Ukutsala kwangaphandle komfazi ngokukhawuleza kukhanya amadoda. Kodwa xa iziphumo zakhe zomlingo zihlaziyekile, kwafuneka babe nobuchule.
Ungamkhuthaza njani umntu ukuba ahambe esithendeni kwaye enesibindi sokulinda intlanganiso?
Imidlalo yengqondo
Yonke ityiwa kwi-psychology eyindoda. Into ephambili kukwazi ukuba yeyiphi amaqhosha onqakrazayo. Kwaye onke amadoda ahlukile, kukho iindlela zempembelelo zempi nganye ezifanelekileyo kuwo wonke umntu onesidima.
Ukuphefumlelwa. Vuselela umntu inkqubo yokuziqonda kunye nokuxelwa kweyona nguqulo yakho ilungileyo. Myekeni uziva womelele, ubuchule, obunomdla ngakumbi - phantse i-superhero. Kwaye ke loo nto iphindaphinde kwaye iphinde ive le mvakalelo imnandi, uya kuzama ukuba kufutshane kuye lowo umncedayo, oko kukuthi, kunjalo nawe.
Ulwimi lomzimba womlingo. Kwaye ngakumbi, jonga. Ukuthandana ngothando olubonakalayo kulithuba elinamandla phakathi kwakho nendoda. Kwaye-umqondiso ocacileyo womdla kunye nokuvuleleka ekungeneni ngakumbi. Mbonise i-falltionary ujongeke ngenkangeleko yoncumo ukuba uyakubonwa "- oko kukuthi, umdla, onomdla, onqwenelekayo. Ngexesha lokukhanya okunemizimba entle kunye nokuhamba-impembelelo kuya kuba yinto entle!
Imfihlakalo yakho. Mxelele naliphi na ibali ngam, ungalibali ukukhankanya ukuba oku kungaphantsi kwembanzini "ngokufihlakeleyo" kwaye awuzange uxelele mntu. Indoda iya kuva ukukhetha kwakhe ebomini bakho, kwaye oku kuya kumkhuthaza ukuba afumanele ukufumana izigqibo. Kubalulekile ukuba ibali lingathathi hlangothi, kulula, mhlawumbi lihlekise, linomdla, ligxininisa izibonelelo zakho.
Iqhina. Yivene ngamabinzana anomdla. Umzekelo, "ndikuxelele okanye ungaxeleli into, Hmm? Mhlawumbi kwixesha elizayo! " Okanye "Uyazi, kukho enye ingcinga ngawe entlokweni yam, kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba ndidinga ukuhlala naye, ukuba ndicinge ngayo, emva koko ndiza kwabelana nawe." Sebenzisa olu hlobo kungekuphela kwincoko, kodwa nakwindlela yokuziphatha - ukumangalisa kwaye uve inzala xa ingalindi.
Ukuzithemba. Ngamanye amaxesha kwimovie umntu adibana nebhinqa elilusizi, elilusizi, liwela eluthandweni kwaye liguqula ubomi bakhe kwintsomi. Kodwa enyanisweni, ukungakhuseleki kutsala amadoda usebenzisa ubungozi basetyhini. Intembelo yimagnethi yamadoda aphumelelayo, anesidima. Ke ngoko, yidilize, kodwa hayi "niwe" ekhwele.
Ingqesho. Veza ukuba i-Wedge yokukhanya ayihambelani kwindoda, kwaye ukuba unommiselo wobuqu, izinto ozonwabisa, izinto ozithandayo. Izakwenza ukuba ingakukhumbuli kuphela, kodwa ikuncede ngokwasemphefumlweni ungayigqithisi kwindoda ngaphandle komlinganiso. Myeke abone ukuba unomdla, phuhlisa ukuba unayo eyakho indalo apho ukhululekile ngaphandle kwayo. Mhlawumbi uyakuqhuba kancinane kuye - kwaye sisandla sakho!
Umnqweno owoyiswayo. Abanye abantu basetyhini bayathanda ukusukela amadoda: Ukusuka ekufundeni umgangatho kunye nobungakanani bokuthanda ukuhambahamba emva kwakhe kwizithende. Kodwa ubone phi ukubhiyozela umzingeli? Nditsho ndicinge ukuba iyahlekisa! Mshiye lelonwabo kwaye uyilondoloze ngeendlela zonke zeendlela ngaphezulu.
Ndiyathemba ukuba la maqhinga amancinci aya kukunceda umisele ubomi bakho. Ingcebiso encinci ayinyanzeli indoda ixesha elide ukuba leyise. Mnike, ungazalisekisi kude kube sekupheleni. Kwaye emva koko ubuso bakhe bokuzingela akuyi kwenza buthathaka kwiminyaka engama-20 ukuya kwengama-30.