Ngamnye wethu, ngaphandle kokutyibiwe, usebenzisa phantse phantse i-tesh tesh pharns ngosuku! Iswekile iqulethwe kwifom enye okanye enye indawo, kunjalo, eyona swekile inkulu inokufumaneka kwiimveliso ezigqityiweyo. Kwaye ngoku ndiza kucinga ukuba ingakanani ishukela engena emzimbeni womntwana, eneemveliso eziqhelekileyo, igcwalisa ukutya kwayo ngeepipi ezahlukeneyo, iziselo ezimnandi, ezinokunceda abazali bakhe. Ngamaxesha athile, umntwana ube nzima ukuba ubuncinci iigram ezininzi ze-swees ezithandwayo zihluthwa, kwimeko embi kakhulu, kwityala elibi kakhulu, ukuxhomekeka okunjalo kunokukhokelela kwisifo seswekile. Ukuba oku akukenzeki, abazali babalulekile ngexesha lokuthathela ingqalelo ukhetho lomntwana wabo kwaye baqala ukulawula ukuhamba kweswekile emzimbeni womntwana. Ungayenza njani, sizamile ukufumanisa.
Siqala usuku ngesidlo sakusasa sasekunene
Eyona nto imbi kakhulu onokuyenza, hlula umntwana kwangoko. I-hysteria yakho kule meko ayinakuthintelwa, kodwa asiyifuni kwaphela. Kuyimfuneko ukwenza iqhinga: Zama isidlo sakusasa nganye ukuze wenze ezona zinto zinesondlo, umzekelo, ukongeza iziqhamo kunye neproteyini kuyo - xa umntwana ebohlokayo, akafuni ukubuyela ekhitshini emva kwesiqingatha seyure kwaye Khangela iipipi zakhe. Nokuba umntwana akazithandi isiqhamo, qhubeka uzingise kwaye umnike yonke imihla, malunga nenqaku elithile umnqweno uya kuthatha ngaphezulu.
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Ungavumeli umntwana ojolise kwiziselo
Ewe kunjalo, kunzima ukwala umntwana kwisoda, ngakumbi xa usiya nabanye abantwana epakini okanye kwisiganeko sabantwana esithetha "ukwenzakala" kumashalo. Kodwa nakweli meko, unokufumana indlela yokuphuma: Ngelixa umntwana engaboni, athambisa isiselo ngamanzi, kodwa kuphela kangangokuba umohluko ungabonakali kakhulu. Isoda esiyisiweyo ayisiyo imveliso emnandi kakhulu, kunye nokusela kwesiselo esiya kuhamba kancinci, ngeli xesha unexesha lokutshintsha ingqalelo yomntwana kwiijusi ezintsha kunye namanzi alula.
Sukwenza izithintelo ezibukhali
Njengoko besitshoyo, izithintelo ezingqongqo ziya kukhokelela kuphela kwi-hysterics kunye nokusilela komntwana ukuthoba. Ishishini lanamhlanje lixhasa ukuxhomekeka kwethu kwiimveliso zayo, ngakumbi ukuxhomekeka kuxhomekeka kwiswekile, apho abantwana beminyaka eyahlukeneyo badlwengulwe kakhulu. Kunzima kakhulu emntwaneni ukuba bachaze ukuba kutheni nxamnye nothando lwakhe olukhulu kwiikeyiki kunye neemputha ezimnandi, kwaye ke akayiboni inqaku lokulahla iimveliso zokuthandana. Zama ukuphepha iimeko xa kufuneka uye kwiindawo ezinokuthi akhuliswe kuzo izinyo lakho elimnandi, okungenani ithutyana-iipaki ezihambahambayo zenza iminyhadala, kwaye ukongeza ukubonwa kweminyhadala ngeziganeko ezinjalo kuthengiswa Ixabiso lemveliso yeswekile, ngaphambi kokuba ngubani angabi kumntwana omnye. Ngokuthe ngcembe, umntwana uza kususa umkhwa wokusela iswekile kuyo yonke indawo yendlu, zama ukwenza umngeni ngokuqinileyo okanye isidlo sasemini ekhaya, ke awunakuthenga enye ikomityi ekhuphuka umntwana wakho.
Ngenisa umzekelo
Njengommiselo, abantwana bahlala bejonga indlela abaziphatha ngayo abazali, ukuba ungumntu omkhulu wazo zonke iintlobo zeelekese, akufuneki umangaliswe kukuba umntwana wakho eza e-cstassies. Okokuqala, kuya kufuneka uziphathe ngokwakho ezandleni zakho kwaye ubukele ukuba yimalini oyityayo ngemini: ukuba iikeyiki zepisy okanye i-irisok ihamba nawe yonke imihla umntwana akanakumelana nokubona iilekese zakho ozithandayo.