Igama elithi "Itiquette" liqhelekile kwabaninzi, kodwa kubonakala ngathi yinto ekude kwaye iphantsi ebomini bethu kwanamhlanje. Sonke ukusukela ukuba ubuntwana bafundise "Ziphathe kakuhle", kodwa njengoko bambalwa kwaye, baba ngabantu abadala, bagqibe ngokwabo. Iziphumo zolu khetho zinokujongwa yonke imihla ebomini bethu. Umzekelo, ngoku ugqalwa yinto eqhelekileyo xa ibhinqa libiza indoda kuqala, kwaye emva komhla umcela ukuba ahlawulele. Okanye abaninzi, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngaphezu kokubona imeko xa amadoda akayiqwalaseli imfuneko ukuba inikezele kwinenekazi elilungele bona kumama. Kwaye mininzi imizekelo! Ukulibala malunga nesiqhelo kunye nokuziphatha, sihamba sihamba kude kuluntu oluhlelelekileyo kwaye size kwiziphithiphithi ngokupheleleyo kunye nokungaqondi kakuhle indlela yokuphila nokwakha ubudlelwane nabanye. Ukunqongophala kwamathambo amabi ngokuziphatha, ukwehla kwinqanaba lenkcubeko yokomoya neyokuziphatha kuyinyani. Sihlala sijamelene neemeko zobomi eziqinisekisa ukuba uluntu lwanamhlanje lufuna imvuselelo kunye nophuhliso lwenkcubeko yokuziphatha neyemilinganiselo yokuziphatha.
Ewe kunjalo, unokuphikisana ixesha elide ukuba "into elungileyo nembi," kodwa kukho imigaqo ethile yokuziphatha kwabantu eluntwini ngokuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha. Le yi-Etiquette. Kwaye le ayisiyonto yam, kodwa yingcinga yokwenene engacingi nje.
Ngoku ukuze uphumelele kwaye udume nakweyiphi na indawo, nokuba yinkampani enobuhlobo, imeko yeshishini okanye ubudlelwane bakho, ijongeka ilungile kwaye ifundiswe. Ngokuchanekileyo uthi "dibana nempahla-bahamba nengqondo." Kodwa ukungazi ngendlela elungileyo kunokubangela yonke imbonakalo yomntu, nokuba inenkangeleko entle kwaye inediploma ebomvu.
I-Etiquette yiyonke izimbo zomzimba, ekufuneka ihlawulwe kuqwalaselo olukhethekileyo, kuba zinceda ekwenzeni umbono wokuqala nolandelayo. Ngapha koko, kubalulekile kungekuphela nje emsebenzini, kodwa kwakwabomi bakho, kwaye, kunjalo, kwintsapho. Kwaye unezakhono zokunxibelelana ngokulula kunye ne-Etiquette, ngamnye kuthi uyakwazi ukwakha ubomi obonwabisayo nobemnandi eluntwini. Obu bomi aphuphayo malunga.