Izifundo ezininzi ezenzisanda kutshanje zangqina ukuba amadoda amaninzi nabafazi abaninzi bakhalaza malunga neminyaka engama-30 bakhalaza ngokukhathala. Kwaye hayi ngokomzimba, kodwa kukuziphatha. Ngenxa yoko, ukudinwa okungapheliyo kufunyenwe ukuthandwa, esele sisifo senkulungwane. Ewe kunjalo, wabandezeleka ngaphambili, kuphela yayibizwa ngokuba yi-Eles "NeuraSheninia", yaye yayifumana ikakhulu kumantombazana angcangcazelayo. Kwakholelwa ukuba indoda ehlala ixakekile, i-Previesi ayinakubandezeleka kwi-hypochondria. Ngoku esi sifo sibambe wonke umntu. Nditsho nokusebenza. Nabantu. Kuyinyani, oku kungachazwa yinyani yokuba umsebenzi wale mihla wahluke kakhulu kugqibini: Phambi kokuba abantu babediniwe, besenza iPiramidi yeHlabathi yeHlabathi, kwaye ngoku ihleli imini yonke ngaphambi kokubek 'esweni.
Kule mihla, umsebenzi ophelileyo utshintshile: Akunyanzelekanga ukuba kudala into kangangeenkulungwane, kuya kufuneka ubuncinci busindise impilo yakho yokomoya. "Isifo seJapan", sithwele kakhulu isizukulwana esineminyaka engamashumi amathathu ananye, kwaye ukuhamba okungapheliyo kucebisa ukuba uninzi lwethu alunakuzifumana kule ngxolo kwaye bafumane uxolo lwengqondo.
Izazinzulu zibiza isifo esona sifo sine-tigrome. Kwaye intetho apha ayikho kwaphela malunga nemeko yomzimba. Nangona, kunjalo, ukudinwa kokuziphatha, ukubeka impatho yayo: Umzimba wabuthathaka, uxinzelelo lwehla, inkanuko inyamalala. Ewe, kwaye ufumane isizathu esinye sesifo esitsha soluntu akukaphumeleli. Kodwa, ukugweba ngokuvobela, kulungelelaniswe ngezentlalontle, kunokugqitywa ukuba ukudinwa kokuziphatha rhoqo 'kuhlaselo "kwabo bangonelisekanga bubomi babo okanye umsebenzi, ubhala tata.
Luvela phi olo nzongolo? Okokuqala, ukusuka kwinto yokuba sonke sihlala kwindawo enkulu enezinto ezinkulu ze-stereotypes, kwaye uninzi lwethu la mastereotypes liza kuthobela umz. Sikhona phantsi kweyona cinezeli yenyani: Sifumana imfundo kuphela kuba iyimfuneko, kuba ngaphandle komsebenzi oqhelekileyo ngoku abacwangcisi; Bangabi ngabo bafuna ukuba yiyo, kwaye abo bafuna ukubona abazali bethu; Siphenduka kugqatso lwekomkhulu, nto leyo ekugqibeleni lifumana kuphela umvuzo wengeniso. Kodwa eyona nto imbi kakhulu ayikho kule. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu kukuba ekuhambeni kwexesha, ingcinga enjalo ayisebenzi ngokupheleleyo-ngenye imini uya kudinwa. Kwaye, iya kuqaphela "iMozulu yethu entle", phantse ukungabikho ngokupheleleyo kweemveliso ezisemgangathweni kunye nendlela yokuphila ephantsi. Voila! Kwaye sinayo into esinayo :)
Kubo bonke abo bafuna ukunyanga ukudinwa okungapheliyo, oochwephesha bengqondo bacebisa into enye: zama ukuphila ubomi bakho. Yenza into oyithandayo, sebenza kuphela apho ndiyazibuza, hlalani kuphela nabo bathanda. Ezi nyaniso ziyinkunzi ziya kukuvumela ukuba uphile ngenene!