Sisiphi isiqinisekiso? I-famirairaisications yiseti yamabinzana acetyiswayo kumthengi ukuba akhuphe rhoqo kusasa ukusuka kwiintsuku ezingama-30 ukuya kwezingama-90. Kutheni le nto abantu bajamelene nokuphoxeka malunga neziqinisekiso?
Isiqinisekiso - Le yiseti yeengxelo eziluhlobo lwenkqubo yokufumana umntu ophantsi komntu. Oko kukuthi, lo mntu ngokuthe ngcembe tshintsha ubunzima beenkolelo ezingazisiyo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha batshabalalisa ubomi ngobubanzi beenkolelo ezizayo ngobomi bakhe. Le nkqubo kufuneka iqulethe i-algorithm ecacileyo yezenzo eziqukethe i-Logic ukufaka inkqubo kwinqanaba eliqhelekileyo. Oko kukuthi, ukuqonda kufuneka kulungelelaniswe ne-subconsion. Umzekelo, inkqubo ethi "Intembelo yamadoda" iya kusebenza, ixhomekeke kwiNkqubo "ukuthembana kweyona nguqulelo kunye nemfundiso".
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Umzekelo weNkqubo "ithemba lamadoda":
-Intembelo ye-chiection yemvakalelo kunye nemfundiso.
-Iimvakalelo zokuziva kunye neemvakalelo zikhuselekile ngokukhuselekileyo.
-Ndiyiva iimvakalelo zam kunye neemvakalelo zam.
-Ndizithemba iimvakalelo zam kunye neemvakalelo zam.
-Ndizixabisa iimvakalelo zam kunye neemvakalelo zam.
-Ndikhusela imida yeemvakalelo zam kunye neemvakalelo zam
-Intembeko ye-Intuition ikhuselekile.
-Ndiyiva i-intuition yam.
-Ukulufikelela uxolo lwamadoda.
- ukuthemba ihlabathi eliyisilisa ngokukhuselekileyo.
-Ndiyathemba ilizwe lamadoda.
-Ndithembise ilizwe lamadoda, ukuthembela kwi-intuition yam
-Ndikhetha amadoda, ekhokelwa yintumetion yakhe.
-Ndikha ubudlelwane namadoda, ndixhomekeke kwi-intuition yam.
Nokuba awuyilungelanga ukuvumelana nengxelo entsha nge-100%, iinkqubo zokukhuphela kunjalo
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Yintoni ekufuneka ikhunjulwe ngokulayishwa izityholo:
1. Nokuba awuyilungelanga ukuvumelana nengxelo entsha nge-100%, ukhuphele iinkqubo. Ungacingi ngayo, kodwa uphinda nje izityholo. Iinkqubo zokwakha ngokutsha ziya kukhathaza ngokuthe ngcembe, kwaye le nkqubo ifuna ixesha. Ngokuthe ngcembe, unxibelelwano oludala lwenkqubo engeyongoyi luya kuwa, kwaye kuyadalwa ezintsha.
2. Kubalulekile ukuba kungekuphela nje ukulayisha iinkqubo ezintsha, kodwa uzisebenzise ngesazela. HAYI I-HAHHALA UKUZE UZE UZE UZE UZE UQEQESHE ENYE I-ALGGOTM. Inkqubo yenguqu evela kwi-caterpillar kwibhabhathane ikwaninzi kakhulu kwaye ithatha ixesha.
3. Ukuvunywa kufuneka kuhlala kunjalo, ngaphandle kwesandi "hayi". Ukungaphantsi kwengqondo akufundi "hayi" indima, kwaye ngenxa yoko, inkqubo inokuguqulela ibe yi-algorithm etshabalalisayo.
4. Imvume kufuneka ifutshane kwaye isigqi, esinokubhengezwa ngokulula kwaye siphinde. Ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba ngamagama amabini aza kuba nentsingiselo ebonakalayo.
5. Ngaphambi kokuba ukhuphele iseti yeenkolelo ezintsha, kufuneka ukhuphe iinkqubo ezingasebenziyo. Iinkqubo ezingasebenziyo zikwafuna ukuba igama elicacileyo, "hayi" ireyithi alivumelekanga kwigama. Inkqubo yeliso lemveliso isafuneka ikhutshelwe ngaphandle komxokelelwane wobomi kwaye uyibone. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uyisebenzise le nkqubo ukuba le nkqubo iyimfuneko - "x-ray" ifunwa iinkqubo "zokuKhanya". Iindlela ezahlukeneyo ze-Psychology: Ukuqeqesha okunzulu, unyango lwesinambuzane, i-TETA-Hiling, i-Psychoanalysis, iindlela ezahlukeneyo zentsebenzo, uncedo.
6. Ukuhlaziyeka okunzulu kunokwenzeka kwimeko ethile ye-subconsting yomntu, ekuvumela ukuba ubone ulwazi oluyimfuneko, ukurhoxisa kwaye ulayishe iinkqubo zonke.