Kuyo yonke indawo yokudlala, njengommiselo, iqela lakhe elimiselweyo lamaom. Awunakho ukrokrela malunga nayo de sibaleke ekuseni ukuze sisebenze idlulile indawo enjalo. Kwaye kuphela xa unabantwana, kunokwenzeka ukuba uza kudlula kweli qela. Siza kuxela iindidi ezintlanu ezithandwayo ze-mammies onokuthi udibane nazo zihamba nomntwana wakho, kwaye ekubhetele kuzo ukuhlala kude.
Kwabanye oomama, umntwana umbindi wehlabathi
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Ayiqhelekanga umama
Lo mfazi akanamdla wokuluvo lwakho, umsebenzi wakhe-uyakhanyisela wena nabanye emva kwayo yonke loo nto iyayazi kakuhle. Nje ukuba uhlale kwivenkile enkundleni, apho uMoma ophila khona, linda ukuhamba kolwazi, kwaye kungasebenzi kakuhle kuwe: Uyakwazi ukunxibelelana nomkhwekazi, apho i-mugs inike umntwana nini Umntwana wakho kufuneka aqalise ukuthetha kwaye ahambe, kwaye ukuba akuqali, kuya kuqala ukucebisa uMveli oqhelekileyo kwaye ngokusisigxina.
Abafazi abanjalo, njengommiselo, bachitha ixesha labo kwi-Intanethi kwi-Intanethi "ye-maman" ekhethekileyo, lonke ulwazi abalufumanayo lukhawulezile ukuya "khupha i-masses", kuloo ndawo.
Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba badibene nomlinganiswa ofanayo, zama ukungayijoyini i-Dialog, kule meko kukho ithuba lokuba uya kukhawuleza uphulukane nexhoba elitsha.
Umama ngomntwana omangalisayo
Sithetha ngoMama, umntwana wakhe osekumbindi wehlabathi. Xa wayejamelene nomzali onjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kumamela ibali elonwabisayo malunga nokufezekiswa konyana wabo oneminyaka emithathu ubudala okanye intombi, kwaye uninzi lwamandla omntwana luzimisele. Xa "inkosazana 'yabo iza eKindergarten, Umama ufuna ubudlelwane obukhethekileyo bootitshala, iindima eziphambili kwimveliso yomthendeleko, kwaye inyani ibonisa umsebenzi omuhle kubomi beqela apho umntwana wakhe efumana khona.
Ukuba ukungabikho kokwenzeka kwaye uya kuba nakho ukwenza ubuhlobo kunye nomama onjalo kunye nombhiyozo wakhe ommangaliso, ubuhlobo bakhe buza kuhlala ngqo de amaxesha akhokele okanye uzithandabuzekile "
Ungavumeli ukuphepha abantwana babanye abantu.
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Umama akalunganga
Yonke into icacile apha: Awunalo ixesha lokuya kwisiza, kwaye uMammy onjengenxalenye entsha yezikhalazo kwihlabathi liphela sele ichithwe kuwe, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ingxaki yabafazi abanjalo Ubunzima bendawo yokhetho lwelizwe leholide yosapho okanye ukhetho lweengubo zokuzalwa kwentombazana. Ukuba "unethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuze nifezekiswe noMnxibelelanisi onjalo, masiqonde ngobunono ukuba abakulungelanga ukumamela umsinga wezinto ezingahambelaniyo, tshintsha isihloko.
Jonga abo kunye nento oyithethayo
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Mama - "kuyo yonke indawo-yonke-ndiyazi"
Aba bafazi bahlala bephila "ngokujikeleza iqela loomama abanengxolo, befumana ulwazi abaludingayo. Omamemy wazi kakuhle, onomyeni ongumntu ongumthandi, osemqhawule umtshato, umntwana wakhe onengxaki yempilo, ehamba kwiholide. Nceda uqaphele ukuba zonke iincoko zakho "zirekhodwa" emva kokuba "isasazwa" abanye, zilandele ngononophelo le nto uyithethayo.
Mama, ohleli kwintamo yakhe "
Olona hlobo luyingozi. Uyayazi indlela yokuzithemba kwaye ngoku uhlakulela iimveliso, ukudlulisa iimveliso kunye nosapho, oko kwaziwe, kwaye akunzima kuwe. Awuyi kubona indlela yokuqalisa ukukhathalela umntwana wakhe ngelixa umama wakhe "exakekile." Kwangelo xesha, awukwazi ukukhumbula xa ixesha lokugqibela ekuncedeleni okanye okungenani uncedo. Yintoni ebangela umdla kamsinya nje ukuba ungavumi kwinto ethile, ngoko nangoko uzifumanisa ngawe kakhulu izinto ezintsha. Ke thamngca ke, unxibelelwano lwendawo yokudlala: Amanzi ngamasmue kakhulu.