"Umntu owonwabileyo ngulowo wayenako ukwenza umgca oguqukayo phakathi kwekhondo lomsebenzi kunye nosapho. Kanye njani yonke into malunga nayo? Ngamnye wethu unezinto ezingaziwayo, ilungiselelwe ulonwabo ", ekufuneka ibekho ebomini. Kwaye ukuba kukho into engekhoyo kuyo, ngoko umntu uqala ukubaleka, azive engalunganga.
Ikwangumntu omele athelekise ubomi bakhe kunye nabahlobo bakhe okanye izalamane abakwazi ukufikelela kwimali eseleyo ebomini bomntu. Kodwa ujonge emacaleni, siya kuba nakho ukubona abantu ngexabiso elahlukileyo lokulwa.
Kukho udidi lwabantu olwenziwa ngumntu wabo, into oyithandayo, apho bathe baphunyezwa khona, bebekwe kwithontsi lokugqibela. Kwaye kwinxalenye ekusenokwenzeka ukuba babonakala ngathi baxakekile, abanayo eyabo intle, kwaye ubomi bentsapho yabo awubabongi, kodwa olu kukhetho lwabo olonwabileyo.
Okanye, ngokuchasene noko, abantu abangaboniyo ngaphandle kwexhala losapho kunye ne-hassle, abantwana, uninzi lubonakala ludanisa kwaye luhlekisa, lumi phezu komlenze omnye ebomini. Kodwa kuphela koluvo lwawo.
Unokuyibona nemeko xa umntu ebonakala ebonakala yonke "esekwe kulonwabo", kwaye uziva engaphulukani, ediniwe kwaye engenasiphako. Kuyimfuneko ukugqiba ingxelo ukuze uhlale emsebenzini, kodwa hayi, kuyimfuneko ukuba isidlo sangokuhlwa, kuba akunakwenzeka ukuphazamisa isiko. Ngapha koko, kufuneka "wonwabe"!
Kwaye omnye umfazi kwaye angathanda ukutyhala uvuyo losapho, kodwa yonke imihla kuya kufuneka uqhubele abantwana kwi-kindergarten okanye esikolweni kwaye ubhabhe, kwaye ngempelaveki kufuneka uye ejimini, Ngeentlanganiso zangeCawa kunye neentombi okanye isidlo sasemini nabazali. Ngenxa yokuba uyintombazana enemizekelo, umhlobo olungileyo kwaye kufuneka utshatise uhlobo lomfazi wale mihla, nangona usekuqhekeka kwengqondo.
Wonke umntu unemibono eyahlukileyo ngolonwabo
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Ke indlela yokukwenza njani kanye kule meko? Okokuqala, kufuneka umamele ngokwakho kwaye uzame ukuqonda ukuba yintoni eyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini? Ungathanda ukutshintsha yintoni ukuze wonwabe ngokwenene?
Phakamisa ibhalansi phakathi komsebenzi kunye nosapho - oya kunika ngaphezulu, kwaye olwalubaguqukile kwaye uya kwanelisa kwaye uya kwanelisa. Namhlanje uzinika umsebenzi, ngomso uchithe impelaveki nosapho lwakho, sihamba nabahlobo kwindalo okanye siye kumboniso, yiya kwi-cafe okanye i-binema.
Kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukuguqula ingqalelo yakho kwaye usasaze ixesha phakathi kweeklasi ozithandayo, kuba izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka zitshintsha kumanqanaba obomi bethu. Umntu kufuneka azibone ngokucacileyo into afuna ukuyitshintsha ebomini bakhe, kwaye ke iya kutshintsha okanye ukuba baninzi kangakanani na.
Ngokuthe ngcembe, kuyaqhubeka nokuqonda ukuba ubomi bethu bobuqu kukusebenza, usapho, abantwana, ishishini. Kodwa enyanisweni, ubomi bobuqu bubomi bobuntu bethu - nayo yonke into ebangela ulonwabo, thuthuzelwa, i-babysitting. Ngomnye walo msebenzi, kwabanye - usapho, kwisithathu-ekuhambeni, komnye umntu - ubuchule.
Kwaye nokuba awuyifumani loo mgangatho "ubeke ulonwabo", ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga abanye abantu, kodwa uziva wonwabile, ndixelele: "Ndonwabile kwaye ndikhulele umbono wakho ukuba Phila njengawe. Cinga ngokuchanekileyo, kuba obu bubomi bakho.