Kwikhefu, andifuni ukucinga ngeengxaki, kwaye ke uninzi lwethu luphumla kakhulu. Ngamanye amaxesha kakhulu ukuba bamangalisiwe, njengoko begqitywe kwinoveli enolo mntu mhle wobomi okanye umntu ohlaziyayo wokuphumla. Ukuze inoveli inoveli 'ayinike "" imiphumo engathandekiyo kuwe, siya kuxelela, loluphi umthetho owakhelwe i-adventure yeholide.
Musa ukoyika ukubonisa inyathelo lokuqala
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Zilungiselele ukwenza inyathelo lokuqala
Kubomi bemihla ngemihla, sinokulinda ngokungapheliyo kwaye sihlehlise umzuzu xa umhle wale ndoda uza kuqaliswa. Kwikhefu umnqokisileyo, ke, ukuba indoda, injengeentaba kwindawo edumileyo, ayiyi ezintlanganisweni, thatha inyathelo lokuqala ngokwakho. Thatha umzuzu ofanelekileyo xa wena kunye neqabane lakho elinokubakho luya kuba luhlaziywe kangangoko kunokwenzeka, emva koko qala incoko elula. Nangona kunjalo, qaphela ukuba uvelwano lufanele lube njalo, kungenjalo ngeli xesha lilize.
Sukubonisa iimfuno eziphezulu
Njengoko sitshilo, ulinganiselwe ngexesha lokukhangelwa kwamadoda afanelekileyo kuya kufuneka akhawuleze. Akufuneki unexhala okanye uguqulelo lwendalo, akukho zicwangciso zekamva- uhlala apha kwaye ngoku, kwibha yereji yokutyela yaselunxwemeni. Ewe kunjalo, kuya kufuneka ukonwabele ukuba kwindawo yombutho ngamnye, kodwa hayi "ukuthunyelwa" okanye wena okanye iqabane.
Uvelwano kufuneka lube njalo
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Khumbula ukhuseleko
Awusoze wazi ukuba uza kudibana nabani kunxweme olusezantsi. Indoda emnandi kwaye imnandi kuzo zonke iimvakalelo zinokuba yinto enesidima sokwenene okanye i-onister eqhelekileyo. Abantu abanjalo bazama ukufunda ngawe kangangoko kunokwenzeka, nangona phantse akukho nto malunga nawe. Ukuba uyathandabuza malunga nomntu oqhelene naye, ungathandabuzi ukuthi: Awukhe uhlangane nakweyiphi na enye indawo.
Yiba nguwe
Kubomi obuqhelekileyo, kufuneka sidlale iindima ezininzi: emsebenzini, ekhaya, nabahlobo, ke "uyeke" undedwa wena. Ungacingi ngento eza kuthi abantu, bayonwabela ukuphumla. Bona indoda enomdla? Zama ukubamba amehlo akhe. Akukho mpendulo? Jonga enye, ukuxhamla kwamadoda ahlaziyekileyo kunxweme lwexabiso elifanelekileyo. Ukongeza, akukho mntu uyalela ukuba wonwabe ekuseni kwi-bar, umdaniso kunye nobokuqala bokungena kwaye bonwabele ubomi.
Uvelwano kufuneka lube njalo
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Ukhuseleko kunye nolonwabo uhlala uhamba ngesandla
Ukuba besithetha ngokhuseleko lwezinto eziphathekayo, asinakuyishiya kwaye siyityeshele ukhuselo ngexesha lesini, olifunayo, ukuqhelana emva kwemini kwi-veranda yevenkile yokutyela. Ukuba uya kwindawo ekude, umzekelo, kwesi siqithi, apho kunokubakho iingxaki ngokukhetha iingxowa-mali zokuthintela inzalo ezilungele wena, zikhathalele lo mbandela ngaphambi kokuhamba. Khumbula ukuba ukhuseleko lwakho lilele kuphela emagxeni akho, akufuneki uthembele okokuqala okwenzeka, nokuba kuyintoni na ekuthembekileyo. Lumnka.