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Uninzi lweengcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba imikhwa eyenzakalisayo, ngakumbi umnqweno kwizikhonkwane - olu luhlobo lokuqikelela kweemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo zomntwana. Oku kuthetha ukuba "uzithuthumbisa" ngento ethile. 'Njenge "into", iingcikivo zabazali zinokusebenza, kwaye uxinzelelo emntwaneni ukuze azikhokelele, njengokuba naye efuna ukuba angayithandi le nto konke, kunye nokuthelekisa umntwana kunye nabanye abantwana ...
Kodwa kungekuphela nje iingcinezelo zabazali kunokubangela ukuba lo mkhwa uyingozi. Amaxesha amaninzi abantwana ngokwabo abangonwabanga, kwaye ngokungathi bayazisola ngawo nawaphi na amaphondo. Isizathu sokuba le isenokuba ngamava omntwana esinxulunyaniswa neengxaki zokwenziwa kwawo ekuhlaleni. Kunokwenzeka, ugxothwa kwi-Kindergarte, akakwazi kuzimela kwiyadi okanye akasebenzi ngokufanelekileyo ukwakha ubudlelwane esikolweni. Ewe, indlela yokuziphatha enjalo ayinakuhlala ingabonakali, kwaye wonke umzali ufuna ukusindisa umntwana kulo mkhwa umbi. Kodwa kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba "intlanzi ijikeleza entloko, ke kuqala kuyo yonke into eyimfuneko ukunceda umntwana ukuba acombulule ubunzima bengqondo kwaye baqhelane nehlabathi elijikeleze yena.
Ukongeza ngenxa yezizathu, lo "mkhwa ubi" unemiphumo. Okokuqala, ichaphazela imeko yomntwana eluntwini, kuba abantwana abaziipikili abanesihloko baba ngumxholo wokugculelwa nezingcikivo phakathi koontanga. Kwaye ixesha apha lidlala indima engalunganga: Ngale ndlela, kokukhona umntu onzima ngakumbi ukuyeka lo mkhwa, kwaye nabantu abadala, ngaphandle kokuzinikela kuloo nto bayenzayo, qhubeka ukubandezeleka kuye.
Okwesibini, le ngxaki inenye ingozi. Umntwana ophethwe ngumkhwa ofanayo ukhulisa iipleyiti zezipikili, ukuthunga rhoqo kuvela kwiminwe yabo, ke unokulibala nje ukukhula kwezikhonkwane kunye nezandla zomntwana. Ukongeza, ulusu oluqhelekileyo lujikeleze iminwe lunokupheliswa kwaye lube yintliziyo ukungenelela usulelo. Ewe, kunye nokuginya okungafunekiyo phantsi kwezipikili zomntwana akuyi kongeza, kuba zinokuqokelela inani elikhulu lee-pathons, amaqanda amaqanda, kwaye eyona nto imbi kukuba olu luhlu lungaqhubeka nokusinga.
Okwesithathu, "Enkosi", umntwana uphuhlise iingxaki zamazinyo kunye nezikhonkwane zomntwana. Ngoxinzelelo oluqhubekayo kwizinyo elifanayo, kwixesha lexesha - ubunzima bezicubu ezenza umsebenzi wokugqibela-ukuvuvukala kunokuqalisa, ngokufana ne-temontitis. Kwangelo xesha, ukunyanga esi sifo kubantwana kunzima kakhulu ngenxa yeempawu ze-anatomical kunye nezomzimba zezinto zabo zomzimba.
Intoni izipikili ezinobuhlayi sele iqondakale. Kodwa ungaluthaka njani umntwana ongumntwana kulo mkhwa?
Kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba akuyi kuba nakho ukuba ungayisusi kwangoko, ukanti ukhangela amandla kunye nomonde. Ugqirha wezengqondo uyakuphikisa ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba akhulule umntwana ngento anayo lo mkhwa. Nje ukuba umntwana aqale izipikili, kuyafuneka ukuba acinge ngezinto ezimkhathazayo. Kwaye emva kokuba isizathu sikhangele, siyimfuneko ukuba siqale ukusebenza ekupheliseni. Ewe kunjalo, inkqubo yokuphelisa ayikhawulezi kwaye ayilula, kodwa ayisosizathu sonke sokuvumela yonke into kwi-samonek. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngamanye amaxesha isizathu sinokubanjwa ekuthintelwa kukunqongophala. Ngenxa yoko, umntwana uzama ukumtsalela kuye, kwaye ukuba ayisebenzi, iyamnceda ukuba azolile ekutshithweni kwezikhonkwane.
Ukuba umntwana unengxaki yokuxhalaba, uxinzelelekile, kubalulekile ukuba unikele ingqalelo ngakumbi kuye, ukubonisa ukhathalelo ngakumbi kunye nothando. Ukuba umntwana ndoda endala, unokuza nesizathu esiqhelekileyo, kuya kufuneka inyuse. Kungcono ukuba inxulunyaniswa nomsebenzi wenaliti - umzobo, umthambo, umphunga, ubhaka, njl njl. I-SEVECT yeyokulibala enye injongo, kwaye umntwana ulibale nje ngomkhwa.
Abantwana banokunika iithoyi ezizodwa zokulwa ne-filler, kunye nokudlala i-transformer apho unokwenza nantoni na. Umgaqo wokusebenza kweethoyi ezinjalo ujongeka ngathi ngumsebenzi wenaliti - umntwana unomdla ngomdlalo, kwaye akukho xesha lokukhumbula ngemikhwa.
Ngamanye amaxesha, uncedo kunye nomsebenzi we-psychologist: Ngexesha leseshoni, i-psychologist ifundisa umntwana ukuba athathe indawo yokuthintela umkhwa wokuyifaka kwenye, umzekelo, zoba iimvakalelo zabo kunye neemvakalelo zabo. Ngexesha lokuzoba, ugqirha ubuza imibuzo ekhokelayo, kunye nomntwana, ngaphandle kokuqonda, ubalisa ngeengxaki zakhe.
Ngamanye amaxesha isebenza kwaye ishukumiseki. Umzekelo, imeko inokufakwa emntwaneni: Ukuthatyathwa komkhwa oyingozi ngumvuzo wemali okanye ukumiliselwa kwayo nayiphi na iphupha elixabisekileyo. Okukhona wamkele umxholo, enkulu ipesenti yento enokwenzeka yokuphumelela.
Enye into, indlela efanelekileyo, kodwa, ngelishwa, kuphela ngamantombazana, anokuba yindoda enonina. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi komhla ocwangcisiweyo, umama wakhe ufanele ajolise kwizikhonkwane zabo ngandlela zonke. Emva kwenkqubo yomntwana, inye kuphela umnqweno oya kuhlala-ukugcina ubuhle bezikhonkwane zakho. Kwaye, abazali, kufuneka bachaze umntwana ukuba umntu ophulukene nomkhwa ombi onakalise izikhonkwane.
Ewe kunjalo, isisombululo sale ngxaki sinendlela yamayeza. Kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuba ubhenele kuyo kuphela ukuba ezinye iindlela azincedi. Kwiikhemeri kunye neevenkile zabantwana ezikhethekileyo zithengisa iivarnish ezikhethekileyo okanye iikhrim ezisetyenziswa kwizikhonkwane. Banencasa ekrakra, ke umntwana uveliswa yimbonakalo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuchaza ngokuchanekileyo isizathu: Umntwana kufanelekile esithi incasa ekrakra yenziwa ngenxa yevarnish okanye ioyile, ngenxa yomkhwa obekholisayo.
Kodwa, ukuba zonke iindlela zokudibanisa "iintonga" ezincinci ezidweliswe apha ngasentla azincedi ingcali, kuba lo mkhwa unokuba luphawu lokugula kakhulu.