Ndivile ukuba ukukhulelwa okucwangcisiweyo kungcono. Ingaba yinyani? Kwaye kuthekani ukuba ukukhulelwa kungaphenjwanga, ngaba kufanelekile ukuphazamisa?
Anna Kuntokecova
Sika ukukhulelwa ngenxa yokuba akuthenjwanga, akakufanelanga. Ngaphezu koko, ngokungathi kunjalo njengokukhulelwa okucwangcisiweyo, ipesenti ayiphezulu, xa kuthelekiswa nokungafakwanga. Okungcono ukukhulelwa okuthile ... Okokuqala, into yokuba kwinyani yenyani, ngenxa yokuba ngaphambili wayeguqukele kugqirha, sele enomfanekiso opheleleyo wezempilo, kubandakanya neziphumo zovavanyo lwezempilo Usulelo olufihliweyo. Kwaye ukuba bafunyanwa losulelo, baphiliswa. Kodwa akuphela kakhulu ukuba ungavavanywa ngoku. Ungaqhagamshelana nogqirha oya kukuthumela ukuze uphumelele lonke uhlalutyo. Ukuba, kwimeko yolu phando, ezinye iingxaki ziya kufunyanwa, zinokupheliswa (zinyangwe) nasemva kokukhulelwa.
Ndidinga ukukhululeka ngokukhawuleza. Ndinethuba leeveki ezingama-24. Luhlobo luni lwezothutho olungcono ukusebenzisa inqwelomoya okanye uloliwe?
I-victoria manushina
Lo ngumbuzo umntu ngamnye. Kwaye ngugqirha kuphela ojongile uya kuba nakho ukuyiphendula. Kudlulile ukuba indlela inde kwaye uloliwe kuya kufuneka ichithe ngaphezulu kosuku, ngokuqinisekileyo lingcono ukusebenzisa inqwelomoya. Kodwa, kwakhona, ukuba awunazo iziphakamiso. Umzekelo, iingxaki ngoxinzelelo lobugcisa. Ngayiphi na imeko, kuya kufuneka ubonakale kugqirha wakho ongayi kuthini, luhlobo luni lwezothutho omele ulisebenzise, kodwa uya kwenza isigqibo malunga nokuba ungaya kwenye indawo okanye hayi. Abanye abantu basetyhini benza impazamo enkulu. Ukuba baziva behlala ngexesha lokukhulelwa, abaveli kwagqirha kwaye abaqwalaseli kunyanzelekile ukuba baququzelele isenzo sabo kunye nogqirha. Oku kungakhathali kunokuthintela.
Ndineminyaka engama-38 ubudala. Ndiimithi. Kodwa boyika ngabantu abaqhelileyo ukuba ngenxa yeminyaka yam izelwe umntwana wokuqala ingozi, ngenxa yokuba umntu azalwa agula. Ngaba kunjalo?
I-Svetlana Zaitseva
Into engathethiyo nale ntloko ... umzekelo, kwenye inguqulelo yomntwana okhahlekayo unokuzalwa. Ngokweenkcukacha-manani, umfazi unokuzala kwezinye iimeko ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka engama-45. Kwaye uyakwazi ukuzala umntwana osempilweni. Kwiminyaka yakho yobudala bakho, ukukhulelwa kokuqala kunokuqhubeka kunzima ngakumbi kunebhinqa eliselula. Kunokubakho ukuzalwa komntwana onesidima ... kodwa ukuba ujonga ugqirha rhoqo, kungabikho ngxaki. Ke musani ukoyika ukuzala, uya kuba nomntwana onempilweni.
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