Ngaba ukhe ulinde unyaka omtsha ukuze "i" mhlophe "yaqala ebomini? Okanye ubuncinci ngumtya womnye umbala ngaphandle komnyama? Ngaba wena unobunzulu bokwenyani wenza umnqweno ngexesha lokulwa kweeKrats?
Ngaba ufunda i-horoscopes kunyaka omtsha kwaye uqaphele ukuba kunyaka olandelayo uthembisa uphawu lwakho lwe-zodiac?
Ngamnye wethu sinye kuthi ngenye indlela okanye enye into yokucinga ukuba ukuqala konyaka omtsha, into entsha ebomini bethu iya kuqala. Uhlobo oluthile lokutshintsha komgangatho luya kwenzeke okanye inqanaba elinzima liza kuphela ebomini. Ngesizathu esithile, senza le nto kunyaka omtsha, nangona isengqiqweni ukwenza ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa. Kodwa kwinkampani yalowo wonke umntu onqwenela ukunqwenela ukuba yonke into izakutshintsha ngokwayo ukuze ilunge ngakumbi, kwaye ingabi nazintloni. Konke malunga nokwenza into enye.
Ke ngoko ngokwesiko leengcambu, sikhetha inkampani, siphatha, izipho ngeenxa zonke, abafazi banxiba phantsi (emva koko, niyakuchitha njani). Kwaye balinde umlingo okhethekileyo, oya kuthi "asebenze" ngo-Eva kunyaka omtsha.
Ngoku makhe siqonde ukuba kutheni i-pragmatic, abantu abadala, abanengqiqo, abanamava kunye nabantu abanobuchule kwaye nabanobulungisa kwaye bamiliselwe kuNyaka oMnandi kunye nendlela yesiko?
Okokuqala, ngamnye wethu Ukuphuculwa kuyafuneka . Iiseli zomzimba wethu zihlaziywa ngokupheleleyo kangangesixhenxe, kodwa uhlaziyo lomphefumlo ngakumbi. Kufuneka sisukele iziphumo zenqanaba lokuphila, zanyikima uxinzelelo oluqokelelweyo, ukudinwa kwaye luqale iphepha elitsha. UNyaka oMtsha kwezi sus ezifanelekileyo. Kuba akukho mntu uyaziyo ukuba silindele ntoni kwixesha elizayo, unyaka omtsha ufumaneka ngokwesiko ezahlukeneyo, "umema" ezintsha ebomini bethu. Ezi nkcubeko zibandakanya nje iminqweno edumileyo yemitya yedabi, ukugcinwa kwendlu, njengemifanekiso ecacileyo yokucoca indawo kuwo wonke ichaphazeleka kwaye ayimfuneko. Akukho ngozi, sizama, ukuba kunokwenzeka, sibuyisele amatyala, sigqibe thuba, elihlelwe unyaka wonke. Kuthi thina, olu luphawu lokukhulula okwenkululeko.
Okwesibini, iyasebenza "Ukucinga komlingo" -Inye yeendlela zokukhuselwa kwengqondo nosindiso kwiimeko zoxinzelelo. Le yindlela yabantwana elula: i-fantasy yokuba yonke into iza kulungiswa ngokwayo ukuba umntu uza kukhusela okanye ancede. Ukucinga ngomlingo kuyasasazwa kwaye ngokubanzi kwimfuno. Nantsi imizekelo yakhe yeklasi enkulu: Xa singena kunyaka omtsha, sibhenela ekucingweni komlingo, kuba isetyenziswa ngokuqhelekileyo kwiindawo kunye nemibuzo esingafuniyo ukwenza isigqibo, okanye izisombululo zangaphambili bezibuhlungu.
Unyaka omtsha uhlala uyiholide yosapho kunye nesangqa sabahlobo. Nje ukuba yonke inkampani enyanisekileyo ihla ezantsi etafileni, iminqweno yempilo, impumelelo nolonwabo luviwe. Njengakwityala ngalinye, "ulonwabo" lubonakala ngathi, akukho mntu uqhubekayo. Lowo uyifunayo okanye abo bafuna. Kutheni unganqweneli into ngakumbi? Njengoko uMisikalil Zadornov watsho, "Ukuba isango laphukelwe yindlu yangasese, kutheni ungayifuni ukuyilungisa?" (Quote, ewe, hayi ngokoqobo). Kuonyana abanomdla, ngendlela, uSanta Claus. Kodwa bayakwazi ukuqubuda. Abaceli uhlobo oluthile lwento yokudlala, kodwa bacela enye into. Ke ngoko, abazali babo, ukuvumela amehlo, ezenzeka ngo-Eva yemithi yeKrisimesi efuna izipho ezixabisekileyo.
Abantu abadala, abantwana abaninzi abaninzi bakholelwa kummangaliso wobugqwirha, oya kuzalisekiswa ngokwako, kunokwenzeka kuphela ukuba unqwenelele ngokuchanekileyo.
Kuba ukuba ngoNyaka oMtsha oye wangena 'kwintengiso yephupha ", andiyi kuxhathisa Iingcebiso ezininzi.
1) Makuqinisekise kwaye isetyenziswe ngayo yonke imisebenzi yengqondo, iyasebenza. Iphupha ngokuthe ngqo: Kwenzeka ntoni xa. Endaweni yokuba "ndifuna umvuzo ngakumbi", qiniseka ukuba oku kucacile: "Ngo-Matshi 2016, umvuzo wam uphinda kabini." Awudingi ukwazi ukuba kwenzeka njani, kubalulekile ukuba ujonge iziphumo.
2) Ukongeza kwi "imfuneko" kunye "nento", gqiba kwelokuba ungayikhuthaza njani kwaye uyikhuthazana apho uya khona, indlela yokuphumla. Esi sincomo singcono kakhulu ukwenza i-avidyalicals.
3) Beka isandla entliziyweni, akunakuphumeza iminqweno oyithandayo. Umzekelo, nokuba sele uzicekisile zonke iindlela ezamkelekileyo, ukuba lixesha lokuba uyeke ukutshaya, kodwa ngokwakho awufuni ukuhamba, uya kuqhubeka ukutshaya. Nokuba wonke umhle kwaye "ulungile" unqwenela.
4) Nceda uqaphele ukuba unyaka ukuya kunyaka wonke umnqweno ofanayo ngaphandle kokubulawa, kuthetha ukuba ukhangele ubukhulu bobomi bakho. Nokuba kusasa ukuya ngokuhlwa, jonga i-satellite yobomi okanye iindlela zokufumana, kwaye ngoku, ngoku, kuthetha ukuba unyawo lwakho luphawu. Mhlawumbi kufanelekile ukuphinda iphinde iphinde ifumane inkuthazo yakho okanye iindlela ozama ukujongana nazo ngoku.
5) Oku kuvela kwi "versinon ngokucacileyo". Ewe, ukuba uyanqwenela, kuya kufuneka uyenze. Ke qhubeka ekuphunyezweni kweminqweno yakho. Ukusuka ngoJanuwari 1, kunjalo.
Ngethamsanqa kunye nokuza!
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin