I-FOLKculo Iingoma marina Devyatova kwezinye iipores, kunye nenkosikazi eyonwabileyo nonina. Imvumi eyayitshatileyo kwiminyaka emithathu eyadlulayo, nakwiinyanga ezimbalwa kamva ululana.
-Marina, ubomi bakho buguqukile emva kokuzalwa komntwana?
Xa umntwana wokuqala ebonakala, kubonakala kum ukuba umfazi uzalwe ngokutsha: iyaguqulwa kwaye ihleli inaye intsha. Kuba lonke ixesha lakhe elikhululekileyo lizinikele emntwaneni. Kwimeko yam, kwakungekho lula: bendingekabikho ikhefu lokuya kubeleka, ndaqhubeka kwinqanaba kwiinyanga ezimbini. Khange ndibenomsebenzi omncinci, kodwa ubomi bendlu yaba sisityebi. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, iqabane lam lalingadluliselwe kwiinkonzo ze-NANNY, kuba ngaphandle komntu esingenzi. Umama wam uhlala nathi, uyasinceda.
-Ukazalwa komntwana kwakucwangcisiwe okanye kwenzeka ngamathuba?
- Kwakumangalisa ngendoda yakhe. Ingakumbi kum njenge-Ofisi yoSetyenzisi. Kubonakala kum ukuba lo mmangaliso akwenzekanga, ngendikhulisa ixesha elide, ngelixa ndikwimo yomfazi wam, hayi oomama. Thina noAlexey sazana ixesha elide, kulwalamano lwethu lwahlukileyo. Sidibene, sahlukana, saza sadibana. Sidlulile, mhlawumbi, yonke imijikelezo yokuphuhlisa ubudlelwane bomntu kunye nebhinqa. Kodwa ukuzalwa kuka-Uyana kwakutshintsha kakhulu umyeni wakhe, ngaphandle kwento yokuba uAlebey sele enentombi emtshatweni wokuqala. Uthe ke akufika uSasha, enemicimbi yamashumi amabini ananye naye, ngoku, ukuba amashumi amane, imbonakalo yomntwana iqondeke ngokwahlukileyo. Banolwalamano lwabo, imidlalo yabo. Kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba banxibelelane, loo ntambo, apho ndiziva ndinoyolo.
KuMarina notata wakhe, imvumi edumileyo vladimir Vereyatova, ingoma yabantu yaba yishishini losapho
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-U-Alebey ixesha elide uzandleni?
- Xa sadibana, ndandiyintombazana endala ngokwaneleyo. Ndandinenkwenkwe encinci ebomini bam, kwaye ndababona bonke abantu bam abancinci njengamadoda anokubakho kwixesha elizayo. Mna ndingumntu onomdla kwi-monozy. I-Alezey yindoda ethembekileyo, elungileyo, ikhuliswe ngosapho olukhuni. Ngelishwa, umama wakhe ukhusekutsha nje, nyana, ndicinga ukuba ndingoyena mkhweli uphelileyo. Yayingumhlobo wam wokwenene. Kwaye ngenxa yoko ndandingenamnqweno owodwa, ukuze uAlexey wayefuna. Wakhathala, njengoko wayesazi njani, ngenxa yobuchule bakhe. Ngokukhawuleza saqala ukuhlala kunye. Mhlawumbi kwindawo abayenze iimpazamo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye ndiyaqonda ukuba iikona ezibukhali sizama ukudlela iqela.
-Yintoni isimo sakhe sengqondo malunga nenyani yokuba uyimvumi ethandwayo?
-Ndisoloko nditshoyo, utshatile nangomfazi, kodwa kumculi, kubaphulaphuli. Akukho lula, ungumntu oqhelekileyo onesikhwele kumadoda afuna ukundinika iintyatyambo, hug, qanda. Kodwa uyayinyamezela bonke, eqonde ukuba unomfazi - umculi.
-Umntu oselula wacinga ukuba yeyiphi le ndoda yamaphupha akho?
-Umyeni wam akazange adibane nalo mbono konke konke. Into esiyitsalelayo yintshatsheli kuphela. Ndazibona iikhathuni, iintsomi ezintle kwaye ngoku silinde ukuba iRoseo iya kuqala ukucula phantsi kwefestile. Kodwa ndingumntu okudala, ndifuna i-knight eya kuza kum ngehashe, iya koyisa intliziyo yam. Bendihlala ndingumphunga. Kwaye ezi zinto zintle ziphazamisa kakhulu. Umzekelo, ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala kum ukuba yonke into, kwaye okokuqala umyeni wam wonke, kufuneka acinge nje nam. Kwaye amadoda ngendalo angabafana abasebenzayo. Umyeni wam uthi: Ewe, ndixelele, ufuna ntoni? Kwaye mna: "Ke, kanjani, kanjani! Kufuneka uqikelele! " Kodwa amadoda azama ngokwahlukileyo. Kwaye amadoda afanelekileyo, kunye nabafazi, kubonakala kum, akwenzekanga.
UMarina Demeyatova nomama kunye nentombi encinci ngexesha lesaphulelo esibhedlele
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-Uthetha ukuba ndiqhelene nendoda yakho ixesha elide, kwaye xa ixesha lafika xa uyiqonda le nto?
-Andithanda ukuthetha ngendlela abantu abadalwe ngayo. Imitshato eyomeleleyo kakhulu ngamanye amaxesha iyawa. Sonke senzeka: Siyaxabana, kwaye sifunga, ndikholelwe, ndingumkhweli onzima kakhulu ebomini bosapho. UAlexey, kananjalo, njenge-taurus yokwenene, ezalelwe ngonyaka weBaran, ngokubanzi indoda etyebileyo. Kwaye ndingumfazi okhokelela kwiqela lakhe akulula ukuba eze ekhaya kwaye athambile kwaye athambile. Usapho yiyofihlani enjalo, apho wonke umntu asebenza khona kwi-ego yabo. Kuba sonke singabasebenzi, sifuna ukonwabela: omnye komnye, kunye nabo, iindawo ezingqongileyo. Kwaye okokuqala, kunjalo, kufuneka ufunde ukuxabisa usuku yonke imihla. Ndiyaqonda ukuba uAlexei wandinika neempawu zam zikaThixo, kwaye yena, kunye neempawu zakhe, kwakunzima kakhulu, wanika umfazi ovumayo. Sinomahluko olungileyo ubudala, umyeni uphuphume iminyaka elishumi, ngoko ke ndawo alumkileyo, kwenye indawo ihektare. Kwaye uAlezey ngutata olungileyo. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, sinayo, ngaba i-Uyana ye-UAlea alekseevna, eyenza umculi wexesha elizayo.
-Ngoku sele uyibonile kuyo?
-I-orenji ayizukuzalwa kwi-Osba. Kwaye lerenji, Ngokoluvo lwam, ndayila kakhulu. Njengoko umama uthi, I-Uyona yikopi yam. Udada, amagcisa athandayo athandayo - Umama noMakhulu. Kwaye ukuba ngequbuliso baziva benda iingoma, akazukudanisa. Unamakhowudi yekonsathi, ujonge abadanisi bam kwiintetho zam kunye nezinye iindlela zabo zeTV zeTV. Ngo-Epreli bendinekhonsathi kwiKremlin, kwaye u-Uyana wavela phambi kwabaphulaphuli, ethule ngokupheleleyo enziwe iintyatyambo zikanina, zange zisoyika. Ndicule zonke ukukhulelwa, kwaye u-Uyana akaze andindekisi, akazange andibethe. Xa ikhonsathi yayiqala kwenye indawo, eyithoba, umntwana wayethule, wayesoloko endinika ukuba andithethe. Kwaye ngoku ilungele iikonsathi ezisusela kwisixhenxe ukuya kwilithoba, eyakhe yedwa. (Uhleka.)
"Umama uthi u-Uyona yikopi yam. Unomdaniso, sele eneecontes"
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- Xa kukho amanenekazi amabini amahle entsatsheni, emva koko, iwadi, mhlawumbi, inkulu? ..
-Ndizalelwe eSoviet Union, xa kwakungekho nto. Sele sihlala ngokwaneleyo xa abazali baqhawula umtshato, umama waqalisa ukusebenza kwimisebenzi emithathu. Zonke abantwana baseSoviet bashiya iimpahla zabazalwana noodadewethu abadala. Kwaye, ngokucacileyo, le ntsilelo ngoku ndibuyekeza i-Uyana. Ndixelelwe: Umntwana ufuna kakhulu! Kodwa ndizama ukusebenza kum. Nangona ekuzithetheleleni ndingatsho ukuba ndinomntu ozokunika into esingakhange inxibe.
-Utata wakho owaziwayo uVladimir Ninatov uphendule ekubulaweni komzukulwana?
"Utata wayelinde ixesha elide kakhulu xa ndaba ngumama." Ihlala ithe: "Marina, wenzani? Zonke ezi ziingoma, ukhenketho ... Ewe, ofuna la mabhaso! Kuyimfuneko ukumisela ubomi bakho, tshata. " Kwaye xa ndafumanisa ukuba ndikwisikhundla, ndonwabile. Kubonakala kum ukuba uYise uguqukile mva nje, waqalisa ukuthamba. Kwaye xa u-Ungashka wazalwa-konke konke. Yintoni oza kuyithetha: Nguye uTata oselula, udadewethu uneminyaka emine ubudala, kwaye uyazi kakuhle into ebanzi, ubusuku obungenalayo, ubudlelwane obuhle kakhulu, sihlala sinxibelelana.
"Khange ucinge ukuba umzalwana okanye udade ubonakala?
"Mna nomyeni wam sinethemba lokuba umzalwana okanye udade uya kuvela eUlyna Alekseyevna. Ipholile kakhulu, kuba ndinomntu omdala uCatherine. Sobabini singama-moms, kwaye, kunjalo, lo mahluko waminyaka usixhenxe awuzange uvakalelwe kukuba, singabahlobo abalungileyo. Kubalulekile ukuba ube nomzalwana okanye udade, ukubekwa kweliso.
-Marina, umyeni wakho iikonsathi zakho zihlala zityelela?
-Umzuzu oqhelekileyo. Kubonakala kum ukuba ngoku uLesha wayezalwa ngokutsha, ngewaya kuba yimvumi. Uhlala eyinkosi yezemidlalo kwiPole Gxuma, wayezibandakanya kwezemidlalo, kodwa umculo ngoku uyinto yokuzonwabisa Phambi kokuba ndimamkeze kum, wayengayiqondi indlela iculo le-folk, kwaye ngoku uyazibulala. Xa ndineengcanka zaseMoscow, ubatyeshele intombi yakhe.
UMarina no-Alexey baqhelene ixesha elide, kwaye kulwalamano lwabo kwakukho amanqanaba ahlukeneyo. Badibana, bahlukaniswe, kodwa ekugqibeleni baba ziintsapho
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-Kukho ulwazi oluninzi malunga nomtshato wakho. Uhambe njani?
- Asinawo umtshato, sabaleka kwi-ofisini yeRegistry-sele ndikwisikhundla. Ukupeyinta luphuhli "ndiqala izolo ukusuka kwimpuma ekude, kwaye ngomso ndibhabha eChelyabinsk." Asizange sixele mntu malunga nayo, abahlobo bethu bade bacaphukise kancinci kwaye bekhathazekile, bakrexeza oomama kwaye sele beyipeyintiwe kwisidlo sangokuhlwa, bathi bapeyinta. Ke khange sibenomtshato omkhulu kunye nommangaliso. Mhlawumbi siya kuze sisebenzise ithuba elinjalo, kodwa ngoku akwanelanga ukwenza le nto. Ngoku kufuneka sakhe indlu. Ngelixa sisusa indlu kwaye sele siyiqonda kakuhle indlela esiziva ngayo ngaphandle kwesiphithiphithi sasedolophini. Isigaba sele sikho, siyithengile. Ngendlela, eli lelinye inqanaba lobudlelwane: Yakha indlu, yenza ulungiso kwaye ulawule ngayo yonke le nto ngaphandle koqhawulo mtshato. (Uhleka.)
Ngamanye amaxesha baxakeke nje ngendlela yokuphila esempilweni, isondlo esifanelekileyo. Ngaba uyahluka?
-Ndiyiminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu esele inesihlanu ubudala, kodwa ayisiyo umnxeba, kodwa indlela endiphila ngayo ngokuyintloko ingabangelwa kukuziqwalasela. Njengakwifom emva kokuzalwa komntwana, kubonakala kum ukuba iikhilogres zam ezintlanu zisenazo. Kwaye kusoloko kunzima kakhulu kum ukunciphisa umzimba ngenxa yokuphola indlela yokuphila. Ndizama ukulawula ubunzima, ukukhulisa umdlalo kubomi bemihla ngemihla kwaye ufezekise iimfuno zakho. Ayisoloko iphumelela. Ndilahleka ngokukhawuleza kwesisindo kwivolumu kunokuba kwiikhilogramu, amashishini amaninzi esondlo athi ilunge ngakumbi. Kuya kufuneka ndizive ngokulula. Ngokubanzi, andikaze ndicinge, kwaye kusapho lwethu sinencinci. Ndizama ukumamela umzimba wam: Ukuba umzimba ulungile - kuthetha ukuba siphila ngakumbi, ukuba akunjalo, ndizama ukutya okubuthathaka, ndizisela izinto ezingaphezulu, ndiziphethe kakubi. Landela ukutya kunye nokugcina idayari andinalo ixesha.