Kubonakala ngathi olona xesha linzima lona unina lukhulelwa kunye nonyaka wokuqala wobomi okanye intombi. Nangona kunjalo, eneneni, eyona nto inomdla lixesha ukusuka ngonyaka ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu enesiqingatha. Ngeli xesha ukuba oomama notata baqala ukuziva bediniwe apho kufuneka ulwe ngokuchanekileyo.
Ewe, umntwana unolonwabo, kodwa olo lonwabo lunengxolo ngamanye amaxesha luyadinisa, oluthile ngokupheleleyo, ngakumbi xa ikwisiko eliselula kunye nemfundo yabantwana bonke kunye nemfundo yomntwana. Ngomsebenzi onjalo, kunzima ukujamelana nako, kodwa unako.
Nika umntwana wakho ecaleni
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Ukutsala umntwana njengomncedisi
Nje ukuba ucango luvala ucango, umama oselula untywiliselwa kwinkqubo yemihla ngemihla enxulunyaniswa nemisebenzi yasekhaya. Ngaba ujonge intaba yelineni emdaka kwaye uncwina kunzima? Kodwa emva kwayo yonke loo nto, unendoda encinci enokwazi ukwazisane nemisebenzi yezinto ezifana nokucheba umatshini wokuhlamba okanye uncede ukondla i-CAT, ibeka isitya sokutya. Ke umntwana uya konganyelwa, kwaye kwangaxeshanye uza kuthatha.
Awukho ebukhobokeni
Rhoqo, uthando lomntwana lugqwesa ngokupheleleyo ingqondo, ngakumbi ukuba umntwana ngowokuqala. Sonke sabona iimazi ezinyuka iinyosi ezihamba ngokutya kwabo, zenza yonke into engakhathalelwanga umntwana. Okokuqala, indlela yokuziphatha, uphazamisa umntwana ukuba afunde ukuthetha, ngenxa yokuba unegama elinesiqingatha osiqondayo izicelo zakhe, okwesibini, ukuba udlala nayiphi na i-whim, izicelo ziya kukhula, kunye nomntwana ayisetyenziselwa ukusilela. Yintoni onokuyithetha ngokudinwa kukamama kwimeko enjalo.
Mema abanye abantwana
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Sukuzama ukuyila imidlalo entsha ngalo lonke ixesha
Oku kumgaqo-nkqubo uphume, kwaye i-fantasy ayinamda. Ukuba umntwana ufuna ingqalelo rhoqo kuye, zama ukungakwazi ukuyiqhagamshele kwimicimbi yakho yasekhaya, ngokuqinisekileyo aya kujamelana nayo.
Ukuba umntwana uqhanqalaza kwaye uzama ukwenza ukuba udlale oko ufuna kuye, kwaye ke, uyaqonda ukuba ukudinwa okuziimitha ezigutyungelwe zisezantsi zihlala phantsi, kwaye abantwana baya kuhlala phantsi, kwaye abantwana baya kuhlala phantsi, kwaye abantwana baya kuhlala phantsi, kwaye abantwana baya kuhlala phantsi thula nixakekile yimicimbi yabo.
Thatha ixesha kuwe
Ukuba uziva ngathi imbambano sele iza kudlula emphethweni, ndixelele "ukumisa" kwaye vumela ixesha eliseholide yakho. Xelela abantu obathandayo ukuba ufuna ixesha lokubuyiselwa kwamandla okomelela ngokomoya, bacele umkhwekazi okanye umama iiyure okanye ooMama iiyure ezimbalwa ukuhlala kunye nokulala okanye banikezele i-bies egumbini lokuhlambela.
Ngempelaveki, unokuthumela ngokulula abantwana ukuba bahambe notata, kwaye kube kanye ngenyanga, zinikele ngokupheleleyo ngemini: yiya kwi-salon, ndwendwela umcimbi, ndwendwela NgeSixeko sangokuhlwa, cwaka. Ukuhlaziya okunjalo kufanele kuncede 'ukuqhuba "intloko kwaye uve umlinganiso wamandla. Ungalibali ngawe.
Thumela umntwana ukuba ahambe notata
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