NgoNovemba 27-Disemba 3. Sonke sivele kwimpembelelo yeenkwenkwezi, kwaye abavumisi ngeenkwenkwezi zingaphezulu kwabanye. Iimpembelelo ezikhoyo ze-COSMIYs zandinika ulwandle lokuphefumlelwa kunye nemibono emitsha. Ukusukela macala onke, ulwazi olundihlelayo. Ndimginya, ndigaya kwaye ndivakalelwe kukuba kukho utshintsho lomlingo ongazange wenziwe ngaphambili nam.
Ngoku kukumbamba ngalo mzuzu: Khuthaza, tshintsha iimbono zakho, ubeke iinjongo ezintsha. Iinkwenkwezi ziya kukunceda uqonde ukuba ufuna ntoni, kwaye xa unenjongo ethile- le yimpumelelo enesiqingatha.
Ukuba ngequbuliso akuzange akubambe lonto, okanye udiniwe kwaye ngoku ungathi ufumana ukuphefumlelwa esikhaleni, ndiza kukuxelela indlela yokutshintsha inqaku lendibano kwaye ndiguqule iingcinga zakho ezimbi kwisimo sakho sengqondo.
Indalo yonke ihlala ifuna kuthi kwaye ifuna ukunceda. Abantu abazibandakanyekayo kwiindlela zokuzihlaziya (ukuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi, ukucamngca, ukuzihlaziya, ukuhambisa), kulula ukungaqwalaseli imiqondiso yekamva. Bayakuqonda ukuba abaguqukeli apho, kwanakwindlela encinci yokutyhala ngaphandle kwaye ihlengahlengise ulwalathiso lwabo lokuhamba. Kungenxa yoko le nto kukho iingxaki ezimbalwa ebomini babo. Umsebenzi wayo nayiphi na ingxaki kukutshintsha thina. Ukuba umntu uyatshintsha ngokuzithandela, imfuneko yezifundo ezinzima kakhulu ziyanyamalala.
Kwenzeka ntoni kubantu abangafundanga ukuzilungisa? Bathunyelwa kwimeko yokuqala eyenzelwe ukutshintsha ukucinga okanye indlela yokuziphatha. Umntu uyamgatya. Ke owesibini - awuqali. Kwaye okwesithathu isitena siyawa entlokweni. Izitena aziziva zinzima, kodwa kusemva kwexesha. Umzekelo, abathandi bokuqhuba. Abantu abanjalo bahlala bewela kwingozi. Okokuqala, kancinane, ke ngokungathi kunjalo, ngokunzulu, oseleyo unokugqibela.
Yeyona nto ukuba ucinga ukusilela njengesizathu sokucinga. Ndenza ntoni? Kwaye enkosi kwihlabathi ngenxa yokuba ngoko nangoko ibonisa xa sihamba ngendlela eyinyani. Kuba lonke inyathelo alikho kwelinye icala, sinamafutha kwi-gumpp ngakumbi nangakumbi. Bamba iziphakamiso zendalo kwindalo yokuqala. Uyakuthanda kwaye uyasigada.
Cinga ngokubonakala ngathi yimvakalelo engalunganga - umona. Kwaye siyiguqula ibe yiminqweno yokuqhuba. Ngaphandle kwawo, sikulooda wentuthuzelo kwaye singajongi kumathuba ethu. Kwaye nje ukuba kubonakale, umzekelo, umhlobo kwingubo entsha okanye kwimoto entsha, eyokufuna "entsha" izelwe kuthi. Umona sisifundo sobomi ngenxa yevila kunye nabo bangakwaziyo ukuchaza iinjongo zabo. Kwaye ukuba yabonakala ngathi "ndiyafuna!", Ke unokwenza injongo kwaye uqale ukufudukela kuwo. Umona unqwenela iminqweno ebengayicinganga ngaphambili, ngumbono womlingo ukuba enze into eya ephupheni.
Enkosi abantu abakuvulele iminqweno entsha. Ngoku uyayiqonda into oyifunayo, kwaye ungayifezekisa.
Ngoku lixesha elimnandi lokutshintsha umbono wakho wehlabathi. Ukwenzela ukuqalisa ukujonga kwi-gogo ye-engile eyahlukileyo. Guqula ukucinga kwakho okuqhelekileyo, jonga intshukumisa entsha kunye neenjongo ezintsha. Kwaye ukuba sele ufumene, yenza. Yonke imihla yenza inyathelo elinye elincinci ukuya kwintsha kuwe kunye nobomi bakho obutsha.
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