Indawo esihlala kuyo ichaphazela ukuba sicinge ukuba: "Namntu ongenayo, nomona kwaye urhole kuwe amandla - yonke le nto incinci ukuba akukho mntu unetyhefu ecaleni kwakho. Malunga nendlela "yokuqikelela" indawo okuyo, sagqiba kwelokuba sithethe namhlanje.
Good? Hayi enkosi
Ewe kunjalo, ukuba umhlobo wakho ufikile ukuba kwimeko engathandekiyo, akufuneki uye wedwa ngengxaki, kodwa xa abahlobo bakho bejikandezeleka ngenxa yendlela yokuphila, kuba kufanelekile ukusikeka, kuba umntu onjalo ukwazi ukukhupha onke amandla kwiiyure nje ezimbalwa oziceba ukuthumela emsebenzini okanye kwinkanuko yakho. Cinga nge.
Jonga abahlobo kunye nabahlobo kwintsimi yabo yomsebenzi
Uninzi lwethu lunezinto esize siphumelele indlela enkulu yobomi, kodwa uninzi lwesangqa senza sabulala abantu ubomi obugcisa. I-COUCTIIS iphinda iphinda iphinde iphinde incitshiswe kubafowunelwa kwishishini nabantu: Yivalele, mhlawumbi umntu osebenza naye unxibelelana naye kuphela kwaye awunakuzenzela ingxelo kunye , kodwa yiya kumsitho ukuba iya kuba nomdla kuwe. Ke unokusandisa kakhulu isangqa sokuthandana kwakho, eyona nto iphambili kukungavalwa kubantu abakhoyo ebomini bakho. Vula entsha!
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Qonda into oyifunayo
Ngamanye amaxesha uninzi lweminqweno yethu alunalo ubudlelwane kwaphela - i-psyche yethu ikwamkela ngokukhawuleza iminqweno yabanye abantu, ngakumbi oku kwenzeka nabantu abazinxibileyo. Kufanelekile ukuba uyeke kwaye ucinge ngayo, kwaye nokuba ufuna olu hambo, apho ucinga ukuba ungumhlobo, nangona ubungayikhathazi ukuchitha ixesha lakho lakudala kwizifundo ezivelileyo? Sukulandela amaphupha omntu, baya kuzisa ulonwabo kunye nempumelelo kuphela kwabo bazama ukukutsala kwicala labo. Qonda into oyifunayo kwaye ungavumeli abanye abantu banefuthe kwisigqibo sakho.