Xa sisenza isigqibo sokunxibelelanisa ubomi bakho nomnye umntu, akunakwenzeka ukuba uqonde kude kube sekupheleni, njengoko iqabane lakho liza kutshintsha emva kokutshintsha imeko yosapho. Ewe kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba sikwazi ukulalanisa, "ukulungisa iikona" kwaye uzame ukuqondisisa iqabane, kuba ulonwabo losapho luxhomekeke kuyo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iminxeba eyoyikisayo ", ekufuneka ikuxelele ukuba kukho into engalunganga kwaye kufuneka ucinge kakuhle ngaphambi kokuba uqhubeke nobomi obudibeneyo.
Nina maqabane apheleleyo
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Ukungahloneli kuyo yonke into
Iqabane lakho kufuneka likugqibe kwaye lilondoloze - esi sisiseko esiyimfuneko apho usapho lwakho lufunyenwe khona. Ukuba umyeni wakho uyakuvumela ukuba wenze ingxelo yakho ye-caustic kwaye icaphukise, nakubantu, kufuneka incoko enkulu. Xelela indoda yakho ukuba ingathandeki ukuba ingakanani ukuva idilesi yakho, ukuba yonke into ilize - cinga ukuba ufuna ubudlelwane obonwabisayo.
Akanakekele
Ewe, sonke sinezinto - kwaye nawe, nawe, kodwa ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuqesha ubomi obuhlanganisiweyo, kuya kufuneka unikezele ngento enokuchitha iiyure ezimbalwa ngosuku. Kukukhubekisa ngakumbi ukuba indoda yakho inexesha labo bonke abahlobo bakhe, kwaye wena kunye nezicelo zakho zokuhamba kunye ziye kwi-cinema ngolwesihlanu okanye uhlale kwi-cafe verboard ". Kwakhona, kubudlelwane kuyimfuneko yokuthetha, kwaye ungathi cwaka, akukho ngqumbo, mhlawumbi intetho yedwa okanye kwi-ofisi yengcali iya kusombulula ukungaqondani kwakho.
Ukuxhomekeka
Hayi, asithethi ngemikhwa efana nokukhonkotha yonke indlu nge-5 am okanye engajiki ityhubhu yezinyo. Ukuba ubuthathaka beqabane lakho lulutywala, kwaye batyekele ukwaphula umthetho, akukho sifune sokuzincama. Abafazi abaninzi abavela kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana zenza impazamo enye - bacinga ukuba ngenkangeleko yabo bangamalungu ahluphekayo baya kutshintsha ebomini bakhe. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uphumeze indima ye-float, eya kwandisa iqabane le-swamp, eyona nto inzima ukuyitshintsha, ukuba umntu ukhokelela kwiNdlela yoBomi ixesha elide. Cinga ngobomi bakho - Ngaba ukwazi ukudonsa umsebenzi onjalo?
Sukuvumela ulawulo olupheleleyo kwidilesi yakho
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Commes
Umbuzo wanaphakade kukuxolelwa intsholongwane okanye hayi. Ewe kunjalo, ubudlelwane bahlala betshintsha ubomi bonke, kodwa ukuba awuzivanga ukuba uneemvakalelo zangaphambili, ukhetha uluntu lwabalingane abalungileyo emsebenzini okanye kumbuzo ophakamayo - ngaba kuya kufuneka uzama ukutshata ? Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuvutha ngumsindo kungekuphela nje kunxibelelwano ngokwesondo, ngokwengqondo yengqondo, ukudlala ngothando kunye nokuxoxa ngeengxaki zobuqu nabanye abantu besini esahlukileyo kunokubangelwa kukothuka kweqabane.
Ulawulo luphela
Ngokutshata, abantu bacwangcisela ubudlelwane ngokulinganayo: nje ukuba "ukupeza iingubo" kuqala, kufanele akulumkise. Indoda yakho ayisiyo yomzali wakho, kodwa iqabane elingenalungelo lokwenza izigqibo, kodwa unokuxoxa ngazo kunye nabo kunye nabo kunye nawe, kodwa akulunganga ukuba ungabi nakuthathelwa yindoda yakho.
Nje ukuba uziva ngathi ifowuni yakho iqalile ukujonga, kuya kufuneka uxele ukuba ungubani na kwaye phi, olu ayilobonakaliso yononophelo nothando, kodwa kuphela yindlela yokuphambanisa kuwe ukuthanda kwakho. Oku kuziphatha akumkelekanga kumdala.
Kubudlelwane kuya kufuneka uthethe
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