Rhoqo, abasetyhini baqinisekile ukuba kwakamsinya nje ukuba kufike ngokwesondo, indoda sele "epokothweni," kodwa ukusondela akuqinisekisi ukuba loo mntu uza kuhlala naye. Abafazi abaninzi bahlala besenza impazamo efanayo - bakholelwa ukuba isondo kukuvumela ukuba "ujijethe" umntu njengoko uthanda. Hayi. Siza kukuxelela ukuba leliphi na ixesha lonxibelelwano kufuneka linikele ingqalelo ukuba le ndoda isekutyuleyo ayibaleki emva konxibelelwano lokuqala (nokuba unesondo izihlandlo ezininzi).
Musa ukunyanzela
Kuba indoda ayikho ubusuku abangaphezulu kwentombi enkulu. Ewe, udibene ngokwaneleyo, kodwa akuthethi ukuba lixesha lokwazi ngendoda entsha nabahlobo bakhe kunye nezihlobo zakhe-kukunika omabini ixesha ukuba liqiniseke ngesimo semanyano yakho. Ilibale inani lefowuni yakhe kwaye alikhubeki "imifanekiso" entle "kunye ne-emoji-icaphukisa kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ayinagalelo kuphuhliso lweemvakalelo ezithambileyo kuwe.
Kuya kufuneka azi into oyithandayo
Uninzi lwamadoda lucinga ngesondo njengoqinisekiso lwendoda yabo, kwaye ngenxa yoko isiphumo senkqubo asibalulekanga kunoMthetho. Indoda ibalulekile ukwazi ukuba yonke into ibingekho lilize, kwaye wanelisekile ukuba awukayi. Ewe kunjalo, asingabo bonke abaneemvakalelo, kodwa nangayiphi na imeko, iqabane lakho kufuneka liqiniseke ukuba unomdla kwindlela akuchukumisa ngayo. Sukungabi sisidenge kwiimvakalelo, uya kuyibulela.
Vula amava amatsha.
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Sukulinda kakhulu
Nokuba kwiveki yokuqala yonxibelelwano, indoda yayikuthwala ezandleni zayo, ivulekile ngezipho kwaye ngaphandle kwento yokuba eyona nto iphambili yenzekile phakathi kwakho, musa ukulungiselela ukuqhubeka kwayo, Akunakwenzeka ukuba unethemba lokuba indoda ithanda kakhulu, akunakwenzeka. Zama ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye, funda umntu ukuba ukuthanda kwakhe okuqhubayo akupheli kwiinyanga ezimbini zonxibelelwano, ngalo mzuzu ungacinga ukuba ubudlelwane bakho buza kufumana inyani yokwenyani.
Ungamvumeli ukuba adinwe
Amadoda athanda iintlobo ngeentlobo, kwaye ekuqaleni kobudlelwane kwiqabane elimangalisayo lube lula. Zama ukuqesha umhla kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo, kwaye unike umsebenzi owahlukileyo, kwaye funa imidlalo eyahlukeneyo - ukudlala indima yokudlala, iposti engaqhelekanga kunye neendawo ziya kumbonisa ukuba ulungele ukufumana iimvavanyo.