Ukwakhiwa kobudlelwane-yinto enzima kwaye kufuna imbuyekezo evela kumaqabane omabini, kodwa kuyenzeka ukuba le ndoda imgaqo ayinalo ilungelo lokutsala ibhinqa elinesidima, kwaye ke umntu angaziqaphela nawuphi na umntu obhinqileyo ingaba kubaluleke kakhulu. Malunga noko kumaxesha, siza kuthetha namhlanje kwaye sithethe.
Indoda ixelela umfazi ukuba 'abe yindawo yakhe'
Vumelani, ezo ntente aziyi kuthanda nabani na - inkazana, ingenguye umntu, ngelixa le nto inqabile ukuba icinge ukuba "amahlaya" abo anokuyichukumisa ngokwenene le ntombazana, kwaye akukho mbuzo wokusebenzisa le ndlela. Ukuba kwiminyaka engama-40 eyadlulayo, amagqabantshintshi anjalo anokwenziwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo, namhlanje namhlanje ukuqiqa malunga nokulwa kunye neenkolelo zeqabane lakho kukuba "injongo" yakhe - ukuzala, kuya kuba yinto yokugqibela ekufuneka uyixubushe- umfazi ayizukuphazamisa umntu, akakwazi ukuxhathisa izimvo ezingafanelekanga.
Sukuhlala ngokwakho
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Ukungaqhelekanga
Akukho mntu uyakwazi ukubonisa inkanuko kwaye uyeke izimvo ezinqamlekileyo xa uwedwa, nangona kunjalo, umdla oqhubekayo kwesi sihloko ngaphandle kwegumbi lokulala usenokungadideki. Khumbula ukuba ukuncoma i-vlgaric ukuncoma akuzange kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba i-tencondent yemigaqo. Ukuba unomdla wokwenene kwintombazana kwaye unethemba lokuseka unxibelelwano, kungcono ukunika amahlaya aseSebaceous kunye nokugqabaza kwiimpawu zangaphandle zomfazi.
I-narcissus "kwisikwere"
Ewe kunjalo, kubalulekile ukukhulisa ukuzithemba kunye nokukwazi ukumelana nokuhlaselwa kwengqondo, ngelixa kunqabile ukuba ungabi nakholo lwakho ngexesha lonxibelelwano nabantu obafunayo. Khumbula: Nabani na ubalulekile ukuva izinto ezimnandi kwidilesi yakho, kwaye ke ngoko cima ingqalelo kwiqabane lakho, eliya kuthi limangalise ngokunomdla kuwe. UMTHETHO!
Ukutyeba kakhulu
Abafazi abaninzi abakhola bangenamandla abayi kunyamezela abagqatswa abangabalingane. Ngamanye amaxesha umntu akafuni kuthatha ukwala ukubonelela, ukuqhubeka nokuzama ukuqhubeka nokubonisa incoko. Ukongeza kuburharha, kwimeko enjalo, isini esahlukileyo akufuneki sibale ntoni, kuba umonde neyona ntombazana intle kakhulu inomda. Ukuba uyabona ukuba intombazana ayilungiswanga ukuba inxibelelane, kungcono ukunikezela xa uthandana kwaphela - kubalulekile ukuba uthathele ingqalelo imeko yomntu oza kuboyikisa incoko.