Nabani na utata, imbonakalo yoNyana lolona luthowu lubaluleke kakhulu ebomini, kodwa umntwana osele ekhulile, enokuba nzima ngakumbi uBawo ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kunye nomfana. Ayothusi ukuba emva kwexesha elithile abantu abasondeleyo bangenakuqonda ukungaqondi.
Abahlobo babaluleke kakhulu kumntwana okwishumi elivisayo
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Kutheni kumgama?
Ootata bafane bakhulise umntwana ukuya kuthi ga ngokuzalwa ngunina, kuba ekuqaleni kungumama oxhalabisayo. Ke ngoko, uninzi lotata lunqunyelwe ekuqulunqweni kwemihlangi, ukuthenga i-diaper kunye nesondlo. Ngapha koko, umzali uyabanceda ngento yokuba uza kuzalisa unxibelelwano xa umntwana eyeyaba mdala. Kodwa emva kwethutyana kuyavuma ukuba uYise nonyana wakhe akukho nto ingenakuthetha ngayo.
Kwenziwe ntoni?
Ngelixa inkwenkwe ingafezekanga ubudala bakhe, uhlala engaveli iingxaki ngesibongozo ukuba kukho imfuneko. Ngexesha lohlengahlengiso lwehomoni, musani ukumangaliswa lutshintsho olubukhali lweemvakalelo kunye nokuziphatha xa kunjalo: Lo mfana ubakhayo ukuze uxoxe noBawo, kwaye kukho iimeko ezivela Apha, xa umntwana okwishumi elivisayo evala ngaphakathi kwakhe kwaye wabelana ngeengxaki kuphela nabahlobo abasenyongweni.
Ukuya 'kwaphula umkhenkce' kubudlelwane noNyana, oobawo kufuneka bade bancome umntu okwishumi elivisayo, obaluleke kakhulu ukuba afumane inkoliseko kwindoda elinganayo. Kwaye, ewe, musa ukudala isithili ngokwakho umlinganiso wesimilo, ekudanile ekuncedeni ingcebiso-kukuvuselelwa ukunxibelelana nomntwana.
Nxibelelana nomntwana ofikisayo ukuba ulingane- akasengomntwana
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Fumana umdla oqhelekileyo
Eyona nto imbi ayinakwenza umzali kukungahoyi okanye ungazihloniphi iimfuno zomntwana wakhe okwishumi elivisayo. Ukuba unengxaki kunxibelelwano, kutheni ungafundi isihloko apho unyana wakho edlule khona kwaye azame ukumbuza ngakumbi. Njengommiselo, ulutsha oluhamba ngenzondelelo ukucacisa ooyihlo lubonisa uguqulelo lwegajethi ethandwayo, okanye yintoni umahluko phakathi kwendawo yendawo ye-K-ASR. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukusebenzisa umdla onyanisekileyo-ulutsha luziva kakuhle nakweyiphi na imvakalelo yakho.
Kwaye zimbini iingcebiso ngakumbi ukuze unxibelelwano lwakho aluguqukeli kwitshutshisiwe:
-Uselula akasengomntwana oqhele ukukhokelela esikolweni okanye kugqirha. Umfana kufuneka anyangwe njengomntu okhulileyo, ke hamba ngaphambili amagama abantwana kwaye ungayixoxe ngemicimbi yasekhaya phambi kwabahlobo bakhe-akukho nto imbi ngakumbi kunabakhweli ngengqondo ngokukhawuleza.
-Akufanele uxoxwe ngezihloko zikaFrank - ukuvulela kakhulu okugqithisileyo kunokukhokelela kwinto yokuba umntwana akayiqondi indlela yokusabela kwaye uvala nje.
"Akululanga ukuxoxa ngotata nonyana wezinto zomzimba zomzimba oguqukayo, umxholo wothando lokuqala nobuhlobo bobokuqala nolwalamano lokuqala nolwalamano lwesidoda. Ulutsha luvulekile ngokungathandabuzekiyo phambi kwabantu abadala xa kufikwa kwinto yobuqu, ke ngoko yenza kakuhle.
Uthando lokuqala-isihloko esineentloni kakhulu
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-Ungathethi ngeengxaki apho umfana anitsalelayo ngani - ukuba wenza inyathelo elibaluleke kakhulu lokwabelana nani ngemeko enzima kunye nani - le sele liyimpumelelo, ke zama ukuthathela ingqalelo isigqibo semeko ye Ulutsha lubaluleke kakhulu ngokusemandleni, cebisa icebiso elixabisekileyo, ukuba umfana uyadingeka.
- Nokuba ungumntu oxakeke kakhulu, unyana wakho ubaluleke ngakumbi kunomsebenzi wakho, ukuze unxibelelwano naye kufuneka angene kwiShedyuli yakho yemihla ngemihla, kwaye hayi kwifom yefom, kodwa kufuneka ube nomdla kubomi buka-A Mfana ukuze ubudlelwane bakho bushushu kwaye bomelele bonke ubomi bonke.