Uchitha ixesha ngokugqibeleleyo, kodwa emva koko kwenzeka into? Okanye le ndoda kwasekuqaleni ihamba necala? Indoda inokuba nezizathu ezininzi zokutyeshela umfazi, kwaye ayisoloko ithetha ukungakhathali. Sigqibe kwelokuba sizibone ukuba zeziphi izinto eziphambili zokuziphatha kwendoda.
Uninzi ludidekile i-factred ngembeko
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Unobangela # 1.
Awungomfazi wakhe
Njengamadoda, abantu basetyhini bahlala bedidanisa nembeko ngokuthandana, zonke iingxaki ziqala apha, xa indoda ingasazi ukuba uphuma njani kwicandelo lezemfundo. Umntu unokuba nzima ukuvumela kuwe ngokuthe tye ukuba awunamdla kuyo, ngoko ke ukhetha amaqhinga okubuya kancinci.
Kule meko, akukho nto inokwenziwa, kuba intliziyo ayiyaleli. Ngakumbi omnye umntu.
Unobangela # 2.
Indoda ayifuni ubudlelwane obukhulu
Ityala xa ekuqaleni kwenoveli yakho yonke into iphilile, kodwa ngequbuliso watshintshakrakra kabukhali. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, umnike ukuba uqonde ukuba ufuna into engaphezulu kweentlanganiso ezinqabileyo kwaye uhamba izihlandlo ezininzi ngeveki. Kwenzeka ukuba indoda ayikulungelanga ukwakha ubudlelwane obukhulu, kwaye isizathu sesosizathu sekuze kuwe - bube bubomi babo bubekwe.
Ewe kunjalo, kunzima kakhulu ukuba umntu atshintshe uluvo kunye nokukhetha, kodwa kunzima ukutshintsha into kwaye ngakumbi ukunyanzela umntu ukuba ahambe amanyathelo anzongonzongo. I-blackmail ayikaze ikhokelele nantoni na elungileyo.
Unobangela # 3.
Indoda inokuziva imvakalelo yokungaqiniseki
Ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, amanye amadoda ayacothisa ngokuqonda iimvakalelo zabo. Okwangoku ikakhulu kungenxa yamava angaphumelelanga kwixesha elidlulileyo, xa, mhlawumbi, owayekhe wavuma okanye ehlekisa ngokubonakalayo kweemvakalelo. Ngoku, la mava adlulisela kubudlelwane bakho. Unokuphawula ukuba ebusweni bakho ilahlekile ngokucacileyo, ayazi ukuba iphinde ibeke phi izandla, yabona inkangeleko yakhe esasazeka.
Zama ukwenza isinyathelo sokuqala, ungayityi kwaye ulumke ungayikhathaleli indoda eyomeleleyo ngakumbi.
Uyoyika ukuvuma kwiimvakalelo
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Unobangela # 4.
Wenza impazamo
Ngelishwa, rhoqo sinomdla emntwini, kodwa emva kwethutyana siqonda ukuba ukwakha ikamva elikweli qabane yindlela yokungabikho ndawo. Kwaye makube ntle ngaphandle, zenziwa, nawe kukho into yokuthetha, imvakalelo yothando ilapha, okanye ayipheli - ayixhomekeki kwiimpawu zakho.
Ukuba olu lukhetho lwakho, ke umntu akaboni ixesha elide ubudlelwane kunye nawe, kodwa nokuxelela ngayo akukho lula.
Indoda isenokungalungelanga ubudlelwane obukhulu
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Unobangela # 5.
Uyakholelwa kakhulu
Ewe, sele sitshilo ukuba unakho kwaye funa ukuqaliswa ngumfazi, nangona kunjalo, abafazi abanawo. Indoda kwindalo iyoyisayo, ayiyi kunyamezelana nolwalamano ukuba ungakhange ucinge ngendoda engenamntu, ke, umdla wakhe kuwe "Into yoloyiso" iqala ukupheliswa kwi-paused kwi-on egcweleyo okanye inxenye.
Ukuba uqhubeka nomoya omnye, umntu unokutshintshela kwibhinqa elixhaphakileyo, ucinga ukuba umnqweno wakho uza kukhokelela kulo lonke ulwalamano lwakho nomntu wakho obizayo.