Masizame ukufumanisa ukuba ungayiyeka njani "ukutshisa" ngokwakho kwaye uzame ukuqwalasela ngenyameko iingxaki zakho.
Okokuqala kufuneka ufunde into enye, kodwa umgaqo obaluleke kakhulu-akukho bantu bafanelekileyo. Batsho inzala, beka kwimyuziyam. Kwaye yinyani ngokupheleleyo! Wonke umntu unezingca, kwaye umahluko kuphela ngokunxulumene nabo. Umzekelo, umntu othile unexhala malunga noku, kwaye umntu othile, ngokuchasene noko, akazikhathaleli kuyo kwaye onwabile ebomini. Endaweni yokusilela ngokwakho, unganikeli ingqalelo kwiithayile ezicaphukisayo, kufuneka ixesha elininzi leeyure ezimbalwa ukuqaphela ukuba ishishini lakho alikho gwenxa, ubhala Tata.a.
Okokuqala, kufuneka iqondwe ukuba iintsomi lutshaba lwakho lokwenyani. Banokuphazamisana naliphi na ishishini, baqala ngomsebenzi kwaye baphele ngobomi bomntu. Akukho mntu ungaqinisekanga ngaphakathi kuye ngokukhawuleza: Inikwe ukuthunyelwa ngokungalingani kwaye ijonge kumgangatho weliso. Inye kuphela into ekunokuthiwa yona ngaye: Uphazanyiswe kakhulu ziimpazamo zangaphandle, ukuba akukho buso, akukho mlilo emehlweni. Kodwa eyona nto imbi kukuba ubomi bunqabile kuwe kwaphela, kwaye wena. Izizathu zamava, enyanisweni, hayi kakhulu. Ingxaki nganye inokususwa, ukuba ayikho ngesidima, oko kukuqinisekiswa ngokuqinisekileyo.
Apho kufuneka uqala umsebenzi nani. Okokuqala, kufuneka uzithande. Thanda loo nto. Ewe kunjalo, imeko yethu ilungiselelwe ukuze sizithelekise nabanye abantu. Kodwa akufanelekanga ukwenza le nto, kuba kuhlala kukho le, enemilenze emide, kwaye uncumo kwikona, kwaye iinwele zinzima. Kodwa kule nto, ubomi abupheli ... Ngokuqinisekileyo, unengqiqweni yekratshi. Hayi enye.
Umzekelo, ndinobunzima ngembonakalo ebonisiweyo kubuntwana obunzulu. Emgadi, ndakhwankqiswa ngenxa yokubumba endingenayo, ngendlela, ndingakwazanga ukulungiswa, ngaphandle kweminyaka emininzi yeendidi ezikhuthazayo ngesifo sentetho. Esikolweni, kwi-schcherbhanbna phakathi kwamazinyo, enkosi apho zonke iifoto zam zolutsha zaphuphuma ngumbala ocacileyo "ngaphandle kwamazinyo." Ndandihlala nale misi seminyaka ukuya kwele 20, emva koko ndaye ndaqonda ukuba, ngokukhulu, ayibalulekanga. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, akukho mntu xa unxibelelana nam ungayixabisi "ukukhula" kwam okanye amazinyo. Kwaye abaninzi baqhele kwaye bonke bafumana "i-RRRRR" yam "yam :) kwaye yonke into iqhelekile kakhulu eShcherbinka ukuba xa, kwingcebiso yogqirha wamazinyo, kwafuneka asuswe, wonke umntu wathi babulele ubuntu bam. Nasi esinye isikhombisi sokuba zonke izinto zethu ezihamba nazo ziqhagamshele ngokupheleleyo!
Ke ngoko, zama ukufumana amandla kuwe, kuba akukho bantu njengabaquka amatyala. I-Meccecce Autotraive. Yonke imihla. Umzekelo, ukhula ngokukhululekileyo iimfanelo, ngakumbi zombini ukuya kwisipili kwaye uzincumile. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, zinike ixesha kuwe kwaye uyeke ukufumana abanye. Unezinto zethu kunye nezinto endizithandayo. Qala uhlonipha njengomntu. Phuhlisa. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kokukhona izibonelelo ezininzi onazo, kuya kuba lula ukulibala malunga neentsilelo. Ekugqibeleni, jongana nokulungiswa kweempazamo zakho. Akukho zinwele zintle kakhulu zinokunyangwa, imilenze emifutshane yandisa isithende, i-kilogram eyongezelelweyo-Susa ejimini. Ukusuka kwi-psychologicals supestalies ukususa ikhosi, hayi ilula, kodwa kunokwenzeka. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu apha kukungalibali ukuba i-Wedge iyakhutshwa ngumtshato. Sebenza wena kwaye ungabaphulaphuli abanye.