Akukho mfihlakeleyo apha. Yonke into isengqiqweni. Inyani yile yokuba kwiincwadi ezininzi nakwiingcebiso ezivela kwi-Intanethi, indlela yokuziqeqesha ukuze zifezekise iinjongo, akukho ndlela isebenzayo. Abathengi kunye nombuzo bahlala bebhekiswa kum, kutheni le nto ingasebenzi. Veza iincwadi okanye amanqaku aneengcebiso, ekufuneka ukhokelela ekuphunyezweni kweminqweno apho ndibona khona i-jikelele i-jikelele - amagama afihlakeleyo. Kwaye kokukhona krwada koko sikuthethayo, amathuba amancinci okuya kunceda. Umzekelo, uyaphinda: "Ndifuna ukuba yonke into ibe ilungile" okanye "ndifuna ulonwabo luye ebomini bam." Kodwa ezi fomu zinqabile ukuba aziziphathe naphi na: okanye "elungileyo" okanye ngethamsanqa.
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Ukuza kwiinjongo zakho kunye nokuzaliseka kweminqweno yenyani, kuyimfuneko ukuba iziqinisekiso zakho ziboniswe ngokucacileyo kubomi bokwenyani. Hayi "Ndifuna", kwaye "Ndonwabile", "ndinoyolo", "ndisisityebi", "ndisebenza kuphela ngoku kunye nokucaciswa komsebenzi. Kwaye isasebenza ngokwakho kwaye kwiminqweno yabo. Ukuba ubizwa la mabinzana, ungakholelwa kuyo nayiphi na okanye kuyo, akukho nto iyakwenzeka. Ukuqhekeza izinto ezinjalo kunye nokungaqiniseki ngaphakathi akunakukhokela naphi na. Ke ngoko, funda indlela yokuqhubela phambili.
Ingcebiso yam: Qaqamba ixesha kunye nendawo apho uya kujongana khona neziqinisekiso. Cima inyani, ugxile ngokupheleleyo kumnqweno wakho, biza ngemeko yamandla aphezulu. Oko kukuthi, gxila kwaye ubize ngoncedo onke amandla akhutshwe ngokwendalo. Sinokwenza izinto ezinje ngawe: zinike amandla ongezelelweyo. Oku kuyakwazi konke konke.
Iphupha ngokuthe ngqo kwaye ngesazela
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Ifanele ukhunjulwe ukuba iinjongo zokuThengisa azisebenzi. Iingcamango ezinjalo kwinqanaba lomlingo. Ukwanela-Umhlaba osisiseko wokubeka naziphi na iinjongo kunye neenjongo. Ukungakokuwa phezu kwakho ilifa leDolli-yezigidi ledola, ukuba akukho ndawo simlinde, kwaye kwakungekho zihlobo zezigidi zeentsapho zakho. Uzinzo lwezezimali kunye nempumelelo kufuneka ithengiswe ngamanqanaba.
Ke ufuna ntoni amaphupha?
1. Ukwenza umbono Kwinqanaba lengqondo (entlokweni).
2. Isityalo esi sinoluli kaninzi, songeza iinkcukacha, izandi kunye nemvakalelo- ngokoqobo yiva.
3. Qhuba imbono kwi-famier yomzimba.
4. Kwaye kuphela emva kokuba iphupha libe yinyani.
Ngokuqinisekileyo yonke into kwindalo iphela isebenza kulo mthetho kwaye inesiqalo kwindawo yengqondo. Umzekelo, ufuna itafile. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba itafile yephupha lakho liyavela, umntu kufuneka eze nomnye umntu osentlokweni yakhe, zoba esiqwengana sephepha, faka uhlobo oluthile lwezinto, yithumele kwivenkile apho uza kuyithenga. Ukuze iphupha libe yinto yokwenene, kufuneka uye kumanqanaba aliqela - ukusuka kwisicwangciso ngaphambi kokuphunyezwa. Kwaye ngendlela eyahlukileyo, ngelishwa ayisebenzi. Ke ngoko, qala ukusuka kwinqanaba eliza kukhuthaza ngokuthe ngcembe engqondweni yakho, kwaye ukhumbule ukuba ayifanele ifuduse okanye ingaqondakaliyo, iphupha ngokukodwa, kwaye yonke into iza kwenzeka.