Ukunyaniseka. Ngomntu onyanisekileyo, kulula ngakumbi ukwakha ubudlelwane bosapho. Akayi kuqhutywa kwiqhina kwaye alixelele ngokungoneliseki emehlweni. Umfazi onyanisekileyo akazukukuxelisa ulonwabo kwaye ahlukane neminqweno yakhe eyimfihlo. Amadoda ancoma kakhulu.
Ukunyamezelana. Isakhono sokuqonda imbonakalo yomnye umntu ibalulekile ekwakheni ubudlelwane. Umhlaba owomeleleyo ujonga ngokwesini xa umfazi ethatha umbono wonyuliweyo wakhe.
Inkanuko. Ukuba umntu "uyatshisa" ngeenjongo zakhe kunye nezinto ozithandayo, eze kuzo entloko, emva koko kwicebo elisondeleyo liyandibetha.
Uthando ngolwazi. Abanye abameli besidumo besichongo bakhetha abafazi ngobuchule kunabo. Bayathanda ukukhuphisana nentanda yabo kubuchule bokuqonda. Ukuba intombazana ilumkile, abathandekayo abakwazi ukuyijikeleza.
I-Etiquette. Umntu othi "enkosi" kwaye "ube nobubele", ukwahlula umtsalane okhethekileyo. Ngexesha lamaxesha asondeleyo, uya kuba ngononophelo kwaye ayihlonele.
Imbono elungileyo. Ibhinqa elisusela kusasa livuka kwimozulu entle, liyancuma kwaye liyinkangeleko eliphilayo, liya kuhlala limiliselwa kumaxesha amnandi.