Baya abafundisi!
Ukusukela ngala mhla sivula entsha kwaye, ayifihli isihloko esikhethekileyo. Malunga namaphupha. Le ayisiyiyo incwadi yephupha lemveli elinokufunyanwa kuyo nayiphi na inguqu. Asiyi kuqikelela ukuba inkomo okanye i-cern iphupha. Ukutolikwa okufanayo kunjengentsomi. Sinqwenela ukuthi: Amaphupha anokufuna kwaye anyanzele ukuba aqonde ngendlela yokuba babe yinyani ebomini. Ngokusekwe kwinyaniso yokuba ukulala yinto eyahlukileyo, yobuqu ye-intuition ukusombulula iingxaki zethu ezibalulekileyo kunye nemisebenzi.
Mandizazise. Igama lam nguMaria Zngqoskova. Ndingugqirha wengqondo, ugqirha wonyango kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo lokukhula komntu. Emsebenzini wam, ndihlala ndiva amabali abantu ngento ababeyiphupha. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukulala i-allevorication kubonisa umntu, njengoko kufuneka kwenziwe kwimeko enye okanye kwenye. Ke itoliki efanelekileyo yeyona nto iphambili ekusombululeni ingxaki.
Ke masiqale! Yintoni ekufuneka siyenze ngamaphupha ukuze ngcono kuzo?
Ukulala yindlela yasebukhosini ukuya kuthi ga. Ke kaloku utamakhulu nguMakhulu. Emsebenzini waKho "Ukutolikwa kwamaphupha" Unelungelo lokuyikhupha le thesis. Kufuneka sazi ukuba iphupha kukudala i-psyche, okanye, inkanuko engazi nto, iminqweno kunye neengxabano. Ukulala kufana ne-fantasy, kuphela ngokungafaniyo nelokugqibela, sinokubalawula kuphela. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo, umxholo wolala kuphela kuthi kwaye kuphela kuthi. Ke ngoko, kungcono ukuba ungasebenzisi amaphupha amdaka. Umfanekiso ofanayo ephupheni umntu ngamnye ubonakalisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zobomi.
"Ndiphuphe ubudenge." La magama uninzi lwabantu luqala ibali malunga nokulala okungaqondakaliyo. Nangona ubuthongo abusoloko busebenza kwimithetho yengcinga kwaye ihlala ingenakuphikiswa. Singaphupha ngathi sibhabha. Omnye wethu woyika, kwaye umntu uya kuyenza wonwabe. Isitshixo sokulala ziimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo esinazo.
"Ndandinobusuku! Ngaba kukho into embi eyenzeka kum? "
Iingcali zengqondo, ngokweenkcukacha ngokufundela amaphupha, ukubekwa ukulala kusinceda ukuba sikwazi ukujongana nomthwalo wengqondo ngexesha lobomi kunye nemihla ngemihla. Ukuba sinomsindo, sikhubekile, boyika umntu kwaye bazama ukulibala ngayo, ephupheni kwakhona behlangabezana nale mvakalelo ke ngobomi obungasabuyeli kuwo. Ukulala kuyamangalisa. Uyasinceda ukuba sikwazi ukujamelana namava anzima.
"Andizange ndiphuphe nantoni na".
Ubuthongo bethu bune-inshomoonege. Inezigaba ezithile: ngokukhawuleza kwaye kancinci kancinci. Ngexesha lesigaba esicothayo, asiboni amaphupha. Ngexesha lakhe, umzimba wethu uphumle. Kwinqanaba elikhawulezayo kukho "ukuqalisa kwakhona" kwengqondo yethu. Sibona amaphupha ambalwa omnye komnye. Kukholelwa ukuba ukuvuswa okuchwayitileyo kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza emva kwesigaba esikhawulezayo. Okwangoku sikhumbula amaphupha ethu ngokweenkcukacha.
Ukuba uyasilela ukukhumbula iphupha, emva koko uvuka kwiSigaba. Zama ukuhamba kwangoko ukuze ulungelelanise kancinci indlela yokulala.
Ukuba uyazi iindlela zokutolika ezilula, unokucofa amaphupha njengentongomane. Siza kuthetha ngawo kumanqaku alandelayo.
Okwangoku-amaphupha amnandi!
UMaria Zngqoskova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wonyango kunye noqeqesho lokukhula komntu kwiZiko lokuRhweba uMarika Hazin.
Ngaba uphupha ubuthongo, kwaye ufuna uMaria ukuyivala kwindawo yethu? Emva koko thumela imibuzo yakho nge-imeyile [email protected].