Akusoloko kuphelela iintsilelo zethu zothando ukugxeka iimeko okanye abanye abantu - uninzi lwethu sisoloko singakwakhela ubomi obulinganayo nomnye umntu. Sigqibe kwelokuba sifumanise ukuba zithini na ukuba ngumqobo kwindlela yokonwaba.
Awungekhe uyeke ubudlelwane bexesha elidlulileyo.
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Usenguwe "Ukubamba" ubudlelwane bexesha elidlulileyo
Rhoqo, ukwahlukana kwenzeka ixesha elide kwaye kubuhlungu, kukuthatha kakhulu kangangokuba awukwazi ukubuyela ixesha elide. Iimvakalelo zeqabane lakho zangaphambili azikho kwangoko. Ukwakha ubudlelwane obutsha, kuyimfuneko ukuba bakhulule ngokupheleleyo indala, ukuba uziva ngathi andikuqondi ngokupheleleyo ixesha lakho elidlulileyo, musa ukuthatha inyathelo kwikamva. Yonke into inexesha layo.
AKUKHO nto
Kukangaphi esiva kubahlobo ukuba yonke into imbi, akukho luhlobo kwaye kungaphambili, kwaye abantu ngokwabo abazami ukumisela ubomi bomntu. Ukuba uhlala ekhaya, kufuneka umntu aphuphe njani umntu malunga nobukho bakho?
Xa usenza impumelelo, ungakuphephe ukuthandana, phendula amanqaku entweni enomdla kuwe, ngenye imini imeko iya kusuka kwindawo efileyo.
Awuyiqondi le nto uyifunayo
Rhoqo, ulindelo lwethu kubudlelwane lungahambelani nolindelo lweqabane. Mhlawumbi ujonge uthando lwalo lonke ubomi bakho, kwaye indoda yakho inika ngcono 'ukwazana ", nangona udibana okanye uhlale kunye ixesha elide.
Musa ukuchitha ixesha kubantu abangaboniyo ukuba neemvakalelo zakho kwaye ungabi yinto "yenqwelo moya."
Sukuhlala ekhaya elinde inkosana
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Kubi ukujoyina ubudlelwane obutsha.
Masithi udibene nendoda entle: Uyakuthanda nawe, nawe, nangona kunjalo, awukwazi kuphumla ebusweni bakhe. Ndikholelwe, iqabane lakho livakalelwa kwaye aliqondi ukuba kutheni uxinekile. Ukusuka apha, ingcinga inokukhulisa ukuba ayikufanisi into.
Zama wena okanye ngoncedo lwengcali yokufumanisa ukuba sithini isizathu sokukhetha umntu omtsha kumntu omtsha kungekho sizathu ulele kumava akho angathandekiyo.
Musa ukoyika ukuvula
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Awutsala umdla wabo banomdla kuwe
Xa oku kwenzeka kube kanye, akukho nto imbi kakhulu kule, kodwa xa imeko iphindaphindwe amaxesha ngamaxesha, kufanelekile ukuba icinge into oyenzayo. Ewe kunjalo, kunzima ukutshintsha imeko xa ungakhange unomdla emntwini ngezizathu ezithile, akukho nto inokwenzeka apha, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kufanelekile ukuphosa umntu onomdla kuwe. Ngamnye wethu unezinto azithandayo, akunakwenzeka ukuba uthanda wonke umntu, jonga nje kwaye uya kuyifumana umntu wakho oya kuba yinjongo yobomi.