I-Anastasia Stotskaya ibisoloko iphupha ngokuba yinkwenkwezi, kwaye iphupha likhawuleze kakhulu. Waba ngoyena mntu ubalaseleyo kwi-roxy hart, kwi-chicago "yomculo", etshabalalisa i-cinema, ngokuqaqambileyo nangokuthe qatha ngokwahlukeneyo kwiinkqubo ezahlukeneyo zokubonisa, ecela abalandeli bayo. Kutshanje uNasya wabelana ngeembono zakhe ngobomi, emangazayo ngezinto zakhe azikho kwiminyaka.
- Nastya, ekugqibeleni uyifumene iqabane lethu lomphefumlo. Uziva njani ngento yokuba xa imitshato ichithekile, abantu bathulula abanye "ezinye iibhakethi", bahlule ipropathi ", babelane abantwana?
- Ezi zinto zinzima ukuphawula malunga nenxalenye, kuba ubomi bomnye umntu yichaphaza. Intsapho nganye inezinto zayo ezifihlakeleyo, iindebe zaphukileyo ", ezinzima, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha akunakwenzeka kwiglu. Ubomi bosapho bungumsebenzi omkhulu kumacala omabini. Kodwa, kunjalo, kubi xa abantwana beqala ukuhlupheka ngenxa yobudenge. Le nto ndiziva ndizisola kakhulu, ngokufanayo aba ngabantwana. Abazali kufuneka benze yonke into ukuze umntwana angadibani, kuba uyamthanda ngokulinganayo utata nomama.
-Meze ezi "zekomityi ezaphukileyo" kubomi bosapho ezenzeka ngenxa yokuba umntu kunye nentombazana badlala umtshato. Ucinga ukuba kufuneka udibane naphi na abantu abaselula ukukhangela iimvakalelo zakho ngaphambi kokutshata?
-Umntu omnye olumkileyo wathi onke amaxesha onyaka kufuneka agcinwe ukuze avavanye iimvakalelo zakhe. Inkanuko kufuneka ithole, zonke iimpazamo zomntu zisenokujongwa ngamanye amehlo. Ekwindla, ihlobo, ubusika, iNtwasahlobo - Ngexesha ngalinye lonyaka, abantu bazibonakalisa benomdla kwaye ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ngeli xesha, unokubona zonke iintshukumo, fumana amacala eqabane lakho, embindini wonyaka ngokwaneleyo.
Kodwa ngokubanzi, kunjalo, kunzima ukuyixela kwangaphambili, abantu banokuphila iminyaka emininzi kwaye bangazani ukuya esiphelweni, emva koko elinye lamaqabane lisithuka into kwaye uya kwizenzo ezoyikekayo.
"Ke ucinga ukuba lo nyaka ukwanele ukubiza abahlobo bomtshato?"
- Kutheni le nto iyimfuneko emzimbeni? Ukuba ufuna ukuva uluvo lwam, ndiza kukuxelela ngokuzithemba ukuba isitampu kwipasipoti asinikeli kwanto. Abantu baphila ngolonwabo kwaye ngaphandle kwawo. Kwaye uninzi lwapheshelwa kwaye emva komtshato. Sithi nje, amantombazana, ngoko ke ngoko kwafuneka sifune ukutshata, sibekwe kuthi emkhundleni, ukuba le yinto eyimfuneko ekuzithembeni ngomso.
"Mna, mantombazana, size sizelwe ukuba kufuneka sitshate." Ifoto: Lilia Sharlovskaya.
-Ungacingi njalo?
-Ndiyakholelwa ukuba umfazi ngamnye makabe ngumsebenzi ngamnye, kwaye okwesibini, ukuze ihlale ezizimeleyo kuzo naziphi na iimeko. Nokuba unomyeni otyebileyo osinikayo, ubomi bunokujika ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Indoda inokufa, yiya kwelinye ibhinqa eliselula, linokuqhekeza, kodwa nantoni na. Nawuphi na umfazi wale mihla kufuneka akwazi ukondla kunye nomntwana wabo.
Ndidla ngokubona abafazi ababekhe bakhuselwa, kwaye emva koko beza nabo ngenkani kwaye nabo, njengoko kwakufuneka baphumile.
Abanye abantu basetyhini, kunjalo, balungele ukuhlala ekhaya nabantwana, kuya kufuneka unyamezele imvakalelo yomyeni wakho, umlinganiswa wakhe onzima, kuba engazi ukuba angayenza njani kuye nantoni na kuye.
Ngokuqinisekileyo awuzange unyamezele i-whims kunye nomlinganiswa onzima womyeni?
- Ngelixesha uthanda, uya kunyamezela okuninzi ukuze singatsho. Konke malunga neemvakalelo. Kodwa ukuba indebe yomonde igqibile, ke uthando luphela. Ewe, ngaphandle kwabo bafazi abathanda kakhulu konke ekukhanyiseni bona. Kodwa xa ndimthanda, ndinyibilikisa emntwini kwaye mna, ngethamsanqa, bekungafuneki ukuba inyamezele nantoni na.
Ke ngoko, ndikuxelela, mhlawumbi, iinyaniso eziphambili, ukuba zithethe izinto ezilumkileyo ngakumbi, kufuneka uphile ubomi obude, udlule kuvavanyo, kwaye ndiqala ekuqaleni kwendlela. Ihlala iviwe, njengoko besithi lo mfazi wenza umntu abe ngumntu. Kodwa ekubeni kusekho umxhuzulane ngakumbi kumagxa wamabhinqa ngaphezu kwamaqonga asemameni, ke abantu abalumkileyo bacebisa ukuba bajonge umntu wabo njengomntwana okhulileyo. Ke izinto ezininzi ziya kuthathwa lula. Apha icebiso elinjalo landinika kwaye libonakala kum ukuba uchanekile.
-Uye wathi kuwe, ngethamsanqa, akufuneki unyamezele nantoni na, kuthetha ukuba unokuvuya kuphela kusapho lwakho. Ngaba uthando lwahlala kubudlelwane bosapho lwakho?
- Kuba abantu abahlala kunye, kunjalo, baphawula ingqalelo ngoku kubalulekile kwaye kumnandi. Sizama ukuhlala simamela uluvo lomntu ngamnye, yenza imvakalelo yendlu endlwini kwaye ayenzi ngezipho ezithengiweyo, kodwa uthathe inxaxheba.
Umyeni wam uSergey uyathanda ukupheka, ngamanye amaxesha into enxibe izinto evumelana ngayo, kuba umsebenzi wakhe uqhagamshele neshishini lokutyela, uyayazi ikhitshi abaninzi.
Uyathanda ukupheka kwiiresiphi zikanina, kangangokuba ihlala itya ngento emnandi.
-Ngokomfanekiso wakho, ayikabikho konke konke ukuba uyathanda ukutya. Ngaba zikho iimfihlo zokulahleka okukhawulezayo?
-Akukuyeki ukuzikhusela okumnandi, kwaye emva koko wabawa ukuphosa kwaye utye i-pelvis yonke. Kudala kuqonda ukuba ndiyindoda egqithileyo kwaye ndizame ukuthobela ngandlela igolide. Andikwazi ukuhlala ekutyeni, kuba ndiyondla umntwana, kwaye akafuni ukuyeka ubisi, ndizama ukutya yonke into, kodwa ngokumodareyitha. Ndiyazithanda iicookies ezimnandi, kodwa kunye neenxalenye zakhe ezincinci. Ndenza imidlalo emininzi, ndiyakuthanda ukubaleka, kodwa hlalani 'kukulamba okunzima lokulambela kwaye ubone indlela obandezeleka ngayo unyana wam, andikwazi.
- Ngenxa yonyana, kunjalo, awunakuhlala kwizidlo. Ngenxa yabantwana, abantu bakwabo bonke banikela abaninzi, kwaye bafuna abantwana bonwabe ngakumbi kunabazali babo, babathanda nelizwe labo. Uxolo ngombuzo ongaqhelekanga, ngaba ungathanda unyana wakho ukuba akhule nelinye ilizwe?
-Khetha umntwana ukusukela ekwenzeni ulwandlalo lwasekhaya - andiboni nto iphosakeleyo ngayo. Ngoku zininzi kakhulu kwilizwe lethu, kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukujongana nale nto. Ngayiphi na imeko, akufuneki ugwebe mntu, kufuneka uqale nam. Kwaye kubantwana babo bexesha elizayo abaceba ukuqalisa ngomyeni wakhe, kunjalo, baya kuzama ukukhulisa ipateri yeli lizwe. Kwaye wonke umntu cebisa ukuba abulale abantwana abaninzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwaye abakhubekise abantu abalungileyo.
- Nastya, udlale italente kwi-goesrical gody "yejster kunye neVenus". Zeziphi iiprojekthi onokuthi uzibone, yiphi indima oyithandayo?
-Ndifuna ukudlala amagama aqaqambileyo abukhali ukuze amagorha am abi, ekhohlakeleyo, amanenekazi eBitch. Ewe, iifilimu ze-lyrical zilungile, kodwa ndifuna ukudlala iinyawo zokwenyani, yile nto ndinomdla kuyo ngoku. Banikezela ngeendima koluhlu, kodwa la manenekazi, endingathandabuzi ngokupheleleyo kum. Kwaye ngelishwa, kwavela ukuba ezinye iindlela kunye nabavelisi abazi nokuba ndigqibile uRati kwaye ndingumdlali wengcali.
Ndiqonde kuphela imvumi uAnastasia Stotkaya, ecula ngemisipha nakwiikonsathi. Ndiyabaqonda, boyika ukuba andikwazi ukumelana nendima, kuba lo mfanekiso qaqambileyo wemvumi unzima kakhulu ukwaphula. Yonke imbonakalo yam, imvumi ebomvu stotska, ndizenzele apha i-stereotype enjalo.
"Umfanekiso oqaqambileyo wemvumi unzima kakhulu ukwaphula." Ifoto: Lilia Sharlovskaya.
-Ukuzama ukutshintsha i-stereotype khange izame kwaye ngubani ofanelekileyo ofanelekileyo?
"Ndihlala ndisebenza ngokutshintsha umfanekiso, ndiyathemba ukubonisa abaphulaphuli kungekudala. Kwaye ukusuka kwi-chanves yakho oyithandayo i-Palm Championship ndinika uLiza minheli. Le yeyona rhamncwa endiyithandayo kunye nemvumi, kuba yam ndiyivule xa ndandineminyaka eli-10 ubudala. Ndivuselele wonke umsebenzi wakhe, ndithanda ifilimu "Cabaret" Bob Fossa, ndiphupha ndidlala le ndima. Lisa Minli, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, olungileyo.
- Kwaye nguwuphi umphathi ongathanda ukusebenza naye?
"Uyazi, kunzima ukukhetha umntu, ndithanda iinkosi ezininzi, wonke umntu unepeyinti yabo endiyithandayo. Kodwa njengomdlali weqonga, ngamanye amaxesha ndiyaqonda ukuba andikwazi ukungqinelana nalo mbono ndingene kulombono wendima, andikwazi ukuya namandla.
Kwimovie zininzi izinto ezinqabileyo zengqondo, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kwinkqubo yokwakha indima yomlawuli kwandiva.
-Uye wathi bebekulungele ukudlala umlinganiswa ongalunganga, i-bitch, engendawo i-fariya, kwaye kubonakala ngathi intombazana entle kangaka. Ngaba uyalufumana ngokwenene ubutyebi?
"Kubonakala kum ukuba lo vimba unawo wonke umfazi, uyayigcuma." Okukhona uphila, kokukhona ugcwele ziimvakalelo, amava, amava. Iinguqu ezisisigxina ziqhubeka nomntu. Xa ndandineminyaka engamashumi amabini ubudala, ndabona ubomi bahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Iminyaka ihambile, ndijonga yonke into ejonge ngamehlo omntu ohlukileyo ngokupheleleyo, ndiyaqonda ukuba ngekhe ndenze izinto ngokwahlukileyo.
Konke oku kufuneka kusinde kumculi ebomini kuya kwimithwalo yobungcali, kwaye emva koko utsala iinkumbulo zakhe - amava, amava asebenza ngendima kwaye akha indima enomdla. Ke ngoko, ukuba kukho into ethile ecetyiswa ukuba idlale kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini, ibingazange idlale, kuba yayingalunganga. Umlingisi oza kuzalisa ngokwengqondo, ukuze athandane, asinda kwilahleko, ukuvukela, ukwahlulwa, amabele amnandi, yonke into enobunzima, yonke into enokubonisa ukuba umbukeli.
Ukungazi ubomi, akunakwenzeka ukuba ubengumculi olungileyo, ngolu hlobo uboshwe kumfanekiso ocetywayo. Kodwa kwityala lam, ezi "ntlungu ziyibhanti" ziya kufumaneka, ngenxa yoko ndikulungele le indima.
-Ngokuba iminyaka yomsebenzi ekuboniseni ishishini, ngaba unazo iintshaba - ntshaba?
-Ndingacacanga ukuba ndingabi ziintshaba kwaye andinanto yokuziphindezela. Ndicinga ukuba ndingumntu onobubele nolungileyo. (Uhleka.)
-Ngaba iholide yeholide, ungathanda ukunqwenelela abalandeli bakho?
-Uyolo, uthando, impilo kwaye, kunjalo, ukuya phambili!