Ngaba ucinga okungenani kanye, ukuya kuthi ga ngokuchukunyiswa sisifo se-pronorial shenxima esibizwa ngokuba "yiholide zoNyaka oMtsha"? Namhlanje iya kuba malunga ne-phenomeno enomdla ebizwa ngokuba "kukutya ngokusinda" kwiholide. Kutheni le nto silandela izithethe zonyaka omtsha, imvelaphi engayaziyo? Kutsho "uOlivier", u-Dering phantsi kwengubo yoboya kunye netafile yeTangerines kwitafile yonyaka omtsha? Ingekuko ukuba bendizibuza ibali lokuyilwa kwezi zitya. Kuyinto enomdla ngakumbi ukukhusela umkhusane wezinto zabo zengqondo.
Siphile kumthendeleko kwindawo yosapho kwaye ungafa "kwinqanaba"
Iiholide zoNyaka oMtsha luhlobo lwenkcubeko yenkcubeko. Ngeli xesha, kunzima ukuyeka kwaye uzibone ngemvelaphi yento eyenzekayo. Okothusayo kukuba, njengoko abanye bethu, bephathelele kakhulu ukutya kwemihla ngemihla, kwiiholide zinamathele kuwo onke amangcwaba, ukudibanisa ukutya ". Ngoba? Ngaba imikhosi yeyokuphoswa? Hayi. Ayisiyonto malunga nentando kwaye ayifani. Inyani yile yokuba ezi zitya zininzi kudala i-psycholologuety yaguquka ibe kukufana kombingelelo esibingelelweni. Umthendeleko wosapho kuMntwana omtsha yimthendeleko esemthethweni, engcwele, uphawu lwemanyano yosapho ngegama lenjongo ethile.
Ikhokelwa yindlela yenkqubo, ndiza kuthi xa amalungu entsapho ehamba kunye, intsimi yengqondo engabonakaliyo yenziwa kule "Cathedral". Ibunjwe yintsapho engazi, echaphazela iqokele ngakumbi, kokukhona iimfihlakalo ezingaphezulu, ezifihlakeleyo, iimvakalelo ezingazange zilandelwe kunye neengxabano. I-phenomeno ikhanyiselwe ngokubanzi kuncwadi lobuchule. Kukufanelekile ukuthetha loo nto, ngokuqokelela kunye, abantu baqala ukuziphathela into engaqhelekanga kumntu wesithathu. Intsimi engaziyo yosapho ayinalo ixesha lokuphela. Nokuba iminyaka mingaphi idlulile, -Ukuthatha kwakho konke okufanayo kuyafana nakwixesha elidlulileyo. Abantu abadala phambi kwabazali babo baguquke babantwana abancinci abancinci, izalamane ezinamatheleneyo zifumana indawo elahlekileyo, kukho impindezelo phakathi kwemibuzo engasonjululwanga kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini eyadlulayo, abantwana abancinci bazolile okanye baqala ukwenziwa ngokungaqhelekanga ...
Unyango lwaseMoring wosapho oludumileyo, oluzinikele ekufundeni indawo engaziyo yosapho, ichaza incwadi yakhe ngombulelo, apho khwela inqwelo moya, apho izalamane zaya kwiholide ivela kulo lonke elaseMelika. Wavuma ukuba ngelo xesha ngaphambi kokufika kwakhe, waziva ukuba i-wug engabonakaliyo ingayenza ukuba ibe yingqondo yakhe kwaye iphinde ibe yinkwenkwe encinci kwaye ingenalo inkwenkwe encinci kunye nendoda yengqondo ngamava.
Itheyibhile njengeziko lecandelo kunye neplagi ukusuka kwi-mouserd pauses
Ngokubanzi, ukujonga usapho kwimikhosi epheleleyo yomntu onomdla - i-adventure yokwenene. Embindini weli nyathelo kukho itafile ekutya. Ngokuhamba ngokujikeleza ukungazi kwamalungu osapho, umsebenzi wolamlo uphathisiwe. Ngexesha lokuzingca, umthendeleko woNyaka oMtsha, ukutya kuba yi-buffer, ucingo olukhuselekileyo olukhohlisayo kumava angakhuselekanga kwaye unqabile. Ukuziqhelanisa nemifanekiso: Ngakumbi ukungafani, umgangatho ongaphezulu, isidlo esiqinileyo yiseti yezitya, kwaye ulandele imigqaliselo yekomishini esekwe kwi-Logic. Kholwa iLizwi, kwaye kungcono ukukhangela: kwiintsapho apho amagama angakwazi ukunxibelelana khona, kwitafile ye-utywala ngokuhambelana ngqo noku. Ukuba akukhotywala, ke kukho enye into yokuthula-i-tv okanye ingxolo yomculo yamandla angalunganga.
Ungayichaza njani i-hypnosis yeholide yoNyaka oMtsha kunye nokukhanya okukhulu?
Ukutya kwemibhiyozo-portal kwixa elidlulileyo. Ewe kunjalo, isaladi esineMeko "Olivier" kunye nenkukhu kwi-oveni - akukho nto ngaphandle kwe-anchor ye-hyptotic: abalinganiswa bangena kuphela kumyalezo wentsapho, kodwa kwinkcubeko yenye, xa sisenzayo kwintliziyo entle ye iinkumbulo.
Nje ukuba bafumane ukutya, ukutya okunenqabileyo kakhulu kubomi bemihla ngemihla, imbiyiwe ngobunzima kwaye kusekwe kwitafile yonyaka omtsha, kusekho ubunzima kunye nelizwi. Kananjalo yena, enje, ekhumbuza wonke umntu kwisihlwele: "Siye safumana ubunzima kunye novuyo lwalo nyaka. Silihlambile. Yonke into iza kulunga". I-qebo yeNyanga yeNyanga "I-Napoleon", apho wawukhupha yonke imini yonke, kwaye uhlebeza: "Ndizame ngeDessert. Ndiluphawu lothando lukamama kwaye ndibuya. " I-ICRA kwi-sandwich ibonakala ngathi ineentloni zokunqongophala kunye nokulinganiselwa kokucinga. I-champagne ityhila iplagi, ngokubhekisele kuwo wonke umbhiyozo wehla, ngokungathi uyafafaza ngamanzi angcwele. "UOlivier" ukhumbuza ukuba ayinamsebenzi ukuba yeyiphi na kuthi ngamnye wethu, kule holide sonke silingana.
Kwaye apha sihlala etafileni kunye nabo basindayo kulo nyaka. Ayinamsebenzi phakathi kwethu. Kodwa sikunye. Sitya ukutya kosapho okuqinileyo, kuba sisazi ukuba ngelo xesha isasimanyanisa kwaye inika imvakalelo yempilo-ntle, iallibayo. Ngenxa yokuba ubomi bufutshane, kwaye ezi ntlanganiso zibalwa kwiminwe. Kodwa ukutya kunye nokuqhelekileyo kuya kulinda kwangaxeshanye xa siphinda sihlale nawe wedwa.
I-Ev Hazin yingcali yengqondo, ugqirha wezobugcisa, ingcali kwi-psychology yesondlo. Ukukhuthaza ukukhula komntu kwiZiko loQeqesho lweHazin Hazin