"Nye. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu yoqeqesho ngumsebenzi kufuneka wanelise: ayinanto yokubhabha impukane indlovu, ayinamsebenzi ukufundisa inja ukuba ibumbelele.
2. Kubalulekile ukukhetha ukuqiniswa. Ke, ukuba ufuna ukutyhalela inja kwinto ethile, emva koko kwasetyenziswa ukuqiniswa okungalunganga (i-Scold). Ukuba ufuna ukuyikhuthazana ngesenzo esichanekileyo, kusetyenziswa ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo (indumiso, ithandekayo). Uhlala ufuna ukuphindaphinda okufanayo ukuze inja ikhumbuza ukuba umntu okanye omnye umntu ahlolweyo. Phambi koqeqesho, isilwanyana singcono ukuba singasondla - imithambo ebanzi inokuba yingozi kwisisu esipheleleyo, kwaye iintsimbi ziya kuba livila.
3. Ukuqiniswa kufuneka kube lixesha elifanelekileyo. Xa inja igxeka okanye inkuthazo, inxibelelanisa nesenzo ngokuthe ngqo yintreyithisi.
Ukuba inja ayiqondi into, ungayiniki nto. Yima kwaye ucinge, mhlawumbi ubuze umsebenzi onzima? Emva koko kuyimfuneko ukonakalisa eli qhinga elinzima ukuze ufumane ngandlel 'ithile kwaye ufundise isilwanyana kwinani ngalinye labo.
4. Kubalulekile ukunika imiyalelo ngokuchanekileyo: ngokucacileyo, ngebhalholo efanayo (ukuba ngumyalelo welizwi) okanye ngokuchaneka okufanayo (ukuba sisisa). Awunakho ukwahluka kwiqela elinye, umzekelo, esithi "Hlala phantsi" okanye "Hlala" endaweni ye "ukuhlala". I-Inson ifanele ibe nzima: Iqela linyanzelekile kwintsebenzo ecacileyo, ngelixa isinxibelelanisi sothando ngakumbi sinokuqiniseka. Kwaye iqela eliphosakeleyo elingenisiweyo lisenokungaqondwa ngokupheleleyo yinja.
Kungcono ukuqala uqeqesho kwindawo ecocekileyo, apho umfundi onemilenze emine akayi kuphazamisa iiklasi. Njengamaqhina oqhingayo okanye umyalelo, inani lezinto eziphazamisayo linokunyuswa. Uqeqesho luthathwa lugqityiwe xa inja yenza iqela ngaphandle kokucinga.
Ngexesha lololiwe, kufuneka ulandele ngenyameko izenzo zakho, njengoko inja ibamba iintshukumo ezincinci zomniniyo, xa ngamanye amaxesha zingaboni. Banokuba yinto ecaphukisayo apho isilwanyana siqale khona impendulo ngexesha.
5. Kukhethwa ngokungaphezulu kwemizuzu eli-10 amaxesha ama-3 ngosuku. Ukuba inja izalisekisile iQela lama-2 ukuya kwi-3 ngokulandelelana, kungcono ukuya kwilandelayo kolu msebenzi. Kanye nje xa inja ayinakuqonda ukuba yintoni efunekayo kuyo, kusengqiqweni ukwenza elinye iqela - elingcono kulo-kwaye emva koko ubuyela kwiqhinga le-Fick. Kungenjalo kukho umngcipheko wokuphindaphinda inzala kwisilwanyana esinomdla kuqeqesho.
Uqeqesho yinkqubo enomdla kunye neyolisayo yomntu kunye nenja. Eyona nto iphambili yokuqonda ukuba ayisiyiyo isilwanyana esifuywayo, kodwa kufuneka uyiphulaphule. Kwaye emva koko iiklasi ziya kuba yinye indlela yokuchitha ixesha kunye kwaye yomeleze ubuhlobo bakho. "