha le-Glue liya kufundisa utat'omkhulu okanye umalume. Ukuba uyayazi indlela yokwenza ngokwakho, ulibale malunga nocalucalulo ngesondo kwaye ubonise yonke into ngokwakho! Sithetha nje xa umntu obhinqileyo ecinga imisebenzi yamadoda, ezama zombini ukuba sisitshixo, kunye ne-gingerbread. Zikhathalele kwaye ungazigqithisi ekufumaneni umama ofanelekileyo-i-psyche yakho esempilweni iya kumnika umntwana angaphezulu kwesakhono sokufumana amanqaku.
Thoba ixesha kum
"Ewe, ndizamile ubomi bam bonke!" -Bantwana abavela koomama ababesele bebodwa bahlala beva eli binzana lilusizi. Isigqibo sokuzala umntwana yayisigqibo sakho kuphela, kwaye singesosixhobo somyeni wakhe, oomama okanye abamelwane kweli lizwe. Akukho sidingo 'sokuzama ubomi bam "ukukhulisa umntwana nomntu ofanelekileyo. Kungcono ukumbonisa umzekelo wam oyena mntu uphambili kwihlabathinzelwe yena ngokwakhe. Akumangalisi ke ukuba oonontlalo-bychologists athi masizelwe sodwa kwaye sife sodwa. Zithandeke kuqala kubo bonke, zikhathalele impilo yakho, ingqondo nemnyama.
Ukukhuthaza ukuphuculwa komntwana
Musa ukubanqanda ukuba enze oko akuthandayo. Ukudanisa, ukucula, ukuzoba okanye imodeli yenqwelomoya - inokuthathwa nayiphi na into. Ukufumana imeko oyithandayo, umntwana uza kuthatha inxalenye yendlela yokuzonwabisa yexesha lakhe lasimahla - ngenxa yoko ayizukukhathazeka xa ulibazisayo emsebenzini okanye uqhubeke ngomhla onokubakho. Ngaphambili usana luqhela kubomi obuzimeleyo kunye nocwangciso lobuqu, okufanayo kuye. Uya kufunda ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu kwaye angaweli ekulangazelela, xa sele ephelile.
Yolula uncedo lwabantwana
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Hlawula iiseshoni zengqondo
Uninzi lusacinga ukuba luya kugqirha wezengqondo - ayinjalo. Ayisiyo yonke into efunwa ngumntwana kwaye inokuxoxa nawe. Mnike ithuba lokufumana iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo malunga nokulawula iimvakalelo zakho, ukulwa uxinzelelo kunye neendlela zokuphumla. Ngokwesiqhelo iinyanga ezi-1-2 zeeklasi ukuze zibone utshintsho.