Isibakala sokuba iingcinga zethu ziyinyani, akukho mntu ungothusayo: Ukuba sisoloko sikwimeko yokungalunganga noxinzelelo, akufuneki umangaliswe ukuba umhlaba ubonakala ngwevu. Kwiimeko apho yonke into iwela ezandleni kwaye ukukhanya ekupheleni komhuseleli akubonakali, silungiselele imigaqo eliqela eya kukwenza ujonge ngendlela eyahlukileyo.
kuphela unokwenza ukhetho
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Ukuvumelana
Isizathu selizwe lakho elicinezelweyo linokuba ngumnqweno obuhlungu wokulingana nomhlaba wabo. Abantu abaninzi, ngakumbi abafazi, imigangatho edityanisiweyo yamkelwe kuluntu oluthile. Kakade ke, akukho sithetha uluntu yokusebenzela apho kufuneka bathobele imithetho ethile, sithetha ngayo ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla xa kufuneka uphumle, endaweni kokubasingasinga nokucinga ngubani yaye yintoni uya kucinga ngawe thina.
Ubukho
Vala kwaye uthembele ubudlelwane kunye nabanye abantu abanakwenzeka ukuba inkathalo kunye nengqwalaselo ibonakalisiwe kuphela kwelinye icala. "Umdlalo kwisango elinye uza kuzisa ukhathazekile zombini, kunjalo ukusuka namhlanje kufuneka uqale ukuba wenze. Umama uyakhalaza ukuba uchithe ixesha elincinci naye? Mmangalele ngokuhlwa ukuya kwindawo yokutyela. Indoda iyakhutyekiswa, uchitha ntoni ngalo lonke ixesha emsebenzini, engqondweni yedwa? Thatha iholide yakho kwaye uqhubeke uhambo kunye. Njl. Unganyamalali kubomi babathandekayo.
Sukubona isimo sengqondo esihle njengoko kufanelekile
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Ukuphindaphinda
Akukho nto iza ebomini bethu njengaleyo. Ukufumana into, kufuneka unike into. Ihlala kuyo yonke into. Le nto ibaluleke kakhulu kunxibelelwano lweemvakalelo. Ukuba kukho abantu kwimo engqongileyo ehlala belungele ukuza kuhlangula kwaye besithi "gubungela", ungayiboni njengoko kufanelekile: Asinguye wonke umntu onethamsanqa le nkxaso. Ukuba uziva ngathi izinto zihamba nzima, khumbula nje ukuba kuphela kwemini njembi, hayi ubomi obubi, kodwa ngenkxaso yabahlobo kunye noogxa onokwenza ukuba bawaphathe kakuhle.
Inkxaso eyakhayo
Khumbula ukuba akukho mntu ubathanda abantu abasoloko bekhalaza ngaphandle kwesizathu. Indawo ekungqongileyo zama ukuhlala kude, kwaye ukuba uziva ngohlobo lwabakhalazi abasisigxina, musa ukumangaliswa ukuba ngenye imini iya kuba luhlobo oluthile lokufowuna, oluya kuphulukana nomnqweno wakho wokufumana entsha umbingelelo wokukhalaza. Isangqa esikhohlakeleyo.
Kucacile ukuba uxinzelelo kufuneka lusebenze nengcali, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ayikho, unokuhlangabezana ngokulula nemikhosi yakho ngokutshintsha isimo sakho sengqondo: Kodwa zama ukuthoba i-mines, kodwa kuzo zonke izinto ezintle yenzeke kuwe ngemini.
Jonga imeko kwi-engile eyahlukileyo
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Ukhetho
Uphila ubomi bakho ekungekho mntu ulungileyo ukuphembelela. Kuphela kumandla akho okulawula yonke into eyenzekayo kuyo: Unganxibelelana nabantu, kwaye ungaphazamisana nonxibelelwano ngobuntu obungathandekiyo kwaye akukho mntu uya kukugweba. Rhoqo siya kubandezeleka ngenxa yokungenelela ngokudibeneyo kwimicimbi yethu nakwindlela yobomi, ekhokelela kuxinzelelo kunye nokudakumba okufanayo. Funda ukwala kwaye wenze izigqibo ngokwakho.