Malunga neendlela ezilishumi ezisebenzayo zokuqinisekisa ukuba le ndoda ayilikhumbuli nje igama elilungileyo, kodwa lafuna ukukubuyisela. Idinga wena. Apha sinokunika ezintathu kuphela. Zonke zichanekile kwaye azithandabuzekisi kwi-subconsion. Oku kuxolelwa njengembonakalo yenja. Ukuba ngexesha lokutya kwesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya ukuya kwintsimbi, emva koko emva kwexesha ijusi ye-Gastric kwi-PSA iya kuphazamiseka ngokuzenzekelayo, xa, awuzange uthathe intsimbi ezandleni.
1. Ukuncoma kunye nokugwetyelwa. Kubalulekile ukuba ukuncoma akuthethi nje umntu. Kuya kufuneka aphendule umbuzo "Kutheni" kwaye unenani elikhulu leenkcukacha. Isenokuba luluvo malunga nenxalenye yomzimba, umlinganiswa, okanye ezinye iimpawu zomntu. Kubalulekile. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukuncoma kungabonakali. Umzekelo: "Unezandla ezihle, kuba ziziva zinamandla okwenyani kunye nokuthembeka. Kwangelo xesha, ngaphandle kweentlobo zabo zobugwenxa, kuvakala njengoko kunokuba nobuchule kwaye bethambile. Ndiyakuthanda ukujonga izandla zakho. Ndiyathanda ukuziva! ". Kufanelekile ukuphinda oku kufuna nje izihlandlo nje ezimbalwa, kwaye le ndoda ayisoze ikulibale.
Masiqonde into ethethwa ngumbhali wale ntshukumisa. Eyokuqala bubuhle bezandla zeqabane lakhe zingenakuphikiswa kwaye alithandabuzekisi. Ubuhle besibini bezandla ziqhagamshelwe noko umntu uhlala enekratshi ngeqhayiya kwaye eyinyaniso yokuba unobuchule. Kwaye owesithathu - inkosikazi yokuncoma iphawulile ukubaluleka kwazo zonke ezi zinto kubo. Oko kukuthi, wabopha ubuhle bendoda kunye nabo, ngeemvakalelo kunye neminqweno yabo. Ukuncoma okunjalo kuya kwenza njalo emva kokwahlukana. Ngoku, kunye nakuphi na ukuchukumisa kwamadoda, ukurhoxisa okuqinisekileyo kunye nokuyikhumbula ngakumbi ngezandla zakhe, indoda iyakukhumbula i-connen efanayo kunye nenkosikazi yayo.
2. Ukucoca umntu. Uninzi lwabafazi bayalumka amadoda abo. Lungiselela isidlo sakusasa, ucime, ukubetha njalo njalo. Ngelishwa, abayeni balikhoboka lelikhoboka lezinto ezixhalabisayo aziqapheli ixesha. Okanye uqaphele xa ulahlekelwe ngokuhlekayo lowo wenza okungaphezulu kubo kunokuba kufanelekile. Ungabonisa njani ukuthanda kwakho? Ungayenza njani isifundo sendoda? Khumbula ukuba uyathanda. Inokuba lumnandi. Umzekelo, iapile. Akunzima ukubeka iapile epokothweni yakhe kube kanye ngeveki. Beka ukuze angaboni. Emva kokuba efumene isimangalo, ukuba emenyene okanye omnye umntu anobuqhophololo phambi koogxa bakhe. Baya kumona, aze aziqhayise. Iya khumbula ngonaphakade.
3. Iphunga. Iphunga yimvakalelo engcono kunenye into egcinwe kwinkumbulo yomntu. Nokuba yintlungu kunye noloyiko musa ukuba ngoluhlobo olunzulu kwi-subconsion. Wonke umntu uneseti yevumba elimenza abo okanye ezinye iimvakalelo. Isenokuba ivumba le-gogramatiser buns, ijakethi yotata yesikhumba okanye iinwele zakhe. Inkumbulo ihleli. Xa ivumba elithile linxulunyaniswa namava anzulu okubonana, xa la mava asondelelene kulonwabo - ivulo elihamba nayo liya kuxhumana ngokuqinileyo la mava. Ingafakwa njani le nkonzo yakho? Eyona ndlela ilula yokusebenzisa isiqholo esifanayo ngexesha lokuqaqamba. Ivumba elimnandi lokukhanya lemimoya yakho lixutywe nendoda ethandwa kakhulu. Ukuba iintlanganiso ezisondeleyo ibiyindoda emnandi-akasokuze ayilibale! Kwaye ukhumbuze, njengoko kwakunjalo, kuya kubakho ivumba leziqholo ngokwayo.
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